The Vallentine Day Depression thread.

[TN_Vixen]

V-Day I connotate with D-Day

they both fucking are ruinous and have no real value other than gaining a point for the opposition.



I'm no real fan.. so what was your first clue mf'r? hehe

 

[Xander]

I know you were being sarcastic, Xander-dear. I just needed to vent for three seconds

LOL Angel-Dear (hehehehe) I was just pulling your leg

 

[Angel]

Uhmm you wanna start pullin on body parts now eh?

 

[Svedish_Chef]

I hate Valentines Day and I will spend it locked up in my room alone where I don't have to look at people being mushy and lovey dovey.

PLease Lock me up with you!!!

Ok do weform a queue or would that make it too obvious?

 

[Xander]

Uhmm you wanna start pullin on body parts now eh?

Uhm YES *humming an innocent tune*

 

[Guest]

Unfortunately I've only had one Valentines Day in my 31 years that I've actually celebrated. Yeah, it sucks. I'll blast "Love Stinks" by J. Geils Band like I do every year.

 

[Angel]

I will be playing REM songs all day.

 

[Xander]

*singing*
"And it's the end of the world as we know it......"

 

[Svedish_Chef]

A beautiful song for you all

By Jewel

I hate valentines day

http://www.geocities.com/~sarastro62/2audio2/poj-vday.ra

 

[Angel]

Perfect songs for my mood

 

[Endlessly]

Singles bah. What about non-singles with people who just don't get that this kind of thing matters?

The first birthday of his when we were together, I bought him a plane ticket. I have not let a single damn holiday go by unnoticed in the last three years.. EVERYthing, from Christmas to birthdays to V-day to freakin' thanskgiving and St. Patrick's Day, you name it. He's never so much as verbalized a holiday greeting.

I know giving is better than recieving.. But that doesn't mean I'd mind being able to find out for myself. *dry smile*

 

[TN_Vixen]

Endlessly...

I was married to a man from the time I turned 22 to the time I was over 28 who only once acknowledged V-Day with me. Not only that but he never even gave me a card on my birthday and I can only remember one Christmas (our first as husband and wife) that he went to any length to make me feel special.

It's true. There are men out there like that. I spent almost 8 yrs. of my life.. my YOUNG life with someone who never ever realized what he had in a partner and yet he couldn't see that it was only a very simple... very simple thing I needed in return.

You shouldn't be in this relationship that you're in. I hate to be decisive about this given that I don't know you very well, but I sense that you'll consistently be disappointed and discouraged. You are giving entirely too much and should rightly expect the other person to give in return.

Quit settling for less, sweetheart. You are so much better than this.

 

[Ophelia]

Well sweetie I told ya I would call ya on V day just tell me when!

 

[Ravenloft]

Its another TWIST OUT THE LIGHT BULB, STICK IN YOUR TONGUE love song! Gah!

 

[Angel]

I will be celebrating a new holiday on February 14th.

It is called "Fuck Being In Love" day. Who wants to party with me?

 

[Ravenloft]

*Rasing a hand.*
I will be this new holidays FIRST supporter!
Yet one more day that the lovers are all robbed of getting love letters due to the mail carriers getting the holiday off! Muahahah! Sadistic bastard arn't I?!

 

[Angel]

Good we can all wallow in our misery together.

Know what sucks? I bought him a bunch of shit for V day and his Bday next month. None of it is refundable. But I'm keeping the playstation 2

 

[Ravenloft]

Misery loves company does it not?

I'm gonna buy a dvd player, and the dvd of Coyote Ugly to drown my sorrows in the sight of girls dancing on bar tops!

 

[Angel]

I just want to take a trip up to Canada and go to the Casino and to the strip club. I need a date tho

::hum::

 

[Ravenloft]

Canada? Thats not very far from me...

*Hum*

 

[Angel]

Nor is Niagra Falls far from me. I'm really thinking of going up there on the Evil V-Day so I don't have to risk running into certain people. LOL. Plus I can get some booze and smokes real cheap. Keep my mind off -things-

 

[willywanker]

And what about those of us who have to celibrate?

I'm married, and cards have always been one of my "things." Wife says I always pick out the perfect card. Well, I've been looking and I can't find one anywhere that says what I feel this year.

Where are the "I'd love for you to quit bitching" or the "Be your own Valentine and quit sucking the life out of me" cards. You guys can at least just be pissed about the day, I've still got to participate. VALENTINES DAY SUCKS

 

[Angel]

And that is supposed to make me, who got dumped right before Valentine's day feel better? No it makes me feel worse because you have someone who loves you and you're bitching about it. Nobody is putting a gun to your head and making you Celibrate are they? no.



[Edited by Angel on 02-13-2001 at 09:27 AM]

 

[willywanker]

Angel, I certianly didn't mean to dump on anyone who has just gotten dumped. I feel for you and understand what your going thru. But while if you asked her my wife if she loves me, she would say yes, her actions don't say the same thing. And you don't think I have a gun to my head?, Just let me show up with nothing tomorrow and I will wish I was dead.

All I really meant from my post is that just because some of us are with someone doesn't make Valentines Day a great holiday. I'm trying to work things out and think I will, but I'm not looking forward to being forced by a day on the calender to say things I don't really feel at this time.

And Angel, if you'll accept, here is a BIG HUG from an insensative male. Happy Feb. 15 everyone!!!!

 

[Angel]

{{{willy}}}

I didn't mean you were dumping on us, I just said it didn't feel better. And If I were YOU, I would put my foot down about the matter. Then again I'm just a bitch so maybe thats just me.