Tell Us Something You Suck At

[AlpineFresco]

I think that's closer to the point.
I find small talk pointless and irritating and unless I like the person I will almost immediately want to disengaged from whatever vapid nonsense is being discussed. Unfortunately I am frequently in rooms with A) dislikeable people and B) vapid people

I used to hate small talk but I taught myself to be good at it regardless 'cause it's a useful skill. Then I moved to a country where I had to learn (and am still learning) the language and suddenly small talk was firmly off the table and good god do I miss it. So many small interactions that would be easy, quick, fun, in English become stressful or downright impossible (for the moment) and I'm looking forward to when I can get that here.

 

[Sol41]

Dealing with bugs of any sort

 

[FreckledSprite]

Emotional Permanence


Gotta be strong in that when your husband and affair partner are both INTJs.

 

[MindYaBitness]

-Throwing any kind of ball/sportsing in general
-sentimentality & emotional attachment to objects
-feeling dependent in any way
-letting anyone help me
-not judging tiny dog owners (they're just cats that bark!)
-not spilling things on the chest-shelf of my shirts & dresses
....too many to list!

 

[CuriousRick]

First impressions.

 

[MindYaBitness]

First impressions.

Totally get this. People have strong reactions, they either love me or hate me from square one.

 

[CuriousRick]

Totally get this. People have strong reactions, they either love me or hate me from square one.

I am sure way more love then hate!

 

[MindYaBitness]

I am sure way more love then hate!

Eh, depends. I've figured out over the years thsr if your secure & confident, you'll like me. If you just try to appear confident, but are secretly insecure, you'll feel threatened by me.

 

[CuriousRick]

Eh, depends. I've figured out over the years thsr if your secure & confident, you'll like me. If you just try to appear confident, but are secretly insecure, you'll feel threatened by me.

Well I am sure you have a lot more positive first interactions then me. LOL

 

[mnbreastluver]

Playing the air guitar using my penis.

 

[badjanus]

Self awareness.
You either have it or you don't.

 

[badjanus]

Emotional Permanence


Gotta be strong in that when your husband and affair partner are both INTJs.

Someone has a type!

 

[Shenanigans90]

-letting anyone help me

This is a mighty struggle for me.

 

[ShowMeYourSmile]

At times….being patient…

 

[mnbreastluver]

Being as mechanical as I’d like to be.

 

[JustAnotherFlower]

Knowing when to stop/give up.

 

[cactusjack0584]

Sooo many things… but currently being accepting of me, like who I actually am not who I pretend to be most times

 

[Dayhoosier]

Sleep apparently

 

[FreckledSprite]

Combatting limerence

 

[Neanderthal247]

Totally get this. People have strong reactions, they either love me or hate me from square one.

When I first met you, you were always arguing with me, so at that moment I didn't like you ( first impression, I don't rememberif it was under my current username or a previous one ), but you have the ability to change it, if the other person is fair and open minded. Today I see you as intelligent, fun, strong, emphatic and I admire you as a human being. We don't talk much and not close, but I have eyes and it's obvious to see.