The Isolated Blurt BDSM Thread

[Stegral]

Stegral....i TOTALLY get this... Sir never comes out right for me when referring to a Dom... No matter how hard i try it sticks in my throat like peanut butter.

Don't force it would be my best advice.

Thanks..I have heard mixed on this...
some can get used to it, others can't...
alot it seems can say it naturally, without pause or slur...
I will give it a little bit more...
can't build anything if I can't do his "main thing"

BUTTTTTTT on a different note...
just read this in a site funny insert

What’s the difference between a mistress, a hooker, and a wife?
Mistress - “Slower, slower!”
Hooker - “Faster, faster!”
Wife - “Beige. We should paint the ceiling beige!”

Well, I ran across a new “beige” in the BDSM usage:

Stoplight safe words - A commonly used system of safe words wherein:

Red means stop the scene immediately and release the sub.
Yellow warns the dominant that the current practice is pushing the submissive’s endurance to the limits.
Green lets the dominant know that what is happening is good and wishes to continue. (Enjoys)

So, the kicker that I ran across was:
Beige meaning ''I’m bored"!!

I thought this was absolutely hilarious. Anyone ever heard of this actually being used or suggested?

Nope but I may just have to do it personally or suggest it to one of the brats of our group...LMAOOOOOO

 

[the captians wench]

Thanks..I have heard mixed on this...
some can get used to it, others can't...
alot it seems can say it naturally, without pause or slur...
I will give it a little bit more...
can't build anything if I can't do his "main thing"

BUTTTTTTT on a different note...
just read this in a site funny insert

What’s the difference between a mistress, a hooker, and a wife?
Mistress - “Slower, slower!”
Hooker - “Faster, faster!”
Wife - “Beige. We should paint the ceiling beige!”

Well, I ran across a new “beige” in the BDSM usage:

Stoplight safe words - A commonly used system of safe words wherein:

Red means stop the scene immediately and release the sub.
Yellow warns the dominant that the current practice is pushing the submissive’s endurance to the limits.
Green lets the dominant know that what is happening is good and wishes to continue. (Enjoys)

So, the kicker that I ran across was:
Beige meaning ''I’m bored"!!

I thought this was absolutely hilarious. Anyone ever heard of this actually being used or suggested?

Nope but I may just have to do it personally or suggest it to one of the brats of our group...LMAOOOOOO

Oh I so hope i get a chance to call beige in the near future!

I'd do it too....don't believe me ask around, I can be quite cheeky when i haven't had attention in a while. *giggles*

as to the sir thing...

For me, it really depends on the person I'm playing with. First time play rarely inspires a sir out of me, tho there have been a few who got "master" out of me on the first play date. These were guys that I had known for a while tho, regulars to the shop that sold my costumes and taught me the kinky way of life.
But most of the time, Sir doesn't come naturally, nor master. My longest relationship in this style had me refuring to him as "Love" more often than anything else. "yes love", "no love", and that sort of thing. My most resent interactions Sir did come eventually, tho it's funny because it came in text form a lot quicker than it did in verbal. And tho our relationship has changed at the moment, he's still a sir to me and for ever will be. He earned my respect in that mannor, and it takes a bit to disolve that.
I never pushed using sir with him, nor did he ever require it or even ask it of me, and I find the ones who let it come naturally tend to be the ones I stick with longest. The ones who force it tend to be ones who push me the wrong way and loose my respect.

I personally think a tital given out of respect is worth much much more than one demanded. But that's just me.

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[the captians wench]

I never tell anyone to call me anything. If someone chooses to out of respect, that is fine by me. Any given person should decide what their preferred method aof respectful address will be. Why? Because there are no external qualifiers extent in my life. I'm not a knight, or a doctor, or some other positions that entitles me to some specific form of address. So why should I force a given term (outside of a role-play scene, of course, but that is a caveat for that scene and all parties will have agreed beforehand).

does that make me a Mcpet?

 

[HottieMama]

I personally think a tital given out of respect is worth much much more than one demanded. But that's just me.

Not just you...i totally agree. If a Dom just told me to call him Daddy, it would be the one word he would never hear out of my mouth.

 

[Homburg]

does that make me a Mcpet?

Wenchie, put that ass in front of my hand and I'll call you McPet all day long

That's another thing though. I don't have specific things that I want to call someone I'm intimate with. All sorts of words are used, and it makes little difference to me. Eventually, something will come up that we both like and it will get used more often.

As you said, Wenchie, earned titles are so very much better.

 

[EmpressFi]

Wenchie, put that ass in front of my hand and I'll call you McPet all day long

That's another thing though. I don't have specific things that I want to call someone I'm intimate with. All sorts of words are used, and it makes little difference to me. Eventually, something will come up that we both like and it will get used more often.

As you said, Wenchie, earned titles are so very much better.

I agree.. I'm called many things.. but the one thing I'm called most, doesnt sound very D/s at all but makes me feel as if he'd called me "My Pet".. guess that's all that matters..

 

[the captians wench]

Not just you...i totally agree. If a Dom just told me to call him Daddy, it would be the one word he would never hear out of my mouth.

I have had some require certain titals from me, and I complied, but they were just words. The ones I've given a tital to, they ment something to me.

 

[the captians wench]

Wenchie, put that ass in front of my hand and I'll call you McPet all day long

That's another thing though. I don't have specific things that I want to call someone I'm intimate with. All sorts of words are used, and it makes little difference to me. Eventually, something will come up that we both like and it will get used more often.

As you said, Wenchie, earned titles are so very much better.

I love getting new pet names from people. Each one has been different, and each one has ment something specail to me.

 

[Stegral]

Not just you...i totally agree. If a Dom just told me to call him Daddy, it would be the one word he would never hear out of my mouth.

I'm sorry for any misunderatanding, he didn't TELL me...
I was trying to out of respect of what "play" he prefers...
(& I use the term play here very very loosely...)
I looked at his profile in collarme...
I asked around in the group & found out what he "prefered"...

I am just getting so desperate for a stable Dom/Top I am willing to try anything...
fuck I am gonna get into sooo much trouble if I settle for less...

DAMMMMMIIIITT !!!!

p.s. I have heard "My Pet" & I like it... alot...
but I also like collars, being at the "special someone's" feet & "petted" too...

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[LittleJade]

It finally hit me today-


My mom has breast cancer. She starts her chemo in just over a week. She will lose her hair 7-10 days after she starts. She will be sick, she will have night sweats, she will puke, and moan and writhe in pain... and I won't be there to help her.

This is so much harder than I thought it would be....

 

[HB1965]

It finally hit me today-


My mom has breast cancer. She starts her chemo in just over a week. She will lose her hair 7-10 days after she starts. She will be sick, she will have night sweats, she will puke, and moan and writhe in pain... and I won't be there to help her.

This is so much harder than I thought it would be....

http://bestsmileys.com/hugging/4.gif

So sorry honey

 

[Stegral]

It finally hit me today-


My mom has breast cancer. She starts her chemo in just over a week. She will lose her hair 7-10 days after she starts. She will be sick, she will have night sweats, she will puke, and moan and writhe in pain... and I won't be there to help her.

This is so much harder than I thought it would be....

I am sooo sorry LJ... it will be hard.. my stepmom went thru it...
will she have anyone nearby???

Wait... so are you even looking for/drawn to/interested in a D/g relationship, or are you simply trying to catch this guy's attention because you don't want to be alone?

bit of both...
being still fairly new to it all I want to try things...
I have his attention already....
being able to be a lil would just be icing on the cake...

someone reset my brain please....

 

[HottieMama]

being able to be a lil would just be icing on the cake...

someone reset my brain please....

IMO (emphasis on purpose), you can't make yourself a "lil" anymore than you can make yourself a fish. It's either what you are or not. If you try too hard, it is going to feel like an act and fake, and that's not necessarily a good thing.

On the reverse side, i have also found that you can't make a Dom a "Daddy." (Though if all the qualities are there and you have the right articles at your disposal, you can nudge them to the realization that they are one. **soft smile.**)

 

[LittleJade]

I am sooo sorry LJ... it will be hard.. my stepmom went thru it...
will she have anyone nearby???

She has a wonderful boyfriend, and amazing friends...

But I'm her best friend, and she's my best friend...

It just... *sigh*

 

[Sir_Winston54]

[blurt]
My Bulls (c/o '86) are #6 in the AP poll, and #9 in the Coaches' Poll (USA Today) - their highest ever rankings.



Knocked off two ranked teams so far this year, including West Virginia Friday night. Not bad for a football program that's only 11 years old!
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[Stegral]

She has a wonderful boyfriend, and amazing friends...

But I'm her best friend, and she's my best friend...

It just... *sigh*

((((L J))))... I am glad she has people close by...
call each day at least once to see how she is doing...
ask them if a certain time is better to talk with her (more alert/strength)
always tell her you love her & miss her & wish you were there...

My Stepmom said it was the outside distant stuff that helped her to get thru the days when it seemed those close just didn't cut it... They were always there but a call from me seemed to brighten her on the foulist of days & I was hated for it but eventually the ones close to her understood why... She was always with them, always seeing them, as harsh as it sounds she "got used to the help & presence" as it became a norm for her...my voice was a "pick me up" that she needed from time to time...
She helped raise me so when I moved away it was hard on her...

best wishes & hopefully not all the side effects will be full scale...
(my stepmom LOVED her hair when it grew back from dead straight to all curly )

 

[LittleJade]

((((L J))))... I am glad she has people close by...
call each day at least once to see how she is doing...
ask them if a certain time is better to talk with her (more alert/strength)
always tell her you love her & miss her & wish you were there...

My Stepmom said it was the outside distant stuff that helped her to get thru the days when it seemed those close just didn't cut it... They were always there but a call from me seemed to brighten her on the foulist of days & I was hated for it but eventually the ones close to her understood why... She was always with them, always seeing them, as harsh as it sounds she "got used to the help & presence" as it became a norm for her...my voice was a "pick me up" that she needed from time to time...
She helped raise me so when I moved away it was hard on her...

best wishes & hopefully not all the side effects will be full scale...
(my stepmom LOVED her hair when it grew back from dead straight to all curly )

Thank you ... so much.. you've no idea how grateful I am for this post...

I'm going to be sending her monthly care packages.

New nighties, for her night sweats, cosmetics, pretty little things she'll enjoy... art, hand-made cards, things she can eat...

 

[the captians wench]

[blurt]
My Bulls (c/o '86) are #6 in the AP poll, and #9 in the Coaches' Poll (USA Today) - their highest ever rankings.



Knocked off two ranked teams so far this year, including West Virginia Friday night. Not bad for a football program that's only 11 years old!
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I had to read that not twice but 3 times!

I kept reading "my balls are #6" *giggles*

 

[Sir_Winston54]

I had to read that not twice but 3 times!

I kept reading "my balls are #6" *giggles*

We know exactly where your mind is!

 

[the captians wench]

We know exactly where your mind is!

it is begining to become rather obvious lately isn't it.

 

[HB1965]

We know exactly where your mind is!

And you would want her to be different?

 

[the captians wench]

And you would want her to be different?

Maybe just some where different? *giggles*

You know, so he could reform these dirty thoughts. Because he's kind and generous like that. *giggles*

 

[northwoods_sub]

Happy Anniversary Sir!!

I know you are tired and play will have to wait, but I just wanted you to know that I hope the next 5 years are as wonderful as the last 5 have been.