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Hello beautiful ladies and admiring gentlemen! 🙋 it's wonderful to see this thread active again.

Hey thanks for handling that fella back there, he was a bit misguided, no? :rolleyes: You were kinder than i would have been.

Rivvie, welcome!:rose:
I don't know that we've met, but i've seen you around. Please feel free to post as and when you feel comfortable, and continue to join in the conversation in the meantime. :)
 
AlliaPotestas said:
I shall assume this was directed at the Bridget knickers... if not - don’t correct me, let me have it ;)



I resist posting here, because I am conscious I spend a lot of time picking the good angles and it feel disingenuous to be here amongst the far more authentic posters but the twatwaffle inspired me to be a bit #metoo... it’s still a selective picture... I am still not kick ass enough to show myself in all my fleshiness unlike the fabulous ladies here...



I am also nicking simpering fucktools... I may try and find a reason to use both yours and blulilacgrl‘s phrases together this weekend...

The control thingies aren’t cheap are they... I wore a full body one when my younger brother graduated uni. I was the only family invited and to some degree I raised him, it felt important to look right amongst all the neat, posh families- I had to take it off in the car before I could drive home, there was a danger of me passing out... a summer dress over bare skin isn’t normally my thing but I can still remember the relief... :kiss:
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A full body one takes me back to my youth. Do I get bonus point for clearly remembering 50 years ago. I went out with a couple of student nurses when I was in college. One was a larger girl and wore a full body ‘passion killer’ I never did work out how she got it on or off, as when things started to get a bit more than passionate, I could not find fastenings or even get a finger nail under the edge anywhere. Had to give up in the end an had an earlier night than is expected.
 
AlliaPotestas said:
Things in no particular order:

1. Twatwaffle might be my new favourite word.

2. This is a pic I wouldn’t normally share - with my Bridget Jones knickers before squeezing into the sort of dress I would never normally have considered before lit gave me a smidgen more confidence.

http://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=2060511&stc=1&d=1546071501

3. Fun fact - I could barely breathe and the dress was for a talk to shiny young women starting out in their careers... I took a pic with and without the knickers and decided:

a) the difference was so insignificant, it wasn’t worth my breathing
b) it was sending entirely the wrong message to my shiny young things and maybe it didn’t hurt to show them that a fat short woman can kick ass in a male dominated career.

http://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=2060512&stc=1&d=1546071510

4. People that want to criticise others should be willing to show something of themselves...
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All I see is a sexy lady:heart:
 
Rivvie said:
It’s fine y’all. I removed it and moved on. My body isn’t for everyone. God forbid I’d posted a real straight on angle. Cause.. I too, know how to use my angles to my benefit. I shouldn’t have posted it. Whatever. I had a bad body image day the rest of the day and moved on. Just hear enough shit putting me down in my real world to want to keep hearing it here too.

Now someone post some sexy thick ass thighs..
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Sexy is sexy regardless of the angle.
 
AlliaPotestas said:
I resist posting here, because I am conscious I spend a lot of time picking the good angles and it feel disingenuous to be here amongst the far more authentic posters but the twatwaffle inspired me to be a bit #metoo... it’s still a selective picture... I am still not kick ass enough to show myself in all my fleshiness unlike the fabulous ladies here...
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Please don't resist.:rose:

Come as you are, as we all do. There are no rules here against magic knickers or selective angles. It's your attitude and intent that matter most, and you are undeniably of a similar heart.

I think it's good and important that we are all at different places, the variety covers more ground, don't you think? :)

I have a bag of panty shapers somewhere, haven't worn one in about three years and I've been pretty vehemently against them during that time. But I've gained so much weight on my meds that I'm horribly self-conscious about my tummy now... or again - I'm back up to my post-baby weight of eight years ago, before i started power walking and lost a bunch.

So I've been thinking of pulling out the least restrictive of the shapers, to give me a bit more confidence. I find i am constantly touching my tummy (subconsiously trying to cover it, i suppose), and checking to make sure that my tops are long enough to cover. It's terribly distracting and i spend way too much energy thinking about it. :( I'm hoping that wearing a shaper will relieve some of that anxiety and allow me to focus that energy in a more productive direction. Time will tell.

I'm not in a very good place with my body right now. :eek:
 
AlliaPotestas said:
Things in no particular order:

1. Twatwaffle might be my new favourite word.

2. This is a pic I wouldn’t normally share - with my Bridget Jones knickers before squeezing into the sort of dress I would never normally have considered before lit gave me a smidgen more confidence.

http://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=2060511&stc=1&d=1546071501

3. Fun fact - I could barely breathe and the dress was for a talk to shiny young women starting out in their careers... I took a pic with and without the knickers and decided:

a) the difference was so insignificant, it wasn’t worth my breathing
b) it was sending entirely the wrong message to my shiny young things and maybe it didn’t hurt to show them that a fat short woman can kick ass in a male dominated career.

http://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=2060512&stc=1&d=1546071510

4. People that want to criticise others should be willing to show something of themselves...
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Wow!!!! You look amazing!!!! A damned near perfect body
 
AlliaPotestas said:
Things in no particular order:

1. Twatwaffle might be my new favourite word.

2. This is a pic I wouldn’t normally share - with my Bridget Jones knickers before squeezing into the sort of dress I would never normally have considered before lit gave me a smidgen more confidence.

http://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=2060511&stc=1&d=1546071501

3. Fun fact - I could barely breathe and the dress was for a talk to shiny young women starting out in their careers... I took a pic with and without the knickers and decided:

a) the difference was so insignificant, it wasn’t worth my breathing
b) it was sending entirely the wrong message to my shiny young things and maybe it didn’t hurt to show them that a fat short woman can kick ass in a male dominated career.

http://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=2060512&stc=1&d=1546071510

4. People that want to criticise others should be willing to show something of themselves...
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You look great without it. And you're right about the message to send to young women.

I tried on an all body shaper once and it was hard to get out of the thing. I managed to get out of it, but for awhile there, I thought they were going to have to call the fire department to come to get me out of it with the jaws of life!
 
AlliaPotestas said:
I am also nicking simpering fucktools... I may try and find a reason to use both yours and blulilacgrl‘s phrases together this weekend...

The control thingies aren’t cheap are they... I wore a full body one when my younger brother graduated uni. I was the only family invited and to some degree I raised him, it felt important to look right amongst all the neat, posh families- I had to take it off in the car before I could drive home, there was a danger of me passing out... a summer dress over bare skin isn’t normally my thing but I can still remember the relief... :kiss:
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Just to clarify, I didn’t actually come up with ‘simpering fucktools’ myself, but a magical human used it to make me feel better yesterday in a PM and I absolutely adore it. I will be stealing it, as should you... (I love when new insults ring true and are fun to say).

I last wore my controlling-hose-of-pain-and-loathing over a year ago to a wedding. I couldn’t sit at all because of the restriction. Such a waste. Never going to purchase those again... but a nice training corset? That may be on my wish list... ;)
 
Moochienanu said:
Just to clarify, I didn’t actually come up with ‘simpering fucktools’ myself, but a magical human used it to make me feel better yesterday in a PM and I absolutely adore it. I will be stealing it, as should you... (I love when new insults ring true and are fun to say).

I last wore my controlling-hose-of-pain-and-loathing over a year ago to a wedding. I couldn’t sit at all because of the restriction. Such a waste. Never going to purchase those again... but a nice training corset? That may be on my wish list... ;)
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Training corsets look nice but if you read about Victorian times they sometimes went stupid in how narrow to tighten them. Permanent damage to internal organs and sometimes death.

I don’t want to put you off, just be careful
 
KDLeon said:
So. I could move on and not comment BUT YOU ASKED FOR THE OPINIONS OF OTHERS WHEN YOU POSTED THE PICTURE. If you only wanted positive opinions or thought no one would give an opinion other than a positive one, then you weren't really looking for opinions. You are just looking for praise and compliments. Judging by the comments above, that's what most everyone else here expects also. There are plenty of men who will like just about any woman that will bare some flesh for them to see and will post positive encouraging comments. Mostly in an effort to see the OP post more revealing pictures and to feel as if they have some sort of "relationship" with the OP. I am a bit more selective, and I am not that hard-up for attention. I was raised a nudist and saw more naked women and men before I was 6 years old than most will ever see in a lifetime. An exposed boob or ass is not a big deal to me. I realize it may be to others. But a bad picture is a bad picture, whether you want to say so or not. And your desire to see anyone posting a picture exposing some extra flesh doesn't change that fact. Having said that, I do find large women attractive and other pictures I have seen (I assume) from the OP show a very attractive woman. I just didn't care for the picture that I commented on. It wasn't a big deal. Take it as constructive criticism. Not an insult. No one would want to see some lousy, unflattering picture of me either. But then, I am not going to post it on a public web site...and then asked peoples opinion.....and get upset when some of the responses are negative. Geeez.

People are attracted to all different kind of women. It's not wrong to not like everything. I really don't understand why it's necessary for others to circle the wagons in defense and support of the OP because my comment wasn't favorable. It wasn't a good picture. Nothing more should be taken from the comment. And maybe we should all be a bit more selective and not be so afraid to judge honestly. Maybe she will try and take a better picture and everyone will like it better. What's wrong with being honest?
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KDLeon said:
And another thing.....this thread is in with others SPECIFICALLY FOR THE PURPOSE OF GETTING FEEDBACK ON THE PICTURES POSTED IN THE THREAD. So the OP was asking for feedback and that's what I posted. Again, why is everyone getting their panties in a bunch just because I didn't like a picture and was honest enough to say so? If you wanted others to just make you feel better, then you should have said so.
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Ugh... First. OP means Original Poster. That would be Wild Honey. Not the person you criticized. She started the thread for the ladies to post in.

You are right in the fact that a good percentage of men will come on here and say something to any and all women who post in hopes of getting them to post more revealing pictures. BUT most of the women (unless new usually) can tell the difference between those men and the ones who are giving genuine compliments.
But even when I had my own picture thread, I was always polite and thanked anyone who took the time to comment.

When insecure women (and most women are) post pictures, they are not asking for negative comments. They post because they are looking for an ego boost. They want to feel beautiful. Appreciated. Sexy. Out in the real world (Offline) we get enough of the negative. It's not like guys walk up to us and tell us we're beautiful. Maybe we're in relationships where our SO doesn't compliment us anymore, so we need to feel beautiful again. I know from my own personal experience. No one gets whiplash looking at me in the real world, no one comes up to me to tell me I'm pretty. No one says beautiful things to me walking down the street. So when I am feeling extra ugly. I post here for a lift. Call me needy, call me anything you like. But don't tell me I'm ugly here. Just shut up and move on.

We can tell when someone doesn't find us their cup of tea. Those are the ones who just don't comment. We don't need them to tell us that we look horrible to know that we aren't what they find attractive. There is nothing that you, or any other man could tell us that we haven't already said to ourselves. You can't possibly think that we don't already look in a mirror and want to cry some days can you????

Now if I say.. "I need your opinions. Good or bad" Then you may offer the bad. Other wise. It's just kinda known to not say anything at all. Move on.

Please just offer respect.
 
Rivvie,

Your posts are beautiful. Sorry you had to deal with negativity. Sending a hug and a glass of wine (or other beverage of your choice).
 
SassySheDevil said:
Ugh... First. OP means Original Poster. That would be Wild Honey. Not the person you criticized. She started the thread for the ladies to post in.

You are right in the fact that a good percentage of men will come on here and say something to any and all women who post in hopes of getting them to post more revealing pictures. BUT most of the women (unless new usually) can tell the difference between those men and the ones who are giving genuine compliments.
But even when I had my own picture thread, I was always polite and thanked anyone who took the time to comment.

When insecure women (and most women are) post pictures, they are not asking for negative comments. They post because they are looking for an ego boost. They want to feel beautiful. Appreciated. Sexy. Out in the real world (Offline) we get enough of the negative. It's not like guys walk up to us and tell us we're beautiful. Maybe we're in relationships where our SO doesn't compliment us anymore, so we need to feel beautiful again. I know from my own personal experience. No one gets whiplash looking at me in the real world, no one comes up to me to tell me I'm pretty. No one says beautiful things to me walking down the street. So when I am feeling extra ugly. I post here for a lift. Call me needy, call me anything you like. But don't tell me I'm ugly here. Just shut up and move on.

We can tell when someone doesn't find us their cup of tea. Those are the ones who just don't comment. We don't need them to tell us that we look horrible to know that we aren't what they find attractive. There is nothing that you, or any other man could tell us that we haven't already said to ourselves. You can't possibly think that we don't already look in a mirror and want to cry some days can you????

Now if I say.. "I need your opinions. Good or bad" Then you may offer the bad. Other wise. It's just kinda known to not say anything at all. Move on.

Please just offer respect.
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Sassy, that was perfect. *sniffle*

Thank you so much.

💖💖 💋
 
SassySheDevil said:
Ugh... First. OP means Original Poster. That would be Wild Honey. Not the person you criticized. She started the thread for the ladies to post in.

You are right in the fact that a good percentage of men will come on here and say something to any and all women who post in hopes of getting them to post more revealing pictures. BUT most of the women (unless new usually) can tell the difference between those men and the ones who are giving genuine compliments.
But even when I had my own picture thread, I was always polite and thanked anyone who took the time to comment.

When insecure women (and most women are) post pictures, they are not asking for negative comments. They post because they are looking for an ego boost. They want to feel beautiful. Appreciated. Sexy. Out in the real world (Offline) we get enough of the negative. It's not like guys walk up to us and tell us we're beautiful. Maybe we're in relationships where our SO doesn't compliment us anymore, so we need to feel beautiful again. I know from my own personal experience. No one gets whiplash looking at me in the real world, no one comes up to me to tell me I'm pretty. No one says beautiful things to me walking down the street. So when I am feeling extra ugly. I post here for a lift. Call me needy, call me anything you like. But don't tell me I'm ugly here. Just shut up and move on.

We can tell when someone doesn't find us their cup of tea. Those are the ones who just don't comment. We don't need them to tell us that we look horrible to know that we aren't what they find attractive. There is nothing that you, or any other man could tell us that we haven't already said to ourselves. You can't possibly think that we don't already look in a mirror and want to cry some days can you????

Now if I say.. "I need your opinions. Good or bad" Then you may offer the bad. Other wise. It's just kinda known to not say anything at all. Move on.

Please just offer respect.
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Boom!
 
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