The Love Shack

Announcing the ongoing Love Shack Education Program

Today's Class: "Taking care of women orally"

Women are increasingly demanding that men become the givers too if they want to get the best from the relationship. In other words: women want "oral care" from men. According to research, men are responding. Three out of five men in our survey were open to the idea though they complained that the subject did not come up as often as they had expected. But it seems to have come up for Mike, who wants to be a good husband and asks, "How can I do it well?"

Each man (and then eventually a couple) develops his own style but here are a few things to keep in mind.

Seven principles to orally please a woman

1. If you don't like to do it with the spirit that this is the best thing in the world, then just don't do it.

2. Use your lips and tongue generously.

3. Focus your attention on what you are doing rather than what lies ahead for you.

4. Let this be her moment. Expect nothing in return (though if it happens, then enjoy it).

5. Explore the body. You will find the pleasure zones yourself because you will notice the change in her response.

6. Keep trying it till you both find your harmony.

7. Take breaks if you have to. It is perfectly normal to lose your breath. Drink a sip of wine or water and resume. You can also alternate between hands and lips.

:kiss:
 
kiten69 said:
:eek: well its been 3 weeks since my last good spanking :eek:

too bad - so sorry to hear it...

suffer for your sins :cool:

(psst - direct pleading for a spanking works better, I don't do sympathy whacks any more)
 
Shankara20 said:
too bad - so sorry to hear it...

suffer for your sins :cool:

(psst - direct pleading for a spanking works better, I don't do sympathy whacks any more)

If i remember correctly Shank i've got one cumming any way...check your "books" :cathappy:
 
kiten69 said:
If i remember correctly Shank i've got one cumming any way...check your "books" :cathappy:

you I know you do,

check the books, you see it to be paid at a time of your pleading :D
 
Next in the ongoing Love Shack Education Program

Today's Class: "How to be a bold gentleman and charm a woman"

A man shares his experience, By Mike Powell**

I am not what one would call 'worldly' or very experienced with women. I got my first girlfriend at about 15. That was my first REAL intimate contact with the a girl. Our adventures consisted mainly of petting, and kissing. She was extremely shy and standoffish when it came to anything more. I didn't even get to KISS this girl until about the third month or so of our relationship. Needless to say, she was not my "first girl". That happened during my last year of college. The story of how this girl, Mary, and myself got together is still unbelievable in some aspects.

I remember seeing her first when I was in the 12th Grade. She was a member of a debating team that was challenging my high school in a national debating competition. She wasn't very striking. She was rather average looking, to be totally honest. Standing at about 5'1" or so, she was dark skinned and wore glasses. I remember her being extremely quiet. In any case, her teammates were a great deal more attractive than her, to me anyway.

I graduated from high school a few months later without so much as another thought of going in her direction. I started school at that college and it so happened I ended up in a chemistry class with Mary. I never spoke to her for the entire first year of classes. I used to look at her occasionally, thinking to myself how much she had NOT changed since high school.* (Related article:* Relationship with high school girlfriend)

I never really thought that I ever had anything for her until I made friends with Mary’s best friend (and fellow debater from the 12th Grade), a girl named Nicole. Nicole and myself used to shoot the breeze and just crap talk a lot. Then one day I was talking to Nicole and Mary came up to her to say hello.*Nicole introduced us and we kind of hit it off. After that day, we started talking more and more. Surprisingly, it didn't take long for us to start flirting. I am a very jovial person and I gave her hints of my desire for her in a joking manner. Chance had us meet one day outside school, at a concert. We started flirting, as usual, and I suddenly blurted out "So do you think you can handle me?"

It was spontaneous, and I immediately felt my face getting warm. I regretted it right away, but then she replied, "I can handle anything you can throw at me." I didn't look her in the eye when I asked her rather nervously, "Are you serious?" She said that she was, so my mind started working right away. The concert was held in a hotel on the beach, so I asked her if she would like to go for a walk on the beach with me during the intermission.

She agreed, and we went. It was about 8:00 PM, and the beach was fairly dark, but not pitch dark. We eventually found a dark corner and sat down. We spent the next half hour or so wondering who would make the first move. I eventually did.*

I couldn't decide what I wanted more, so I just continued kissing her. We had spent so long jawing that we became afraid that our folks - still at the hotel - would leave us behind. I got her number and promised to call her. I called her up, and needless to say, we flirted heavily on the phone. I eventually told her that I had plans to continue what I had started that night on the beach. She seemed game, so we decided to go on with it.*

I picked a day when we were both relatively free. Around that time, we had practice labs for our chemistry finals. The day she came over was one of the days I was supposed to be in school doing my lab. The choice wasn't difficult to make. I almost fell asleep waiting for her to come over. When she got in, I led her around the side of the house and let her in through the kitchen. She was wearing a tight, light blue T-shirt and snug blue jeans. Her body was tight, toned, and fit. She was slim and I couldn't help but notice she smelt of something fruity.

I led her to my parents' room. We were both very nervous about what was going to happen, even though we knew we were both going to do it. We started talking about all sorts of crap, including, "Were you able to find my house alright?"*

I eventually made the first move to kiss her. It was a soft, wet, slow, and deliberate kiss. Her lips were full and pliable, and she seemed to like the kissing. I started pulling her shirt over her head. I had never noticed until then but she had the fullest, roundest body I had ever seen. I never bothered to ask her what her cup size was, but I'm sure it was probably a DD. She was wearing a black lacy bra and a matching thong. I didn't get to see the thong until I slid her jeans off (with some trouble). Her body was simply amazing. Soft curves and delicious skin is all I can say about her. She was very willing and didn't even HINT at stopping me when I slid my fingers under strap of the thong.

After we finally got done, we took a shower together. It was slow and sweet, and we took our time washing and drying each other off. I watched her as she dressed. I especially liked her backside. I had never seen such a round butt. Before she left, though, I gave her two souvenirs: two huge kisses. I let her out through the kitchen, and she pulled me close by my collar and tongue kissed me very deeply. I almost took her right there and then all over again.

What I learned through this and other relationships is the power of being a bold gentleman.


:cool:
 
Shankara20 said:
too bad - so sorry to hear it...

suffer for your sins :cool:

(psst - direct pleading for a spanking works better, I don't do sympathy whacks any more)

Oh please Sir Shanky, I desperately desire to have the feel of a nice red hot ass as only you could provide. Please grant me the pleasure of feeling your hand strike against my bare bottom, I beg of you.


that's right I have no shame when it comes to getting my ass tanned. :cathappy:
 
the captians wench said:
Oh please Sir Shanky, I desperately desire to have the feel of a nice red hot ass as only you could provide. Please grant me the pleasure of feeling your hand strike against my bare bottom, I beg of you.


that's right I have no shame when it comes to getting my ass tanned. :cathappy:

wench - that is a rather good start at proper pleading, the suck-up part might have been a bit over the Top (hee hee, get it?) :rolleyes:

Let me check the Love Shack books to see if you have earned a spanking, or if you just have the audacity to request a free-be :D

:kiss:
 
Shankara20 said:
wench - that is a rather good start at proper pleading, the suck-up part might have been a bit over the Top (hee hee, get it?) :rolleyes:

Let me check the Love Shack books to see if you have earned a spanking, or if you just have the audacity to request a free-be :D

:kiss:

*giggles* well, if I did have such never to ask for a free-be, wouldn't that be a spankable offence? ;)

and actually....I love to beg :eek:
 
the captians wench said:
*giggles* well, if I did have such never to ask for a free-be, wouldn't that be a spankable offence? ;)

and actually....I love to beg :eek:

Well some of the spankings on the books have been rewards, but you may have just earned one as punishment.

hmmm - must ponder this. Too bad L J is not around to consult, but he was all too willing to have a go...


begging some more might help...... :D
 
*opens accounting books*

On account "Snowy" - 1 each, spanking - to be paid on full recovery

On account "kiten69" - 1 each, spanking - to be paid a time of her pleading

On account "wench" - 1 each, paddle her ass as punishment, delivered on sufficient begging

ok - all looks in order here.,.,.,,.,.,.,..



*closes books - looks around the very quiet Love Shack for some panties to put back on*
 
Next in the ongoing totally BD Love Shack Education Program

Art of being romantic to your wife: Tips on undressing

The single most common complaint that women have is how men so often forget to treat them as different from them. It takes a while for a woman to get into the mood regardless of how she feels about the man. For her, undressing is part of the act of being intimate. Many a man in a hurry to get into the act forget that undressing a woman, if not done in the right manner, can have disastrous consequences on how she feels during and after intimacy. So often we get emails from concerned men who thought everything went perfect but they do not hear from the woman again. When we probe deeper as part of our romance advice service, we realize that while the evening was otherwise planned well, the man did a terrible job in the bedroom.

If you plan on being intimate with a woman then you need to be extra careful in how you treat her. While it might be just another lay for you, vast majority of women do not feel that way. For them it is a special moment every time. Women do not just go to bed with someone for the fun of it. They need to feel a special connection with that person, they must like the person to some extent, and they want the experience to be memorable. You will get a second chance to do this only if you do reasonably well the first time.

Undressing, or for that matter the complete act, is broken down into several steps and each needs to be done with tremendous attention and grace. Here are some tips:

You must tell her how much you love her and touch her very gently. Like you would touch a flower or would just admire its appearance. Since the clothing is the last defense against actual contact, some women may try to keep them on as long as possible, particularly if they feel that they are not attractive enough.

Dim the lights or use aromatherapy candles just in case she feels a bit shy. Start with a slow, soft kiss so that undressing is part of something bigger.

From far, compliment her dress. Be genuine and creative. Do not just say that she looks good. Tell her exactly what is that is different and pretty about her. It is much better to say something like, "I like that eye shadow you are wearing" or "That pink bra really suits your blouse" or "I like that you chose to wear a black bra and red panties."

Look into her eyes and gracefully kiss her neck. Tell her what it means to you to have these special moments with her.

Let her clothes fall from her body and kiss her every step of the way. Offer help when necessary, e.g., with unzipping or helping to fold the clothes (some women are very careful about not just dumping their clothes - even dirty clothes should be gracefully lifted and put into the basket).

Do not touch her yet and do not force her to take her underwear off yet. If you plan to go to the bath with her, she will do it herself or will ask you to. If you are headed to bed, then let her be in control. If you think she is expecting that you take it off for her, be ever so gentle in unhooking the bra and carefully sliding the bra down. Make sure that you fold it neatly (you can show your affection by feeling or touching or sniffing her underwear after it is off her body). Repeat the same when taking off her panties.


:cool: you are now excused to retch

:rolleyes:
 
Shankara20 said:
that what happens when you leave 'em laying around :D

I'm a real panty slut :kiss:


I do have that problem sometimes... currently we aren't wearing the same ones... i'm more into the light blue boy shorts with pink polka dots... and a little lacey edge...
 
littlegirlslut said:
I do have that problem sometimes... currently we aren't wearing the same ones... i'm more into the light blue boy shorts with pink polka dots... and a little lacey edge...
*sigh*


mine pink summer cotton.... :kiss:
 
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