KittyKida
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I've recently done quite a bit of research on The Venus Butterfly (Also known as 'the Hour Long Orgasm') which, as I have deciphered, is simply a means to a longer, more satisfying orgasm by method of repeated edging. This particular method is with a partner.
For M/F couples, it can be achieved by having the female lie on her back with her legs spread, with the male opposing. He then directs his erect penis downward towards her vagina and, barely touching, stimulates either the clitoral hood (on either SIDE, rather than directly on or above) or the hyper-sensitive area just above the opening to the vagina. Once the peak prior to orgasm is reached, the stimulation shoupld be reduced or stopped, and then the entire process re-initiated when the peak subsides. This method usually works better with lube, although if she happens to be quite wet it isn't really necessary. The option of utilizing masturbatory techniques is also used, although generally less effective.
For F/F couples there are a few options. The above method may be utilized by means of a dildo, vibrator, or other phallic object, with either partner stimulating the other. The other option is masturbatory, bringing your partner as close to orgasm with your hand/fingers as possible and then reducing or stopping stimulation altogether. Although I didn't find it much in my research, I've heard that scissoring is also effective, where gyrations are synchronized and vary in both speed and pressure.
For M/M couples there are also a few options. The first, and widely disputed to be the most effective, is by stimulating the prostate gland by means of the anus or perineum (or both) and reducing/eliminating stimulation when close to orgasm, then repeating the process several times. Another option is to orally service one another, while applying gentle, external stimulation to the anus (the more lubricated this area is, the better it feels. Spit works well.) or perineal area. The last method is also widely used, which is basically the same as the method above but the anus is stimulated by mouth and the penis is stimulated by hand.
Important: In order for ANY of these methods to be effective for edging, there needs to be an excessive amount of communication. It is vital that you understand your partner well enough to know when to reduce or stop stimulating (in the case of edging), or when to increase stimulation to produce the final orgasm. Over time, as one becomes more aware of the nuances your partner makes prior to ejaculation, you will better be able to perform this act.
That being said, masturbating oneself is the most effective method for obtaining the orgasm. This is obviously because you know your own body better than anyone else, and can gage your own reactions better. Words can't fully describe feelings, but they do come close.
Although orgasms differ from person to person, it has been said that, over time, using this method will enable one to stay on the brink of orgasm for an indefinite amount of time (controlled by oneself). The final, resulting orgasm lasts for a very long time (sometimes even up to an hour) and creates a euphoric feeling that can detach one from reality. Having said that, it is advised that this be done in a safe and supportive environment.
I would greatly appreciate others posting any information they might have on prolonging pleasure, tantric sex, or the aforementioned subject - as well as any corrections to/addendum of the information I have explained above.
Hope this was helpful!!
xoxo,
Kida and her mate.
For M/F couples, it can be achieved by having the female lie on her back with her legs spread, with the male opposing. He then directs his erect penis downward towards her vagina and, barely touching, stimulates either the clitoral hood (on either SIDE, rather than directly on or above) or the hyper-sensitive area just above the opening to the vagina. Once the peak prior to orgasm is reached, the stimulation shoupld be reduced or stopped, and then the entire process re-initiated when the peak subsides. This method usually works better with lube, although if she happens to be quite wet it isn't really necessary. The option of utilizing masturbatory techniques is also used, although generally less effective.
For F/F couples there are a few options. The above method may be utilized by means of a dildo, vibrator, or other phallic object, with either partner stimulating the other. The other option is masturbatory, bringing your partner as close to orgasm with your hand/fingers as possible and then reducing or stopping stimulation altogether. Although I didn't find it much in my research, I've heard that scissoring is also effective, where gyrations are synchronized and vary in both speed and pressure.
For M/M couples there are also a few options. The first, and widely disputed to be the most effective, is by stimulating the prostate gland by means of the anus or perineum (or both) and reducing/eliminating stimulation when close to orgasm, then repeating the process several times. Another option is to orally service one another, while applying gentle, external stimulation to the anus (the more lubricated this area is, the better it feels. Spit works well.) or perineal area. The last method is also widely used, which is basically the same as the method above but the anus is stimulated by mouth and the penis is stimulated by hand.
Important: In order for ANY of these methods to be effective for edging, there needs to be an excessive amount of communication. It is vital that you understand your partner well enough to know when to reduce or stop stimulating (in the case of edging), or when to increase stimulation to produce the final orgasm. Over time, as one becomes more aware of the nuances your partner makes prior to ejaculation, you will better be able to perform this act.
That being said, masturbating oneself is the most effective method for obtaining the orgasm. This is obviously because you know your own body better than anyone else, and can gage your own reactions better. Words can't fully describe feelings, but they do come close.
Although orgasms differ from person to person, it has been said that, over time, using this method will enable one to stay on the brink of orgasm for an indefinite amount of time (controlled by oneself). The final, resulting orgasm lasts for a very long time (sometimes even up to an hour) and creates a euphoric feeling that can detach one from reality. Having said that, it is advised that this be done in a safe and supportive environment.
I would greatly appreciate others posting any information they might have on prolonging pleasure, tantric sex, or the aforementioned subject - as well as any corrections to/addendum of the information I have explained above.
Hope this was helpful!!
xoxo,
Kida and her mate.
