Tatoos not a turn on...

[Loverskitten]

Why do I want a virgin? Well I guess part of it is that I want to stap my flag in so to speak, but really its more so that I know that it was me and only me that conquested this "land." That make sense?

Haha so its part of the second one but without me being a virgin. lol

x10000000

 

[Stella_Omega]

x10000000

To each his own. but me, I like scars and the evidence of life being lived. I hate ignorance, which to most people equals innocence. I have no respect or concern for virginity, and in fact-- penis in vag isn't the only kind of sex out there anyway. I could take your girl, make love to her fifty ways, and she would still be a "virgin" once we were finally done.

But she would know too much to care about such a meaningless thing.

 

[geekmaster24]

To each his own. but me, I like scars and the evidence of life being lived. I hate ignorance, which to most people equals innocence. I have no respect or concern for virginity, and in fact-- penis in vag isn't the only kind of sex out there anyway. I could take your girl, make love to her fifty ways, and she would still be a "virgin" once we were finally done.

But she would know too much to care about such a meaningless thing.

Yeah that so made me cringe and want to say some protective things.

I understand what you mean, but it is just my opinion and not others...

 

[Stella_Omega]

Yeah that so made me cringe and want to say some protective things.

I understand what you mean, but it is just my opinion and not others...

Totally!

And honestly, you made that quite clear from the beginning.

I like that about you.

 

[geekmaster24]

Well considering I've been a bit redundant about it. I sure hope I made it clear. lol

 

[Stella_Omega]

Thing is, I actually belong to a "sub rescue" group. And ignorance is the worst danger to most young women-- sub men, too. We try to educate before they get caught up in the co-dependent games that pass for D/s in most circles. All too often we end up counseling and repairing psyches

There's a brotherhood that tries to grab Dom wannabes before they hurt someone- and a female domme group as well. But it's a huge city.

 

[geekmaster24]

Thing is, I actually belong to a "sub rescue" group. And ignorance is the worst danger to most young women-- sub men, too. We try to educate before they get caught up in the co-dependent games that pass for D/s in most circles. All too often we end up counseling and repairing psyches

There's a brotherhood that tries to grab Dom wannabes before they hurt someone- and a female domme group as well. But it's a huge city.

I know what you mean. I've been doing this a year and half. My experience in this lifestyle has taught me more than I every thought possible. While I'm still learning, I went into this knowing that if I wanted to take control of a life basically I should be VERY careful.

The subs that I have had that have stayed with me more than three days all hold special spots in me.

My time in High School was not a very fun time. I never was much of lady's man in High School (partly cause I'm not much of a looker and at the time it was not so much about what you thought more about what you looked like).

So to finally find females that you know genuinely cared and wanted me for me rather than anything else well that was amazing. I guess that's probably why when asked, "Whats the first thing you learned about this lifestyle?" I answer, "Its addicting, and you will never be able to go back to a vanilla lifestyle without thinking about it differently."

Haha I've probably revealed more than I wanted to, but what the hell I feel like saying something today.

And we have completely gone off topic lol.

 

[Stella_Omega]

While I'm still learning, I went into this knowing that if I wanted to take control of a life basically I should be VERY careful.

I would LOVE to tattoo this on some people's foreheads!

See what i did there?

 

[geekmaster24]

I would LOVE to tattoo this on some people's foreheads!

See what i did there?

Clever, minx.

Now if I could only get some kind of response to my ad. Kills me to see the idiots get replies when I sit at none. Okay maybe I should not call them idiots, but you know what I mean. Oh well as they say patience is a virtue.

 

[geronimo_appleby]

It's true he is

Ohhh I have piercings too Well everyone's taste is different I wouldn't want my arms covered in tattoo's etc but I love to look at other people's artwork/ink and find out the story behind them

oi!

... oh, but hang on ...

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Clever, minx.

Now if I could only get some kind of response to my ad. Kills me to see the idiots get replies when I sit at none. Okay maybe I should not call them idiots, but you know what I mean. Oh well as they say patience is a virtue.

Yes, but you have to look at the quality of the replies the idiots are getting, and remind yourself, you don't want *those*.

Let them have each other, yours will come along. She's getting there as fast as she can.

 

[ArchLady03]

Tattoos aren't necessarily a "turn off" for me, but I'll admit there have been some I've seen on guys that have made me do a double-take.

At this point I don't sport any tattoos, but should a major, life-changing, view-altering event occur in my life I may be so inclined to mark myself with it.

 

[geekmaster24]

Yes, but you have to look at the quality of the replies the idiots are getting, and remind yourself, you don't want *those*.

Let them have each other, yours will come along. She's getting there as fast as she can.

Ahh gotta love that quote. Is that oringinally from "How I met your mother?" or somewhere else?

At this point I don't sport any tattoos, but should a major, life-changing, view-altering event occur in my life I may be so inclined to mark myself with it.

See even if a life changing event happens, I still do not think I would want to mark myself with ink. With that said and knowing luck sometimes, I'm sure in the next few days something will happen to change my mind...

 

[StrayKat]

Clever, minx.

Now if I could only get some kind of response to my ad. Kills me to see the idiots get replies when I sit at none. Okay maybe I should not call them idiots, but you know what I mean. Oh well as they say patience is a virtue.

Realizing that you dont always get what you want and when you want it in life is a virtue too. Even more so with relationships, they dont come as ordered but rather sneak up on you once you give up and just go on living your life.

 

[DVS]

Realizing that you dont always get what you want and when you want it in life is a virtue too. Even more so with relationships, they dont come as ordered but rather sneak up on you once you give up and just go on living your life.

This is nice and all, and what we tell people who seem to be always searching and never finding. It's also romantic to say you're searching too hard and if you just go on with your life, that perfect someone will find you.

It doesn't happen that way.

 

[YourCaptor]

One word, hipsters

Mother fuckers are ruining shit. Hipsters are to cool like epcot world showcase is to culture.

I love tattoos, but the next butterfly/fairy tramp stamp I see I'm gonna wish I had a penny for every butterfly/fairy tramp stamp I see.

Also lighter earthy tones look good on chicks instead of black.

Virgins though, what are you smocking.

You really think people are having sex sooner now than in the 70s, please.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Ahh gotta love that quote. Is that oringinally from "How I met your mother?" or somewhere else?

Guilty as charged.

It's a good philosophy though.

I also work with "It'll all be alright in the end. If it's not alright, then it's not the end"

 

[ownedsubgal]

This is nice and all, and what we tell people who seem to be always searching and never finding. It's also romantic to say you're searching too hard and if you just go on with your life, that perfect someone will find you.

It doesn't happen that way.

speaking from experience, it truly does. there's nothing romantic about it however. you have to be a in a place in life where you are really and truly not searching/hoping/wishing/trying, and where you have accepted your life and current status as is, good or bad. before i met Daddy i was 100% certain that no man would ever want to love/own/claim me, that i would never have any relationship with anyone beyond that of either friend or something to fuck when needed. i was not happy with this...in fact i was in a constant state of misery and depression over this. but i accepted it nonetheless, and did not for one moment expect or hope for anything different. and that is the place i was in when i became a slave, and was in that same place a year later when i fell in love with my Master.

also, it is not about that "perfect someone" finding you, it is about two well-suited people finding each other, each by simply living their lives and accepting those lives as is.

 

[StrayKat]

speaking from experience, it truly does. there's nothing romantic about it however. you have to be a in a place in life where you are really and truly not searching/hoping/wishing/trying, and where you have accepted your life and current status as is, good or bad. before i met Daddy i was 100% certain that no man would ever want to love/own/claim me, that i would never have any relationship with anyone beyond that of either friend or something to fuck when needed. i was not happy with this...in fact i was in a constant state of misery and depression over this. but i accepted it nonetheless, and did not for one moment expect or hope for anything different. and that is the place i was in when i became a slave, and was in that same place a year later when i fell in love with my Master.

also, it is not about that "perfect someone" finding you, it is about two well-suited people finding each other, each by simply living their lives and accepting those lives as is.

^^^ This. My life experience too.

DVS, I never said "stop looking completely". But certainly stop looking desperately and with expectations. Stop seeing potential SO in every passer by. Stop projecting your wants and needs on people who might be something completely different than what you want them to be.
Live your life. Socialize. Go out, meet people. Flirt. All that is part of normal living. But if your entire life is focused on finding the love of your life I guarantee you wont find it.

And what is that about perfect someone? None is perfect. Are you perfect?
Its about finding someone you can get along and find that little comfy niche for two (or three, four) where you can be reasonably happy. The whole idea about perfect someone is wrong on so many levels I wouldnt even know where to start explaining why. But I can assure you, as long as you are desperately and blindly looking for "love", you are not perfect enough to be attractive even to the most imperfect potential partners.

 

[KikiRose]

Stop seeing potential SO in every passer by. Stop projecting your wants and needs on people who might be something completely different than what you want them to be.
Live your life. Socialize. Go out, meet people. Flirt. All that is part of normal living. But if your entire life is focused on finding the love of your life I guarantee you wont find it.

Great advice for anybody. I have met people so intent on finding somebody "perfect" that they forget to have fun and just live. If you expect the world to just hand you the "perfect" person then you are never going to meet anybody worth knowing.

 

[DVS]

OK, I'm not saying it can't happen, because I'm sure it has. Even I've seen things happen that others might say can't. But for me, I can say that this situation hasn't and won't happen. I don't dwell on it, but I've been resolved to this fact for some time, now.

 

[butterfly_flip]

I tried very hard to not sound hostile or like I was trying to force people to assume my views. I all ready apologized saying that I did not mean any disrespect to anyone. Once again as I said all ready, I simply wanted to see if anyone else had my views. With that said if you do not have anything constructive to say nicely, I'd like to ask politely that anyone calls this "stupid" or "retarded." Thanks.

Don't apologise for having an opinion!
Gawd, life would be so boring if we all wanted the same things.

I love tats, don;'t currently have any, but that is to be changed soon. We're all different, all have things we prefer......that's life.

 

[StrayKat]

OK, I'm not saying it can't happen, because I'm sure it has. Even I've seen things happen that others might say can't. But for me, I can say that this situation hasn't and won't happen. I don't dwell on it, but I've been resolved to this fact for some time, now.

Well I am really sorry about that. You are smart and interesting person and I cant imagine you dont have to chase them off your front door with a broom every day.
Maybe its expectations? Or maybe you just dont socialize enough?

 

[lowcollar]

I couldn't care less who has tattoos. However, I truly love soft fair skin, both asthetically and to the touch. So, yes, for me, I don't prefer a lot of tattoos on a woman.

 

[Stan_the_skin]

I have quite a few, non visible if I wear long sleeves and jeans/trousers. I love seeing them on a woman, but I tend to draw the line with face neck and hands. Now I'm not saying it's horrible, or disgusting, each to their own. But just my preference, would not turn down a woman if she had them, and was interested in showing me them and anymore she may have. Live and let live, it's not a crime (yet)..