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Nope.... some women can be confusing.....

I am not confusing. Because I know how to communicate

For example. I don't wait for someone to do something, and if they don't, use it as a method of ammunition for an argument. So instead of waiting for someone to pick up their socks and put them in the laundry basket I either will pick up the damn socks, or say honey can you pick up your socks and put them in the laundry basket. I don't wait for it not to happen get pissed off for 2 weeks huff and puff around the house and then if arguing about something completely different pull up well you never pick up your socks. People in general don't communicate well. Leads to a lot of problems that are stupid. If I'm going to fight with you, it's going to be over something big.

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Nope.... some women can be confusing.....

I am not confusing. Because I know how to communicate

For example. I don't wait for someone to do something, and if they don't, use it as a method of ammunition for an argument. So instead of waiting for someone to pick up their socks and put them in the laundry basket I either will pick up the damn socks, or say honey can you pick up your socks and put them in the laundry basket. I don't wait for it not to happen get pissed off for 2 weeks huff and puff around the house and then if arguing about something completely different pull up well you never pick up your socks. People in general don't communicate well. Leads to a lot of problems that are stupid. If I'm going to fight with you, it's going to be over something big.

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And the make up time is ....wow
 
Good morning everyone. Here’s hoping you had a restful night. I’m off today for a long weekend and if all goes well then I just work on Monday then off the rest of next week. If it doesn’t go well, and the Federal Government is shut down, then I get furloughed effective midnight tonight. Nothing I can do about it so I’ll try not to stress about it. Hope y’all have a good day. Be good, it if you can’t be good be good at it. 😁
 
Nope.... some women can be confusing.....

I am not confusing. Because I know how to communicate

For example. I don't wait for someone to do something, and if they don't, use it as a method of ammunition for an argument. So instead of waiting for someone to pick up their socks and put them in the laundry basket I either will pick up the damn socks, or say honey can you pick up your socks and put them in the laundry basket. I don't wait for it not to happen get pissed off for 2 weeks huff and puff around the house and then if arguing about something completely different pull up well you never pick up your socks. People in general don't communicate well. Leads to a lot of problems that are stupid. If I'm going to fight with you, it's going to be over something big.

BIG
Wait! I saw your first reply, then you edited it! Not fair! MOVING TARGET! LOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

No, I get what you are saying here. And, actually I think you would be fun to fight with! :) LOL

I don't tend to get upset over much, especially not the little things. (Deal with enough major scary shit, and the little shit doesn't matter any more...)

But... in my experience there is a 27 day cycling of hormones that women can to through. Trying to guess what's going on during certain parts of THAT lunar window leaves me scratching my head. Even my wife gets confused by it. Even she was caught off guard by it.

So, I stand my ground. If I guess what a woman is thinking I'll be wrong. If I am right, then it was just dumb luck!
 
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Nope.... some women can be confusing.....

I am not confusing. Because I know how to communicate

For example. I don't wait for someone to do something, and if they don't, use it as a method of ammunition for an argument. So instead of waiting for someone to pick up their socks and put them in the laundry basket I either will pick up the damn socks, or say honey can you pick up your socks and put them in the laundry basket. I don't wait for it not to happen get pissed off for 2 weeks huff and puff around the house and then if arguing about something completely different pull up well you never pick up your socks. People in general don't communicate well. Leads to a lot of problems that are stupid. If I'm going to fight with you, it's going to be over something big.

BIG
Uhm…are you taking new clients? My wife needs a consult…

Hope everyone is looking forward to the weekend. Last minute Christmas shopping done except for stocking stuffers (the usual European dark chocolates and Scottish shortbreads ) and one special gift for the wife left. Want to knock it out today so nothing hanging over my head this weekend. Just sit by the fire, cook, and enjoy. Have a great start to the weekend everyone!

The seventh day Z…

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Wait! I saw your first reply, then you edited it! Not fair! MOVING TARGET! LOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

No, I get what you are saying here. And, actually I think you would be fun to fight with! :) LOL

I don't tend to get upset over much, especially not the little things. (Deal with enough major scary shit, and the little shit doesn't matter any more...)

But... in my experience there is a 27 day cycling of hormones that women can to through. Trying to guess what's going on during certain parts of THAT lunar window leaves me scratching my head. Even my wife gets confused by it. Even she was caught off guard by it.

So, I stand my ground. If I guess what a woman is thinking I'll be wrong. If I am right, then it was just dumb luck!
I started to rant.... had to reel that back in.....

Tell your wife.... what til menopause hits....it is a doozy.... not only mood swings and cramps... you get to trade for irritability, feeling as if bugs are calling all over your skin, blood boiling, literally as if your blood is boiling, your hair sweats, your ears ring, dizzy at an opportune times, leg cramps, back itchy- but only where you can't reach it, and I could go on and on
 
Uhm…are you taking new clients? My wife needs a consult…

Hope everyone is looking forward to the weekend. Last minute Christmas shopping done except for stocking stuffers (the usual European dark chocolates and Scottish shortbreads ) and one special gift for the wife left. Want to knock it out today so nothing hanging over my head this weekend. Just sit by the fire, cook, and enjoy. Have a great start to the weekend everyone!

The seventh day Z…

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I try to tell people.... they don't listen.... I have learned many things in the last 54 years..... along with better commhnication, also that all my problems are caused by me, I am the author of my own Story , I'm not responsible for making you do anything included making you mad, high standards and low expectations keeps me happy, if you don't have boundaries, don't be mad when people don't respect them, the thing that makes the best Neighbors are fences, sort of goes along with that boundaries thing, if you don't tell somebody you're mad, and work it out don't expect them to read your mind. Along with a few other things, those are just the ones that I can think of right now
 
I started to rant.... had to reel that back in.....

Tell your wife.... what til menopause hits....it is a doozy.... not only mood swings and cramps... you get to trade for irritability, feeling as if bugs are calling all over your skin, blood boiling, literally as if your blood is boiling, your hair sweats, your ears ring, dizzy at an opportune times, leg cramps, back itchy- but only where you can't reach it, and I could go on and on
But the sex is great.... your welcome
 
Good morning to all patrons of the cafe this morning. Forecast is more snow and cold in lower Michigan way too much snow and cold in the UP.

Lili update- she has a cold and is taking her advice of resting a.k.a sleeping. She will be back when she feels better. 🫂 🫂
Thank you @B2fromA2looking4U for the update.
@Lilianna23 do stay away and take care so you get better soon!!
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