Things That Make You Uncomfortable....But Also Turn You On

[HarperValley]

Being teased and played with by my Daddy, with my hands cuffed behind my back, while others watch.

mmm......

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I’m not sure why this makes me uncomfortable but it does. . .

That pic makes me uncomfortable, but doesn't turn me on at all. It makes me cringe.

 

[sweetheart97]

mmm......

Does my Daddy approve?

I also like being told to take my panties off and give them to my daddy when we're near other people.

 

[HarperValley]

Does my Daddy approve?

I also like being told to take my panties off and give them to my daddy when we're near other people.

he approves...as well you know!

 

[Ropebunny]

Yes, yes!

Anything involving feet touching me sexually makes me recoil - pinching, prodding, poking and dare I say it, inserting *shudders*

Makes me wetter than a slip ‘n slide though (probably something to do with the thought of being so filthy not even hands should touch me...)

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Period sex. The thought. but then I’m always so horny at the time I can’t stop thinking about it either

This^^^

Enjoy it while you can. You'll miss it when its gone...

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Lying on my back, my head off the edge of the bed, his junk in my face.

Something about knowing that he can see me naked and exposed - that he's probably looking at my body - but not being able to watch his face... something about that makes me nervous.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

This^^^

Enjoy it while you can. You'll miss it when its gone...

This makes me sad.

 

[Nzerxx]

This^^^

Enjoy it while you can. You'll miss it when its gone...

I’m not sure I’ll miss the periods but if there is a drop in libido...that would make me sad

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I’m not sure I’ll miss the periods but if there is a drop in libido...that would make me sad

FWIW, i am nearly through menopause and ive experienced no drop in libido or sexual response because of it.

 

[ZanzibarWest]

FWIW, i am nearly through menopause and ive experienced no drop in libido or sexual response because of it.

Congrats!

I think getting a drop in my libido would make me nervous...but considering I've been on medication before that has created a surge to the point of having a sixteen year old libido instead, that turns me out literally but makes me very nervous.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

This makes me sad.

To be clear: I miss the "forbidden" nature of period sex. She's nearly through menopause, periods are always a surprise now.

I’m not sure I’ll miss the periods but if there is a drop in libido...that would make me sad

I am happy to report no drop in Libido.

Congrats!

I think getting a drop in my libido would make me nervous...but considering I've been on medication before that has created a surge to the point of having a sixteen year old libido instead, that turns me out literally but makes me very nervous.

I think people with a higher sex drive tend to always have a higher sex drive, at least relatively.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

To be clear: I miss the "forbidden" nature of period sex. She's nearly through menopause, periods are always a surprise now.



I think people with a higher sex drive tend to always have a higher sex drive, at least relatively.

I'm a little sad because I've never had a partner who thought period sex was groovy, and i would have liked to have seen what that was like.

I tend to agree with your second statement. Menopause has had virtually no effect, and despite being on meds that do lower my libido slightly, i still go mountain climbing every day.

 

[Dejah_thoris_of_Mars]

This^^^

Enjoy it while you can. You'll miss it when its gone...

Never had it unless it was completely accidental. Then I was just embarrassed (I was young, back when everything embarrassed me).

Since I hit menopause, my libido has sky-rocketed. I don't know if that is also because I now understand what I really want and need and am not afraid to communicate this; whereas, previously I spent most of my life unhappy and dissatisfied with sex.

 

[gracie920101]

To be clear: I miss the "forbidden" nature of period sex. She's nearly through menopause, periods are always a surprise now.



I am happy to report no drop in Libido.



I think people with a higher sex drive tend to always have a higher sex drive, at least relatively.

Not necessarily true. I was always very active into my mid40s but my drive started sliding as I was labelled premenopausal. My libido hit 0 during menopause and one day approximately 10 years after losing it, I woke up and someone had flipped a switch and it was back...with a vengenance!

I feel as if I'm trying to make up for those post years.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

There is, without any question, a spectrum of menopausal responses regarding libido. It's not a bell curve.

The Doctor is in!

Well, not literally.

 

[MarriedDsCouple]

Yes - sometimes i go places with little or tight clothes on, Because of my profession I dress either in suits or skirts most days but i have gone to the store on weekends or evenings with just a tight tee, no bra and shorts or a short skirt. Sometimes I bend over to show more. I love it but at the same time- i am highly embarrassed. I guess that is the point.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Okay, going out on a limb here... one partner asking(telling) me to describe to them what i did with another partner.



Yes, i said it.

Exposure, taboo, all kinds of shame... and always the risk of 'bad girl' and abandonment.

These are verrry tricky waters to negotiate, i have to trust them a fuck tonne. They have to know how fast to push me, where the edge of the cliff is, and be prepared for the consequences if they tip me over.

But when they know how to work it, it's just fucking brilliant.

 

[Nzerxx]

FWIW, i am nearly through menopause and ive experienced no drop in libido or sexual response because of it.

Gives me hope!

 

[twister947]

This^^^

Enjoy it while you can. You'll miss it when its gone...

Truth. I especially miss looking in the mirror afterwards. A marked man. Possessed.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Fucking in front of a mirror, or did we just say that? I’m too lazy to scroll back.

Adding: I’ve done this. I don’t look at my face unless told to do so.

 

[base10]

Fucking in front of a mirror, or did we just say that? I’m too lazy to scroll back.

Adding: I’ve done this. I don’t look at my face unless told to do so.

So how often are you told to then?

 

[AlwaysFara]

So how often are you told to then?

Nunya.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Nunya.

( Must resist. Don't do it, argh! Fine...)

What's "Nunya"?

 

[AlwaysFara]

( Must resist. Don't do it, argh! Fine...)

What's "Nunya"?

Short for “None of your fucking business.”