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Wanting one's own bookshelf is one thing, but imagine if the request was to have separate beds.:eek:

I can see the appeal....after all, got the rest of the house to turn into a den of iniquity... I don't think being a creature that likes their own space necessarily means anything terrible.

See, I may adore everything about a partner and want to give them every pleasure they desire. That doesn't mean I have to put up with them stealing my duvet :D
 
Finally found the whole thing...I love it.

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"Date a girl who reads. Date a girl who spends her money on books instead of clothes. She has problems with closet space because she has too many books. Date a girl who has a list of books she wants to read, who has had a library card since she was twelve.

Find a girl who reads. You’ll know that she does because she will always have an unread book in her bag.She’s the one lovingly looking over the shelves in the bookstore, the one who quietly cries out when she finds the book she wants. You see the weird chick sniffing the pages of an old book in a second hand book shop? That’s the reader. They can never resist smelling the pages, especially when they are yellow.

She’s the girl reading while waiting in that coffee shop down the street. If you take a peek at her mug, the non-dairy creamer is floating on top because she’s kind of engrossed already. Lost in a world of the author’s making. Sit down. She might give you a glare, as most girls who read do not like to be interrupted. Ask her if she likes the book.

Buy her another cup of coffee.

Let her know what you really think of Murakami. See if she got through the first chapter of Fellowship. Understand that if she says she understood James Joyce’s Ulysses she’s just saying that to sound intelligent. Ask her if she loves Alice or she would like to be Alice.

It’s easy to date a girl who reads. Give her books for her birthday, for Christmas and for anniversaries. Give her the gift of words, in poetry, in song. Give her Neruda, Pound, Sexton, Cummings. Let her know that you understand that words are love. Understand that she knows the difference between books and reality but by god, she’s going to try to make her life a little like her favorite book. It will never be your fault if she does.

She has to give it a shot somehow.

Lie to her. If she understands syntax, she will understand your need to lie. Behind words are other things: motivation, value, nuance, dialogue. It will not be the end of the world.

Fail her. Because a girl who reads knows that failure always leads up to the climax. Because girls who understand that all things will come to end. That you can always write a sequel. That you can begin again and again and still be the hero. That life is meant to have a villain or two.

Why be frightened of everything that you are not? Girls who read understand that people, like characters, develop. Except in the Twilightseries.

If you find a girl who reads, keep her close. When you find her up at 2 AM clutching a book to her chest and weeping, make her a cup of tea and hold her. You may lose her for a couple of hours but she will always come back to you. She’ll talk as if the characters in the book are real, because for a while, they always are.

You will propose on a hot air balloon. Or during a rock concert. Or very casually next time she’s sick. Over Skype.

You will smile so hard you will wonder why your heart hasn’t burst and bled out all over your chest yet. You will write the story of your lives, have kids with strange names and even stranger tastes. She will introduce your children to the Cat in the Hat and Aslan, maybe in the same day. You will walk the winters of your old age together and she will recite Keats under her breath while you shake the snow off your boots.

Date a girl who reads because you deserve it. You deserve a girl who can give you the most colorful life imaginable. If you can only give her monotony, and stale hours and half-baked proposals, then you’re better off alone. If you want the world and the worlds beyond it, date a girl who reads.

Or better yet, date a girl who writes.”

~ Rosemarie Urquico
 
Finally found the whole thing...I love it.

:heart:

"Date a girl who reads. Date a girl who spends her money on books instead of clothes. She has problems with closet space because she has too many books. Date a girl who has a list of books she wants to read, who has had a library card since she was twelve.

Find a girl who reads. You’ll know that she does because she will always have an unread book in her bag.She’s the one lovingly looking over the shelves in the bookstore, the one who quietly cries out when she finds the book she wants. You see the weird chick sniffing the pages of an old book in a second hand book shop? That’s the reader. They can never resist smelling the pages, especially when they are yellow.

She’s the girl reading while waiting in that coffee shop down the street. If you take a peek at her mug, the non-dairy creamer is floating on top because she’s kind of engrossed already. Lost in a world of the author’s making. Sit down. She might give you a glare, as most girls who read do not like to be interrupted. Ask her if she likes the book.

Buy her another cup of coffee.

Let her know what you really think of Murakami. See if she got through the first chapter of Fellowship. Understand that if she says she understood James Joyce’s Ulysses she’s just saying that to sound intelligent. Ask her if she loves Alice or she would like to be Alice.

It’s easy to date a girl who reads. Give her books for her birthday, for Christmas and for anniversaries. Give her the gift of words, in poetry, in song. Give her Neruda, Pound, Sexton, Cummings. Let her know that you understand that words are love. Understand that she knows the difference between books and reality but by god, she’s going to try to make her life a little like her favorite book. It will never be your fault if she does.

She has to give it a shot somehow.

Lie to her. If she understands syntax, she will understand your need to lie. Behind words are other things: motivation, value, nuance, dialogue. It will not be the end of the world.

Fail her. Because a girl who reads knows that failure always leads up to the climax. Because girls who understand that all things will come to end. That you can always write a sequel. That you can begin again and again and still be the hero. That life is meant to have a villain or two.

Why be frightened of everything that you are not? Girls who read understand that people, like characters, develop. Except in the Twilightseries.

If you find a girl who reads, keep her close. When you find her up at 2 AM clutching a book to her chest and weeping, make her a cup of tea and hold her. You may lose her for a couple of hours but she will always come back to you. She’ll talk as if the characters in the book are real, because for a while, they always are.

You will propose on a hot air balloon. Or during a rock concert. Or very casually next time she’s sick. Over Skype.

You will smile so hard you will wonder why your heart hasn’t burst and bled out all over your chest yet. You will write the story of your lives, have kids with strange names and even stranger tastes. She will introduce your children to the Cat in the Hat and Aslan, maybe in the same day. You will walk the winters of your old age together and she will recite Keats under her breath while you shake the snow off your boots.

Date a girl who reads because you deserve it. You deserve a girl who can give you the most colorful life imaginable. If you can only give her monotony, and stale hours and half-baked proposals, then you’re better off alone. If you want the world and the worlds beyond it, date a girl who reads.

Or better yet, date a girl who writes.”

~ Rosemarie Urquico

She will become the mother that would never send her children to Kindlegarten.:D
 
She will become the mother that would never send her children to Kindlegarten.:D

:D:D you're on form today.

Guess who's the owner of a Kindle Fire...Fucking heathen I know. Although in my defence, I've not read a single word on it yet because I discovered that Angry Birds in HD is amazing.
 
:D:D you're on form today.

Guess who's the owner of a Kindle Fire...Fucking heathen I know. Although in my defence, I've not read a single word on it yet because I discovered that Angry Birds in HD is amazing.

so you tweet as well as swim,;)

I learned of a school the other day that is pencil and paper free, ie all tablets and computers the future is scary,

how can children develop in that way,
 
so you tweet as well as swim,;)

I learned of a school the other day that is pencil and paper free, ie all tablets and computers the future is scary,

how can children develop in that way,

Some of us fishies can sing under water :)

Yeah, I've heard of them too. It gives me the shivers to think that's what schools are becoming, I just can't see how it encourages creativity....but I'm really a Luddite in disguise so maybe I don't have a clue what I'm talking about.
 
See, I may adore everything about a partner and want to give them every pleasure they desire. That doesn't mean I have to put up with them stealing my duvet :D

I laughed! I'm glad that I wasn't drinking any water when I read this :D.

Guess who's the owner of a Kindle Fire...Fucking heathen I know. Although in my defence, I've not read a single word on it yet because I discovered that Angry Birds in HD is amazing.

You heathen :eek::D! How could you :p?
 
I laughed! I'm glad that I wasn't drinking any water when I read this :D.

You heathen :eek::D! How could you :p?

I know I know. I'll :caning: myself this time.

Makes my bag a lot lighter when I'm travelling with a messed up arm. That's the very boring excuse :)
 
I know I know. I'll :caning: myself this time.

Makes my bag a lot lighter when I'm travelling with a messed up arm. That's the very boring excuse :)

:D. I like that you apply equal standards in this thread :D.

That's a good reason though to be fair. I did my back in as an undergraduate student lugging books around, so I am more careful these days about how many books I carry from one place to another.
 
Some of us fishies can sing under water :)

Yeah, I've heard of them too. It gives me the shivers to think that's what schools are becoming, I just can't see how it encourages creativity....but I'm really a Luddite in disguise so maybe I don't have a clue what I'm talking about.

My Chinese students (for their oral exam) gave speeches today. One girl used her phone (probably the note making function) as a palm card. I'd never seen that before.
And when I handed out the topics (which had to be returned) many simply took a pic using their phones instead of copying by hand.
 
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