talked my wife into it

experience

[Either way, whatever your reaction is right then and there - blowing your wad in a greater way than every before - that is a 20 minute emotional high. Then there's the rest of your life to deal with, looking at your wife in a completely different way. And whilst you may get off sexually at that moment, that is no indicator of how you are going to feel emotionally about your wife and her relationship with you from now.]

Not saying you shouldn't do it. Just saying this kind of stuff can have long consequences.[/QUOTE]

Sounds as though you speak from experience, and I have discovered EXACTLY what you are talking about.

I don't think I want to discuss this anymore on a public forum. If anyone who has experienced these emotions wants to PM me I'll talk to them.
 
My only hope is that whatever you guys do going down the road, that you both remain happy with each other, and I say that, not in judgement, just that I hope it works out:). My only piece of advice is whatever your emotions are, share the with your wife and be clear about them. I would bet she has her own feelings about it and she may be torn, too, and it is important you guys know where each other are and realize that you are now in it together and it has to be shared with the feelings, too..
 
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