Talk Dirty To Me

[SusieFritz]

My husband wants me to "talk dirty" to him. Not in a vulgar way ("be my cock-whore"), but in a sexy/dirty/sweet way.

I need something more than the "oh baby" or "oh God", but not something quite as drastic as "pound my pussy with that hard cock, you beast".

He always says "tell me what you want". And while I know what I want, I can't quite verbalize it! (Yes, I'm shy, but am ready to break through the shell with some good ideas!)

Any ideas for sexy things to say during our intimate times? It doesn't have to be just for during sex, but during oral and even anal.

Any helpful tips and suggestions on how to make my man happy, I would greatly appreciate!

 

[reddcutie]

whisper in his ear..

i used to be shy like that...

here are some good words.....

tease my-------
yes-------if feel your---
flick it
so hot
tell me when to cum..
watch me.....

 

[SweetErika]

I'm not a natural dirty-talker, so I know how you're feeling. A couple of things have helped though. One is to just expand on what you're already saying. For example, say, "Oh god, I love how you feel inside of me." Then, the next time, you can try being a little more explicit (e.g. "I love how your hard cock fills my pussy."). It gets easier once you get over that initial hurdle and with time.

Another thing that helped me was starting with a simple expression of what I liked and wanted. Even being as basic as "rub my clit just like that" can get the ball rolling. Mentally think he has no idea what he's doing, and you have to teach him through words.

Finally, a little roleplaying did wonders for both of us (he wasn't comfortable with talking dirty either). Take a dominant role and make him tell you what he wants, respond to it using the same or similar phrases (it's easier to repeat something already said), and ask him questions using some more explicit language. Or, you can take a more submissive role and ask him to make you describe exactly what you want. I think it's easier because you can mentally write off your language and actions as part of the role. Once you start, you'll likely be a lot more comfortable doing it out of the role.

 

[crazybbwgirl]

Another way to 'practice' is to write about it. Getting the words down on paper first seems to help me be able to say them out loud later on. I still have a hard time talking dirty - but boy can I write dirty! lol