That time of the month

[Guest]

All I know about that 'time of the month' is from my last relationship.

At the beginning of she kept track.

At the end of it, I did.

i wish i could say i dont get what you mean...
but i do

 

[SeaCat]

And people wonder why I bought my wife a T-Shirt that says; "I have P.M.S. and a gun, any stupid questions?"

Oh yeah, her handgun goes in the safe until it's over.

Cat

 

[~hellbaby~]

Horny-ness & PMS

It's not just you,right before the major PMS kicks in all I want to do is have sex. Last month I burnt out two vibes

 

[Guest]

And this is a survival trait?

All you ladies - and the other however many billion - have my deepest sympathy, gentle cuddles and strokes when- and where-ever you need 'em.

(roses all round)

Eff

to you, sweet gentleman.

I'm very emotional during those few days, usually in extremes. I'm at times weepy and then suddenly and extremely annoyed.

I crave cuddling - need to feel protected and loved. And other times I can't stand to be touched. It is quite uncomfortable (and pretty damn unfair) to be at the mercy of a few stray hormones.

So it seems many Lit ladies are on a similar timeframe? This fact of life appears to be hitting many of us right now.



You know, that could have a major effect (at least once a month) on the wild flirting threads.

 

[Guest]

deleted double post (see how emotional I am???)

 

[wishfulthinking]

I don't get the cramps or pain or anything. I go into 'take no prisoners' mode. I want when I want. Guys seem to love it. The nastier I am, the more they come back begging for more. > That is the first 3 days.

Then I lose all energy for the next 3. I eat choc after choc after choc for the happy hormones and the sugar, but I end up losing 1-2 kilos, sometimes more. Then the bitch is really home

As to you English gals (Lou and EL ), I took me a couple of months in the UK to figure out what 'I'm on' meant! [as in, not on drugs!]

 

[bg23]

Always known for cramps, aches, bitchiness and general blahness. Then why do women (or is it just me) feel extremely horny( for want of a better word)?

It's not just you. I get it too. I resemble a nymphomaniac even more than I usually do.

 

[Sabledrake]

And this is a survival trait?

It's all the fault of the men ... once primates started developing big brains and having to give birth to smaller and weaker infants needing care for a longer stretch of time, females had to find some way to keep the males around to protect and bring food. So that "one estrus a year" thing went out the evolutionary window. Having available sex all the time proved too tempting for the man-apes to resist. Hence, society came to be.

Sabledrake

 

[Guest]

It's all the fault of the men ... once primates started developing big brains and having to give birth to smaller and weaker infants needing care for a longer stretch of time, females had to find some way to keep the males around to protect and bring food. So that "one estrus a year" thing went out the evolutionary window. Having available sex all the time proved too tempting for the man-apes to resist. Hence, society came to be.

Sabledrake

Well, I never knew that before!

"Having available sex all the time proved too tempting for the man-apes to resist." Nothing's changed much since then, I note (TFFT!).

Thanks for the interesting info, Sabledrake.

Lou

 

[doormouse]

OMG horny is the last thing on my mind lol

I'm always ropeable a day or two after it

 

[Riven___Caulfield]

It's always interesting to learn which style your girlfriend suffers. Naturally I've always preferred the I-Get-Horny way, but when you're dating younger women (as I did) they often take some convincing that it's still okay to get sexual.

A shame - a dirty, sticky shame.

 

[Sabledrake]

Well, I never knew that before!

"Having available sex all the time proved too tempting for the man-apes to resist." Nothing's changed much since then, I note (TFFT!).

Thanks for the interesting info, Sabledrake.

Lou

Too true, too true! When researching Naughty and Dice, I sort of did my informal postgraduate work as a sexual anthropologist and historian. You should see my bookshelf!

One theory I heard for why some women are insatiable during their periods is because they know (even subconsciously) that they're at the lowest risk for pregnancy so it's okay to go wild.

Plus, orgasm relieves cramps. Recommended.

On an entirely different note, I think Horny Man-Apes would be a good name for a band.

Sabledrake

 

[Guest]

. . .

On an entirely different note, I think Horny Man-Apes would be a good name for a band.

Sabledrake

LOL!!!!!




http://www.addis-welt.de/smilie/smilie/musik/band.gif

 

[U4ea]

And this is a survival trait?

All you ladies - and the other however many billion - have my deepest sympathy, gentle cuddles and strokes when- and where-ever you need 'em.

(roses all round)

Eff

Awww...thanks, dear!

Now, if I could get my husband do that, we'd be in there...

*laughs*

Ya know, I'm not sure when we started messing around during that time of the month. He mentioned once that he'd heard women are more sensative during that time and wondered if it was true, so we tried. I guess we haven't stopped since...

*grins* lucky me...

 

[fifty5]

Awww...thanks, dear!

Now, if I could get my husband do that, we'd be in there...

*laughs*

From the male side, I'd just remind you ladies to let him know what you want - out loud. From what I've seen, 99 out of 100 folk (both sexes), get sucked into their own lives - so even when they want the best of best for their partner, their own work, problems, challenges, whatever, distract from working out what their SO needs. Cut that link by telling us about it (when you're 'coming on', how you feel before after and during, as well as about all your other needs and wishes) - and quite a lot of us will try to help. Leave us to work it out for ourselves and we'll be thinking about that report, or whatever, and not notice until we've done shit and you're boiling over already.

I met my wife at uni - and while we shared the student lifestyle, including many of the same courses, I knew from what was happening to me, what was happening to her. Then we left and got married. Different jobs, different pressures, different issues - and I treated her like shit! Not because I meant to, but because I simply didn't know. I'm so glad that she stuck it out - and eventually we learned to pass the knowledge by telling each other about things, so (I hope) I treat her better.

I wish we were telepathic, but we ain't, so spell it out for us, please.

Eff

 

[Goldie Munro]

From the male side, I'd just remind you ladies to let him know what you want - out loud. From what I've seen, 99 out of 100 folk (both sexes), get sucked into their own lives - so even when they want the best of best for their partner, their own work, problems, challenges, whatever, distract from working out what their SO needs. Cut that link by telling us about it (when you're 'coming on', how you feel before after and during, as well as about all your other needs and wishes) - and quite a lot of us will try to help. Leave us to work it out for ourselves and we'll be thinking about that report, or whatever, and not notice until we've done shit and you're boiling over already.

I met my wife at uni - and while we shared the student lifestyle, including many of the same courses, I knew from what was happening to me, what was happening to her. Then we left and got married. Different jobs, different pressures, different issues - and I treated her like shit! Not because I meant to, but because I simply didn't know. I'm so glad that she stuck it out - and eventually we learned to pass the knowledge by telling each other about things, so (I hope) I treat her better.

I wish we were telepathic, but we ain't, so spell it out for us, please.

Eff

Hi Eff - yeah I agree - I can do that now - tell my partner what is going on but when I was younger I really didn't have a clue what was going on so it does depend!!

 

[U4ea]

*laughs* Oh, I tell him. His answer to why we dated for 6 and a half years and have been married for 4 months beyond that and I've never gotten flowers is...

*drum rolls*

He says it send the wrong message because the flowers die. If they didn't die, he'd buy them for me.

*laughs*

There ya go...the reason I have never and will never get flowers...

 

[Bridget69]

The first couple of days I feel icky and irritated but near the end of it, I really start feeling the need, so to speak.

 

[Just-Legal]

From the male side, I'd just remind you ladies to let him know what you want - out loud. From what I've seen, 99 out of 100 folk (both sexes), get sucked into their own lives - so even when they want the best of best for their partner, their own work, problems, challenges, whatever, distract from working out what their SO needs. Cut that link by telling us about it (when you're 'coming on', how you feel before after and during, as well as about all your other needs and wishes) - and quite a lot of us will try to help. Leave us to work it out for ourselves and we'll be thinking about that report, or whatever, and not notice until we've done shit and you're boiling over already.

I met my wife at uni - and while we shared the student lifestyle, including many of the same courses, I knew from what was happening to me, what was happening to her. Then we left and got married. Different jobs, different pressures, different issues - and I treated her like shit! Not because I meant to, but because I simply didn't know. I'm so glad that she stuck it out - and eventually we learned to pass the knowledge by telling each other about things, so (I hope) I treat her better.

I wish we were telepathic, but we ain't, so spell it out for us, please.

Eff

My partner knows the moment I come on. Usually because I've blacked out on the floor.

 

[fifty5]

My partner knows the moment I come on. Usually because I've blacked out on the floor.

How does Jan 1 fit into your cycle?

Eff

 

[oggbashan]

My partner knows the moment I come on. Usually because I've blacked out on the floor.

I used to know when my wife was having PMS. The snarls started just as soon as I put the key in the front door. I'd throw my briefcase in first. If that survived it was safe-ish to enter. She and I are pleased that it is long behind her.

Og

 

[Svenskaflicka]

I think it's pretty pointless to be horny during my period, because most of the guys I've been with have had issues with having sex with me while I'm bleeding - one of them even believed that having sex with a woman during her period could make him loose his soul!

 

[fifty5]

I think it's pretty pointless to be horny during my period, because most of the guys I've been with have had issues with having sex with me while I'm bleeding - one of them even believed that having sex with a woman during her period could make him loose his soul!

People wash - and towels (or puppy-pads) can keep the gore off the sheets...

If you're horny, do it.

If you ain't, dont.



Eff

 

[Guest]

I think it's pretty pointless to be horny during my period, because most of the guys I've been with have had issues with having sex with me while I'm bleeding - one of them even believed that having sex with a woman during her period could make him loose his soul!

He's obviously read Carrie (or, at the very least, seen the film), and got it all twisted up inside his head.

Mine started today, so beware!!!!

Nah, seriously, I'm not that bad. Bit uncomfortable for the first day or so, but I don't get especially cranky (I'm always like that anyway ).

I had sex on the first day of my period quite recently, and it would have been ok, except we got a bit rough and carried away. The "mess" wasn't a problem so much, and I orgasmed fine, many more than once, but once the orgasms wore off, jeez did I cramp!!!

Lou - still

 

[Guest]

TMI methinks.

I'll come back and edit soon.