The Real Thick Thighs and Curvy Hips of Lit

[Jakevillines]

Ugh... First. OP means Original Poster. That would be Wild Honey. Not the person you criticized. She started the thread for the ladies to post in.

You are right in the fact that a good percentage of men will come on here and say something to any and all women who post in hopes of getting them to post more revealing pictures. BUT most of the women (unless new usually) can tell the difference between those men and the ones who are giving genuine compliments.
But even when I had my own picture thread, I was always polite and thanked anyone who took the time to comment.

When insecure women (and most women are) post pictures, they are not asking for negative comments. They post because they are looking for an ego boost. They want to feel beautiful. Appreciated. Sexy. Out in the real world (Offline) we get enough of the negative. It's not like guys walk up to us and tell us we're beautiful. Maybe we're in relationships where our SO doesn't compliment us anymore, so we need to feel beautiful again. I know from my own personal experience. No one gets whiplash looking at me in the real world, no one comes up to me to tell me I'm pretty. No one says beautiful things to me walking down the street. So when I am feeling extra ugly. I post here for a lift. Call me needy, call me anything you like. But don't tell me I'm ugly here. Just shut up and move on.

We can tell when someone doesn't find us their cup of tea. Those are the ones who just don't comment. We don't need them to tell us that we look horrible to know that we aren't what they find attractive. There is nothing that you, or any other man could tell us that we haven't already said to ourselves. You can't possibly think that we don't already look in a mirror and want to cry some days can you????

Now if I say.. "I need your opinions. Good or bad" Then you may offer the bad. Other wise. It's just kinda known to not say anything at all. Move on.

Please just offer respect.

This is why you are so many people’s hero.

 

[sexysecrets]

All of you ladies are stunning.

Just putting it out there.

 

[AlliaPotestas]

A full body one takes me back to my youth. Do I get bonus point for clearly remembering 50 years ago. I went out with a couple of student nurses when I was in college. One was a larger girl and wore a full body ‘passion killer’ I never did work out how she got it on or off, as when things started to get a bit more than passionate, I could not find fastenings or even get a finger nail under the edge anywhere. Had to give up in the end an had an earlier night than is expected.

I hope you persevered - nurses are worth the effort, xx

All I see is a sexy lady

Cheers m’dears, xx

Please don't resist

Come as you are, as we all do. There are no rules here against magic knickers or selective angles. It's your attitude and intent that matter most, and you are undeniably of a similar heart.

I think it's good and important that we are all at different places, the variety covers more ground, don't you think?

I have a bag of panty shapers somewhere, haven't worn one in about three years and I've been pretty vehemently against them during that time. But I've gained so much weight on my meds that I'm horribly self-conscious about my tummy now... or again - I'm back up to my post-baby weight of eight years ago, before i started power walking and lost a bunch.

So I've been thinking of pulling out the least restrictive of the shapers, to give me a bit more confidence. I find i am constantly touching my tummy (subconsiously trying to cover it, i suppose), and checking to make sure that my tops are long enough to cover. It's terribly distracting and i spend way too much energy thinking about it. I'm hoping that wearing a shaper will relieve some of that anxiety and allow me to focus that energy in a more productive direction. Time will tell.

I'm not in a very good place with my body right now.

Oh honey, you are a gorgeous hunk of a woman. I can relate to the tummy hiding - I used to have a bad habit of constantly pulling tops down, trying to cover as much as I could.... my other half was always telling me off for stretching them out of shape. It took me a long time to acknowledge fitted clothes are actually more flattering... wearing a baggy tent of a top makes me look huge but it doesn’t stop me wanting to hide in one... that’s why the dresses are so significant. I only started wearing them after I joined lit... standing up, with a microphone, in a figure hugging dress, in front of over a hundred peeps would have seemed impossible... it was only possible because of the support here, including your beautiful self, so it saddens me that you are not in a good place,

I know you have inspired more than just me Honey, I hope you can find some peace (and that the meds settle down). You are beautiful... you are strong...you are more than enough, nothing else matters,

Wow!!!! You look amazing!!!! A damned near perfect body

Nowhere near... but it’s mine... and it’s strong, that’ll do, xx

You look great without it. And you're right about the message to send to young women.

I tried on an all body shaper once and it was hard to get out of the thing. I managed to get out of it, but for awhile there, I thought they were going to have to call the fire department to come to get me out of it with the jaws of life!

Haha! Would firemen turning up to a fitting room be so bad?

AlliaPotestas ~ Allow me to add in a WOWZA and maybe a little wolf whistle.



Now my turn... normally I would futz around with this, try to get the perfect angle but fuck it! Let's be real.

And just 'cuz I like my new socks.

Stunning! And I love your socks

Woo both of you ladies, gorgeous!

Thanks lovely.

Relaxing in bed this morning:

https://i.imgur.com/udhwtjm.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/SmKJkML.jpg

You gorgeous thing,

Just to clarify, I didn’t actually come up with ‘simpering fucktools’ myself, but a magical human used it to make me feel better yesterday in a PM and I absolutely adore it. I will be stealing it, as should you... (I love when new insults ring true and are fun to say).

I last wore my controlling-hose-of-pain-and-loathing over a year ago to a wedding. I couldn’t sit at all because of the restriction. Such a waste. Never going to purchase those again... but a nice training corset? That may be on my wish list...

As long as you are wearing it for you beautiful,

These are re-posts, but since they fit in with the theme here:

https://i.imgur.com/sohliul.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/FbgVxOM.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/w475mtM.jpg

Smoking hot reposts always welcome, xx

 

[AlliaPotestas]

This is why you are so many people’s hero.

He’s not wrong sassy,

All of you ladies are stunning.

Just putting it out there.

 

[lurkingguy1978]

you are all amazing and beautiful and sexy.

So fuck the trolls. Be who you are, and post what you want.

 

[jasonmason]

you are all amazing and beautiful and sexy.

So fuck the trolls. Be who you are, and post what you want.

Quoted for truth.

 

[PassTheTime]

Ugh... First. OP means Original Poster. That would be Wild Honey. Not the person you criticized. She started the thread for the ladies to post in.

You are right in the fact that a good percentage of men will come on here and say something to any and all women who post in hopes of getting them to post more revealing pictures. BUT most of the women (unless new usually) can tell the difference between those men and the ones who are giving genuine compliments.
But even when I had my own picture thread, I was always polite and thanked anyone who took the time to comment.

When insecure women (and most women are) post pictures, they are not asking for negative comments. They post because they are looking for an ego boost. They want to feel beautiful. Appreciated. Sexy. Out in the real world (Offline) we get enough of the negative. It's not like guys walk up to us and tell us we're beautiful. Maybe we're in relationships where our SO doesn't compliment us anymore, so we need to feel beautiful again. I know from my own personal experience. No one gets whiplash looking at me in the real world, no one comes up to me to tell me I'm pretty. No one says beautiful things to me walking down the street. So when I am feeling extra ugly. I post here for a lift. Call me needy, call me anything you like. But don't tell me I'm ugly here. Just shut up and move on.

We can tell when someone doesn't find us their cup of tea. Those are the ones who just don't comment. We don't need them to tell us that we look horrible to know that we aren't what they find attractive. There is nothing that you, or any other man could tell us that we haven't already said to ourselves. You can't possibly think that we don't already look in a mirror and want to cry some days can you????

Now if I say.. "I need your opinions. Good or bad" Then you may offer the bad. Other wise. It's just kinda known to not say anything at all. Move on.

Please just offer respect.

I actually did walk up to a random lady at the gas station one day and just told her she looked amazing and then turned, got in my car, and left.

I wish I felt I could do that more but in a world where multiple movements for many different things and safe spaces are put in place...it kinda scares off the nice guys who get the notion to give an unbiased, random compliment that carries no hidden agenda.

Now with that bit said the pictures of alla and lucius (man I hope I got those names right because shooting from memory and that is risky for me) were fantastic

 

[Todger65]

I hope you persevered - nurses are worth the effort, xx

They are. We remained friends for quite a while but I moved on to her friend, also a student nurse. We used to go out drinking at a threesome. I was her first, and we kept in touch even after I left college and we both married. My family used to visit her family at least once a year until her hubby got jealous and thought I was trying to get off with her again. Not true. So we had to cool off our visits. I used to get info through a third party and found out she died of cancer about 3 years back.

I must admit, nurses and teachers have been part of my life for years with the ladies I have been friendly with, although I didn’t marry one.

 

[RjThoughts]

I hope you persevered - nurses are worth the effort, xx

Family is full of nurses, both sides! Sister and three cousins are RNs, another has her Master's in Nursing.

Grandmother was an ER nurse for over 30 years. Sunday dinners with her started with, "So grandma, anything good happen this week?"

I walk past a hospital at least 3 times a week on my way to-from market. I see the hot and sexy nurses in their cartoon and pastel scrubs (lot of them work with children).

So, yes! They are worth it.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Things in no particular order:

1. Twatwaffle might be my new favourite word.

2. This is a pic I wouldn’t normally share - with my Bridget Jones knickers before squeezing into the sort of dress I would never normally have considered before lit gave me a smidgen more confidence.

http://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=2060511&stc=1&d=1546071501

3. Fun fact - I could barely breathe and the dress was for a talk to shiny young women starting out in their careers... I took a pic with and without the knickers and decided:

a) the difference was so insignificant, it wasn’t worth my breathing
b) it was sending entirely the wrong message to my shiny young things and maybe it didn’t hurt to show them that a fat short woman can kick ass in a male dominated career.

http://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=2060512&stc=1&d=1546071510

4. People that want to criticise others should be willing to show something of themselves...

Great pics (all you lovely ladies). "Twatwaffle" is a great word, and I try not to over use it.

One correction: DON'T fuck the trolls. It's as bad as feeding them!

 

[Thompsonmike102]

So gorgeous, ladies! Keep them coming, I am really enjoying your pics

 

[nowisthetime]

NO, please NO. That's not at all attractive.

Post your pic, then.

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

So is this thread still going?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

So is this thread still going?

It is now!

 

[tnman03]

So is this thread still going?

Well hello!!! You've fired the thread up and nicely done too. Beautiful picture and very sexy.

I always admire the poster who come to this thread, its a good place.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I am sometimes overwhelmed by the kindness shown here, and on similar threads. I literally don't know how to process it, or what to say in response.

You people are so lovely. I am grateful!

 

[IrreverendBoob]

So is this thread still going?

With such beauty as yours, you can definitely keep things alive in here.

 

[AlliaPotestas]

So is this thread still going?

Gorgeous gorgeous gorgeous (and I want those knickers.. how cute are they?)

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

Gosh, you guys!!!!! It does a girl good to have her uhm dimples appreciated. And even a new Litster’s first post, I am honored! Welcome, Noob, I hope you’ll like it here.
I’m inspired to share one more..

 

[tallladiesman]

So is this thread still going?

There's more than the thread going after that picture

 

[tallladiesman]

Gosh, you guys!!!!! It does a girl good to have her uhm dimples appreciated. And even a new Litster’s first post, I am honored! Welcome, Noob, I hope you’ll like it here.
I’m inspired to share one more..

I'm feeling a bit inspired myself

 

[tnman03]

Gosh, you guys!!!!! It does a girl good to have her uhm dimples appreciated. And even a new Litster’s first post, I am honored! Welcome, Noob, I hope you’ll like it here.
I’m inspired to share one more..

Oh now!!! That's another really good pic, your looking good.

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

I am sometimes overwhelmed by the kindness shown here, and on similar threads. I literally don't know how to process it, or what to say in response.

You people are so lovely. I am grateful!

Seeing as how it was you who started most of these threads, one might deduce that you’re the loveliest of us all. I wouldn’t argue with that. Maybe the rest of us merely reflect the light you radiate.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Such sexy ladies!!! More please!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

With such beauty as yours, you can definitely keep things alive in here.

Thank you for directing your first ever post at me!