The Confessional

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For the record the conversation where Draggy told me about aspergers or I misunderstood what he was telling me.......which less face it as much as I like Draggy just happens a lot, he confuses me on a regular basis and he knows it... But that conversation was in public as I do not pm with him and I do not have him on yahoo.

So it was what I thought public knowledge and the conversation with Logan was in YM and it happened because he mentioned the treatment light ice and ahren were giving draggy in public threads there was no Chinese whispers.

It was of no malicious intent either it was a simple mistake on my part were I said it was a case of most people misunderstand Draggy because of his aspergers..........It seems however I was wrong and he is just a confusing kinda guy who spouts random things but he is who he is. So apologized to him as it was him I misunderstood end of story, you can stop the not so subtle attempts at having a dig now and get on with your day.
 
Apparently it's common here on Lit sharing private information, it gets passed along and distorted on the way.

Like that game *snaps his fingers* damn can't remember the name, you whisperer a phrase to another person and by the time its at the end of the line its had totally changed! We played it in high school, well the ladies did lol.

*smiles sadly*

I learned that the hard way Demon. People I trusted (So called friends, ex Dominants etc.) repeated private conversations, PM's and IM's Nothing is sacred. :(

That was way back at the beginning of the year, since then I have learned not to say anything that I do not mind repeated to another. Even then those small confidences get passed on and twisted!

Such is Lit, we take the bad with the good and it evens out! :rose:

I share very little of my deeper feeling now except to those I really have learned to trust.

You should do the same :)

*waves goodbye as he heads for work*
 
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For the record the conversation where Draggy told me about aspergers or I misunderstood what he was telling me.......which less face it as much as I like Draggy just happens a lot, he confuses me on a regular basis and he knows it... But that conversation was in public as I do not pm with him and I do not have him on yahoo.

So it was what I thought public knowledge and the conversation with Logan was in YM and it happened because he mentioned the treatment light ice and ahren were giving draggy in public threads there was no Chinese whispers.

It was of no malicious intent either it was a simple mistake on my part were I said it was a case of most people misunderstand Draggy because of his aspergers..........It seems however I was wrong and he is just a confusing kinda guy who spouts random things but he is who he is. So apologized to him as it was him I misunderstood end of story, you can stop the not so subtle attempts at having a dig now and get on with your day.

Look, RC, for what it's worth?

I find the entire situation around that hysterically funny.

But that doesn't mean I don't understand "friends" trying to protect a "friend". I, personally, have no digs to take at you or Logan.
 
Boys have trouble getting over shit Rayne :rolleyes:

Oh and yeah, I just genuinely didn't know there was another name for Chinese whispers and before that I was trying to be helpful :)

But seriously, the digs have gotta stop or I'm telling Aus to grab her yardstick!
 
Look, RC, for what it's worth?

I find the entire situation around that hysterically funny.

But that doesn't mean I don't understand "friends" trying to protect a "friend". I, personally, have no digs to take at you or Logan.

like wise light ice I don't even know you except by name, sadly that doesn't seem to mater to some. I have no beef with you or even ahren which was why I never said anything while it was happening, I am not one to hold back if I have something to say.

The comment to Logan was simply because I do feel draggy gets misunderstood and I felt bad that as far as I saw he was getting beaten on. I do understand some of the frustrations he can stir up and I know I have even been frustrated by them before but he is draggy, he will not change so there is no point beating him or bitching about it , that just makes this place unpleasant better off putting him on ignore if he truly bugs you.

But as I said I had no beef with you over it and have certainly been involved in my own lit dramas so cant condemn you for that. I actually only commented now because it seems I gave Logan the wrong impression accidentally because I confused something I was told by draggy. Was a simple misunderstanding Yes funny at some level but it was hardly malicious and hardly needed demon to throw his two cents in.

Boys have trouble getting over shit Rayne :rolleyes:

Oh and yeah, I just genuinely didn't know there was another name for Chinese whispers and before that I was trying to be helpful :)

But seriously, the digs have gotta stop or I'm telling Aus to grab her yardstick!

I wasn't having a go at you minx I could tell you where not attempting to have a sling, it was more demon I was addressing. Who yes as you said seems to have trouble getting over shit.

But as I said I don't want the fucking drama I have said my piece I have corrected my mistake what ever else is added after that is just pathetic attempts at drama stirring despite implications of contempt for it.
 
Sweet Rayne, just didn't want my intent in it to be misconstrued! :)

Moreover...I'm trying REALLY hard to distract myself...

*Spies something delicious and my eyes narrow, clearing my throat*

Scuse me...I have something I really must do to someone right now...
 
RC, one thing you can trust with me, I'm not involved enough to give a shit.

I'm here for the pretty girls and the porn.
 
was hardly malicious and hardly needed demon to throw his two cents in.



I wasn't having a go at you minx I could tell you where not attempting to have a sling, it was more demon I was addressing. Who yes as you said seems to have trouble getting over shit.
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I have no shit to get over dear, I simply made an observation, if it struck a cord I am sorry.

I know nothing of you beyond your occasional rants in the public forums. You have no knowledge of me nor my proclivity to hold a grudge or not .



RC, one thing you can trust with me, I'm not involved enough to give a shit.

I'm here for the pretty girls and the porn.

I heartily agree with you Light Ice, a wise man indeed * tips his hat*
 
*Quivers*

I'm trying really fucking hard!!

*Sobs, whimpering*

ignores the other waffle cause this is more fun and far more interesting.
slides down behind minx and wraps her arms around her hugging her close, gently whispering in her ear as I stroke her arms softly. "you can do it, want me to help you?" remembers the words of tom cat and smiles before whispering them to minx "I don't want to see you fail, I am not here to see you fail"
 
ignores the other waffle cause this is more fun and far more interesting.
slides down behind minx and wraps her arms around her hugging her close, gently whispering in her ear as I stroke her arms softly. "you can do it, want me to help you?" remembers the words of tom cat and smiles before whispering them to minx "I don't want to see you fail, I am not here to see you fail"

*Nods and smiles softly*

Where'd you hear that? It actually sounds familiar...
 
I Confess that i have a Confession to make

Well after less then a minutes Consideration i decided to just OPENLY post this

Light Ice and Ahren

Alright listen guys,

ive been watching the past few days as you all have said one thing or another and attacked dragon, now wether you realize it or not, Dragon is a good kid, and he has asburgers syndrome, if any of you have any kind of brain power you will know what that syndrome is and does, if not i suggest you google it because i will not continue to stand by and let you degrade and attack him on the boards,

you have NO RIGHT to judge, and treat him the way you do and i would expect as civilized adults that you would preset yourselves in a better mannor then you have lately, you, Lite and Ahren are what is wrong with this world today,

you need to back the fuck off Dragon, and get you own heads out of your asses and stop being the chicken shit cocksucking bullys you are turning into, you want someone to fight and argue with good im all up for it if you wanna get down and dirty, but leave him the fuck alone

and and just CCing this to ausus and Rayne so they know that IM stepping into the middle of this, you dont liek dragon good you dnt have to talk to him but your snide and snippy ass comments wont fly, so keep them to yourselves

I wasn't going to get involved, but this is just so hilarious, I had to say something.

Referring to Light and Ahren as 'chicken shit cocksucking bullys (sic)' is totally hypocritical given your argument, not to mention laughable and untrue. They're saying what a lot of other people are thinking, or have thought from time to time. (Perhaps less scathingly, but my point still stands.) You may disagree with what they post, but until they cross the line, they have their right to say what they like. With all respect, who are you to attempt to censor them? (And yes, this sentiment applies to me as well. I'm just talking.)

'Leave him the fuck alone'? That's an insult to Dragon, if you ask me. He's a grown man. This is the Internet. They're not sending him death threats or slashing his tires. This is a public forum in which users are encouraged to express their opinions. When you have a group of people who are constantly posting with one another and crossing paths, there's going to be tension, and there's going to be arguments.

I know a decent amount about Aspergers syndrome, as a future clinical psychologist, and from having worked with all sorts of children in the autism spectrum. Dragon appears to have a firm grasp on most if not all non-literal language. Time and again, he cracks a snarky comeback to Light and Ahren, or can deflect using his style of humor or subject changing. It's obvious Dragon can hold his own here, but everyone else swoops on in to defend him at every turn. If I were him, I'd be more than a little annoyed. He's perfectly capable of handling himself. He doesn't need anyone's babying or bleeding heart excuses. I'm not saying he doesn't deserve someone in his corner, or a a small dose of sympathy, but please, don't act like Dragon deserves constant special treatment - you're belittling him when you do. I know at least half a dozen parents with children who suffer from Aspergers or autism. They would be enraged if someone treated their kids as total dolts that people need to walk on eggshells around, at least in a scenario like this.

Finally, Logan, you don't know me. I'm still The New Girl. But let me just say that the way you separated out Ausus and Rayne out from Ahren and Light Ice doesn't have to happen with me. We can get 'down and dirty' with a MAN-style argument anytime - this is a porno board, baby. Have at me. :D

ETA: I replied to Logan's post before reading further, always a bad idea in any situation! For the record, I still would have made this post. I'm a psychology nerd, I can't help myself.
 
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FF babe, Dragon already said his little annoyed piece on it and cleared up the mistake that had Rayne thinking he had Aspergers or whatever the hell it is. She told Logan that on accident...anyways, it's all in there.

Personally the whole damn thing is just stupid as hell. I've had Ahren go me more than once on these boards and I just bite back *Shrugs* It doesn't bother me at all. But yeah, gotta say it was kind of annoying to see it continuing over and over.

There's a line there somewhere and you just gotta let it go!

Lol!

Anyways, I'm too horny for this logic right now...I'm gonna go back to shivering in my corner...

*Returns to said corner and does just that*
 
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Um...Wow. Just...Wow.

also...Asperger's... << >> AND I DO NOT HAVE ASPERGER'S...my mother and my therapist were trying to say that, not realizing that there are about forty other diagnoses with the same symptoms... I AM NOT EINSTEIN...after all, Einstein was a savant...I am just smart.

Well, this confirms what I was saying earlier, in any case!

Sorry. Made my other post before I saw this one. You didn't seem to have any obvious signs of Asperger's, but I was thinking, "Well, it's not like I'm in front of him and interacting with him in the flesh."

Even if you did, you don't need anyone's pity. You can handle your own.

Ahren and Light Ice know that, on some level. They'll say what they please, but they're not such assholes that they'd pick on someone severely mentally challenged, which you are not.
 
Finally, Logan, you don't know me. I'm still The New Girl. But let me just say that the way you separated out Ausus and Rayne out from Ahren and Light Ice doesn't have to happen with me. We can get 'down and dirty' with a MAN-style argument anytime - this is a porno board, baby. Have at me. :D

I love how you go from assertive woman to depraved slut in the span of three sentences.
 
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