Tell Them what you think about them, Good or Bad.

[SpicyBean99]

Last month we spent some time talking and since then… well..xwhenever I’ve been back on lit, we have exchanged lengthy back and forths. You are so interesting to talk too, I could learn a million things from you I’m sure. Your background is rich and you come from a place of such deep understanding, not empathy, a real and pure understanding that most people lack. You’re yet to freak at my contradictions, you don’t fill my inbox when I go quiet, or when I disappear into the ether for a few days. You’re right there picking it up where we left. I wish I could bottle that first feeling I had when you wrote me that segment and mentioned hands… that’s all I’ll say. Fuck. I’m sorry I’m so fucking inconsistent. I hope we can talk again soon.

I should never have told you about lit. I can’t hide anything from you again, or keep this part of my life secret. I feel watched, like I’m airing my dirty laundry for you to see and quite possibly laugh at. There were things you said to me and did that I will never get over, you know what they are… and the fact I let you into such a vulnerable place, a place that I thought you could share with me…. for this to happen? For you to make me feel dirty? Like I’m an awful person for forgetting? (You know what I’m talking about too…) I want to say I’m sorry but… well I am sorry for forgetting but it felt like such a small thing and I didn’t deserve those messages. Anyway…. It’s a shame it all boiled down to this.

 

[Neanderthal247]

Whenever I see writing in blue, I know it's going to be negative and when I see writing in red, I know it's going to be full of flattering words

 

[barefootgirl69]

Whenever I see writing in blue, I know it's going to be negative and when I see writing in red, I know it's going to be full of flattering words

This should say a lot about behaviors.

 

[jason28053]

No. I’m not sure what this new situation is, but I don’t entirely trust it.

Verify before trust

 

[Neanderthal247]

This should say a lot about behaviors.

Dammit


Why these mfers got to fuck shit up


I just find it funny, I see nothing wrong with it, I know it's not me.

 

[Wand3rlust]

nope. Still don't get it. But. You do you, boo.

 

[MidwestPrincess23]

I will prove you wrong, Sir...

It was always you. Thank you for being exactly who you are and for believing in me even when I doubted myself. You’ve always had my back, kept me steady, and reminded me of what really matters. You were my friend first... when I needed one most, and over time you became so much more. You are my safe place, my home - the person I didn’t even realize I was searching for until I found you. It was always you...

 

[cole4258]

I will prove you wrong, Sir...

It was always you. Thank you for being exactly who you are and for believing in me even when I doubted myself. You’ve always had my back, kept me steady, and reminded me of what really matters. You were my friend first... when I needed one most, and over time you became so much more. You are my safe place, my home - the person I didn’t even realize I was searching for until I found you. It was always you...

I think you are a sweet sexy lady. Daring and adventurous

 

[AmberLGreen]

There is something “off” with you but I can’t quite put my finger on it. You sound and act intelligent but then ask some of the dumbest questions. There is something very fake in your behaviour

Don’t go sulking on me. You knew what you were getting into and I have continued to make that very clear

 

[Sexy_Singer]

Don’t go sulking on me. You knew what you were getting into and I have continued to make that very clear

But I told you I loved the song.

 

[cheekygirl75]

You sound and act intelligent but then ask some of the dumbest questions

I just have brain farts sometimes, ok??

 

[PotNoodle79]

Just SAY something when you want your thread bumped! Don't just do what you do, because it's so dumb.
IMO.
(Yes, my patience is thin this evening)

 

[Anastasia1999]

Just SAY something when you want your thread bumped! Don't just do what you do, because it's so dumb.
IMO.
(Yes, my patience is thin this evening)

You are more akin to a sumptuous ragu bolognese than a humble pot noodle methinks……

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

Sometimes I wonder if it would literally kill you to be nice.

 

[Wand3rlust]

Let's see.

You look love......
......
.....
*thud*

*ghostly whispers* it seems so.....

 

[Xerxes82]

Sometimes I wonder if it would literally kill you to be nice.

Probably. Just spontaneously stroke out right on the spot. That would actually explain a few people.

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

Sometimes I wonder if it would literally kill you to be nice.

It would but I think you might be color blind. (blue is my color)

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

It would but I think you might be color blind. (blue is my color)

You know I have no problem telling you what I think.

 

[dkak001]

I know you're having a rough time. But if I reach out to say "Hi", you'll probably take it the wrong way.
It's just me being friendly, and having a genuine concern for your well being. Having had to deal with my
own shit recently, I have sympathy for you in what you are going through. I really have no other motives,
you won't see it that way. No one ever does. In any case, wishing you the best and hope things turn around soon.

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

I know you're having a rough time. But if I reach out to say "Hi", you'll probably take it the wrong way.
It's just me being friendly, and having a genuine concern for your well being. Having had to deal with my
own shit recently, I have sympathy for you in what you are going through. I really have no other motives,
you won't see it that way. No one ever does. In any case, wishing you the best and hope things turn around soon.

Speaking for myself, 100% of my messages these days are platonic. Even though I don't currently trust any man relationship wise, I'm still a chatty Cathy. She could be too, you never know!

 

[AllAmericanMale]

I know you're having a rough time. But if I reach out to say "Hi", you'll probably take it the wrong way.
It's just me being friendly, and having a genuine concern for your well being. Having had to deal with my
own shit recently, I have sympathy for you in what you are going through. I really have no other motives,
you won't see it that way. No one ever does. In any case, wishing you the best and hope things turn around soon.

I wonder, sometimes, about the frequency of this on lit. I do not initiate contact much. The times that I have, it's been received well and reciprocated in the spirit in which it was intended (something about that person piqued my interest and I said hi because I found them interesting).

Conversation ensues and it's either fostered or it fizzled. I find it interesting none the less while it runs it's course.

There are times when I have been ignored, but not many. I contemplate why, but never dwell on it. There's any number of reasons a simple "Hello" will go unanswered. I suppose an assumption of an ulterior motive could be one of the reasons.

 

[AmberLGreen]

I know you're having a rough time. But if I reach out to say "Hi", you'll probably take it the wrong way.
It's just me being friendly, and having a genuine concern for your well being. Having had to deal with my
own shit recently, I have sympathy for you in what you are going through. I really have no other motives,
you won't see it that way. No one ever does. In any case, wishing you the best and hope things turn around soon.

Reach out. You never know how much they might appreciate it or need it. Reading between the lines of your post, you and this person are not messaging each other at the moment. If you reach out and they don’t respond the you would be in the same messaging situation that you are in now. If they do respond, then you know they appreciate the support and that you are a friend who has their back

 

[Chillygirl]

I am so, so sorry I’ve been such a shitty friend. You have always supported me 100% and have always been thoughtful and kind to me. I never meant to hurt your feelings or make you think I didn’t care. You are one of my most dearest friends and I don’t ever want to hurt you.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

You intrigue me, on a fundamental level. I'm excited to get to learn more about you.

You are one of the sweetest people on here. It seems like you may be going through a bit of a rough patch right now and I hate that, but I hope you know that you have folks rooting for you, including myself!!

Your interactions with me are very hot/cold. I may not say anything but trust me, I'm noticing a pattern, so do not take me for a fool.

 

[PenetratingIntelligence]

I’ll never understand why requesting some measure of reason is such a big ask. That said, onward and upward.