Things that made you smile today.

[Mephistophelily]

I'm suddenly wondering if there's like an internet "hub" for BDSM players that us non-practicing folks are unaware of where the lingo is picked up and circulated.

4chan????



ETA:
My happy today?
A nice good morning from a missed Good Night pm.

 

[Britwitch]

pouncing my Alpha before I run

my alpha, meeting Mav in my Den, early morning pep talk from the Witchling, my 16 year old coming to meet me at work...

Being called Witchling...

 

[Ahren]

4chan isn't a hub for anything except perhaps memes.

 

[Stephanie4play]

There are thousands of such hubs. You're posting in one right now.

Let me put it his way. I have heard vanilla sex called bland. I do not however agree that it's bland. I also know a woman who absolutely cannot cum unless she is bleeding. To her, what I call bdsm could be called flavorless and unprovocative. In other words, to her, I'm vanilla.

Once a person finds the reality of pain as pleasure, the soft touch of a gentle lover sometimes loses it's flavor... therefore, Vanilla.

 

[Light Ice]

There are thousands of such hubs. You're posting in one right now.

Let me put it his way. I have heard vanilla sex called bland. I do not however agree that it's bland. I also know a woman who absolutely cannot cum unless she is bleeding. To her, what I call bdsm could be called flavorless and unprovocative. In other words, to her, I'm vanilla.

Once a person finds the reality of pain as pleasure, the soft touch of a gentle lover sometimes loses it's flavor... therefore, Vanilla.

There's a lot of interesting word use here. I could question you further, out of curiosity, but I'm afraid the few dozen basement-dwelling Knights in Shining Armor that visit this website will flood this board with attempts to defend your honor from me. I am, after all, the big bad wolf and you clearly are in need of rescuing.

 

[LoganDarkHolme]

I am, after all, the big bad wolf a

*laughing*

thats my title bud, you dont deserve it LOL

 

[Stephanie4play]

I'm smiling because every time my bum moves in my seat, the wounds of my tapioca lover and husband are sending twinges of delight all through my body.

Tis the way to this girls heart.

 

[Stephanie4play]

There's a lot of interesting word use here. I could question you further, out of curiosity, but I'm afraid the few dozen basement-dwelling Knights in Shining Armor that visit this website will flood this board with attempts to defend your honor from me. I am, after all, the big bad wolf and you clearly are in need of rescuing.

Feel free to question me. I've been collared and leashed in public my friend. I know intolerance. Nothing here is going to hurt me, (the bad pain.) Plus, I can hold my own in a debate. But keep in mind, that to understand my point of view almost exclusively requires a paradigm shift of some sort, so you might be wasting your time.

Please do so in PM though, out of respect for the knighthood.

 

[yeishia]

Its no fun if it isn't done publicly Sephanie

 

[Light Ice]

*laughing*

thats my title bud, you dont deserve it LOL

How does one earn the title "Big Bad Wolf", Logan? Enlighten me.

 

[Stephanie4play]

Smiling because my days as a spectacle ended long ago.

Ooo, there's my bum again. More smiles, I just wish it hurt a little more!

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Being called Witchling...

Then my job is done and I can go home, knowing I made a pretty Witchling...smile...


also~ Seeing my Muse...even in passing. Gods I miss her.....

 

[Ahren]

How does one earn the title "Big Bad Wolf", Logan? Enlighten me.

Apparently by making an avatar with a wolf in it.

 

[Ahren]

Well if he won't, I will.

Once a person finds the reality of pain as pleasure, the soft touch of a gentle lover sometimes loses it's flavor... therefore, Vanilla.

The 'reality' suggests that pain is pleasurable is a fact. That's not a fact, it's a kink. Not everyone shares the same one.

Also vanilla is a flavor. It's a common one, but a flavor nonetheless. The analogy doesn't make much sense in that regard.

 

[Stephanie4play]

Smiling as I reject your reality and substitute my own.

 

[Kat73]

My son totally rocking out with my husband to Bodies!

 

[Light Ice]

Smiling as I reject your reality and substitute my own.

I don't believe Ahren is attempting to criticize your lifestyle, Stephanie. I think Ahren is attempting to criticize your choice of words. He's reasserting that the literal definition of pain is the absolute opposite of pleasure. The two cannot be synonymous.

One of the struggles, as I've mentioned to you in PM, is how difficult it becomes to speak to BDSM practitioners about their lifestyle. They become so rapidly and irrationally defensive that actually -learning- from them becomes an exercise in interpretation and translation (which is highly subjective) rather than fact finding.

I asked a question about what the connotations of Vanilla were and where the term came from. It could have been that simple.

Instead, look at where we've ended up?

It seems pretty silly to me.

 

[Commendatore]

Vanilla is a flavor. It's a pleasant, sensual basic flavor that can be amended or built upon. In regard to Vanilla as a sexual term, I think it's the same. It's a societal norm (a range of norms) that a majority can agree upon. Any other connotation it might have is with the individual. People of all kinds tend to regard their view as the superior one, rightly or wrongly, and a good deal of defensiveness accompanies most consideration or debate regarding sexual identity, as any perusal of this board will tell you. These occlude the exchange of information.

 

[Ahren]

Smiling as I reject your reality and substitute my own.

It isn't my reality, it's just reality. If you find pain pleasurable, well good for you. Your statement seemed to imply that everyone does and some people just don't know it yet. That's obviously not true.

But hey, maybe I will someday. Maybe I'll get my arm torn off and immediately have the best orgasm of my life.

 

[Light Ice]

Maybe I'll get my arm torn off and immediately have the best orgasm of my life.

Hilarious.

But, believe it or not, I saw a TV show where a woman had orgasms while she was giving birth.

 

[Alana_]

What made me smile?

L.I's post in our thread Amidst the Ruins. L.I himself. And Brit for following the story. Thank you sweet lady.

My Mum and Aunt, who provided a bit of a laugh at a time where I could truly do with it. It was a nice reprieve.

Some posts here.

 

[Stephanie4play]

I've graduated to giggle fits.

 

[Trinique_Fire]

...kicking a soccer ball around the yard
...the fact that beautiful Luna's ring still fits my finger
...mine and Luna's baby girl having a temper tantrum in the bathtub
...freebies

 

[Vail_Indigo]

Trini being back

 

[zydrate]

Hilarious.

But, believe it or not, I saw a TV show where a woman had orgasms while she was giving birth.

I saw that show too (i hate to admit that lol) but from what I understood she had another kid just to see if she could have another orgasm as intense as she did during the first birth...