The GLBT board's attitude toward sexuality

[Mermaid]

I relate very strongly to the lack of kissing in porn. Kissing is so intense and intimate....The pics that are the biggest turn on for me are the ones with real kissing....

OOoh, me too! And in porn movies, it usually looks fake. Nothing is more beautiful than people genuinely enjoying making out, making love, or making juices and loving it!

As far as the boards... I wonder if we should make a "Deep Thoughts" thread. So there would be a solid place in the jungle for more intimacy talk, or other things more deep than "suck & fuck." I think there's room for both raging hormones, and romantic mush on Lit!

 

[jacuzzigal]

OOoh, me too! And in porn movies, it usually looks fake. Nothing is more beautiful than people genuinely enjoying making out, making love, or making juices and loving it!

As far as the boards... I wonder if we should make a "Deep Thoughts" thread. So there would be a solid place in the jungle for more intimacy talk, or other things more deep than "suck & fuck." I think there's room for both raging hormones, and romantic mush on Lit!

I agree with this last sentence. I believe the HT Cafe was created in part to have a place to discuss emotional relationship issues - and maybe a Deep Thoughts thread would work well. Or one here as well.

 

[College_geek]

I think there's room for both raging hormones, and romantic mush on Lit!

There was...and to my knowledge still is...a hopeless romantics' thread in the Playground. Good people in there.

 

[John Doe]

There was...and to my knowledge still is...a hopeless romantics' thread in the Playground. Good people in there.

It pisses me off when people don't know the difference between being romantic and being a romantic.

 

[mansome]

I suppose if you want to talk about romanticism, love, deep thoughts, hopes, and fears that's quite ok..... I just don't see how you can relate those feelings to people you never met before... I personally do not come to an erotic website to find out about these things....

I don't come here to make deep connections with people.... The internet is a strange place... if you want something bad enough.. you'll find someone else on the net who's desparate and wants the same thing bad enough that you'll feel a "connection"....

I just come here to have fun, and be entertained.. simple as that....

 

[Queersetti]

I suppose if you want to talk about romanticism, love, deep thoughts, hopes, and fears that's quite ok..... I just don't see how you can relate those feelings to people you never met before... I personally do not come to an erotic website to find out about these things....

I don't come here to make deep connections with people.... The internet is a strange place... if you want something bad enough.. you'll find someone else on the net who's desparate and wants the same thing bad enough that you'll feel a "connection"....

I just come here to have fun, and be entertained.. simple as that....

Perhaps I missed something in this thread. When did the topic become meeing people online?

Fun and entertainment are a vital component of Lit, but people come here seeking caneraderie and advice as well. And there have been many cases of people meeting, quite successfully, through Lit, who, I am sure, don't regard their relationship as founded in desparation.

 

[Mikijl Dragon]

My experience is this, before I met my current boyfriend I would have told you that when it came to men and sex, all I wanted was sex. I didn't want long walks with them or cuddle time at all.

That has since changed. I love holding him at night as he spoons into me. I care for him as I care for my wife.

My point being when I first came to the boards I was of the previous attitude. Over time my point of view changed. People can change and what they write about can change as well.

Personally, I find the Lit community to be greatly supportive when it comes down to it. If you take a look at some of the other boards out there you will find this board at the top of the heap.

I tend to not go into to much detail about my emotions here on the board for two reasons. My emotions are a very personal part of me and to lay them out for all to see can make a person feel vulnerable. Second I am always afraid of boring someone to the point where they go "blah blah blah skip to the next post"

MHO
hugz

 

[Xectxny19X]

wow, I'm fairly new to the boards and hope there is a mixture of people who are dominantly physical, intimate or both! I'm more 60/40 on this since I'll read most stories for the beginning parts and scan through quickly at the end since it's all hmmm...sexual. LoL, but there are times I'm sexual. I'm not denying that part of me. That's why I'll sum it up to me being 60/40.