Threesome question

[DemonLucifer]

[I posted something similiar elsewhere, but was told I might get better results from the HT board.]
My wife and I have talked about it for a long time now, so its not something we've just decided on a whim ot try. Its been a constant thing of fantasies for us, and something that gets both of us very excited to talk about.

First off, we are very devoted to each other. That's one main thing I've heard from people, "Be sure your relationship can handle someone else being added to the group." I'm certain, we are very happy with each other and want to share our openminded fun with another woman. We're not just looking to add someone to wake up our lovelife. Believe me, its doing great as is... We just want to share our fun.

My wife is bi-curious (something that as a typical guy I find very interesting, of course ), but is spooked at having a single one-on-one with another woman right now. She said she'd feel far more comfortable if I was there, taking part as well. She said its more the idea of someone else that would have some fun with our little games, someone for both of us to pleasure and play with, than just being alone with another girl. And like I'm going to argue with that?

I was just wondering from others out there- how did you go about setting up a meeting like this? We don't want it to be a meet-n-fuck type thing. If we were to have anyone our bed, we'd want to know them a bit. I hate the phrasing, but we'd be looking for a 'fuck buddy.' I guess friend with benefits is a better way to say it.

I guess what I'm wondering is, has anyone here done this? How do you go about doing it? Or are we just obsessing on a fantasy?

Thanks in advance, fellow lit'sters.

 

[deliciously_naughty]

My husband and I are actually discussing this at this point.

My recommendation would be to join The Erotic Review (google it for the site) and hire a call girl. They have ads, reviews, etc. there.

The major plusses are that the woman you involve has no emotional connection to you or your wife (something that was a huge problem for a friend of mine, when the other girl in the threesome developed a major crush on the guy and started to make efforts to ruin their relationship). She also will be experienced, and know how to make it work.

However, I would make a point of finding someone who does threesomes regularly. Plenty of girls are also willing to have coffee beforehand so that everyone involved can see if there's chemistry or not.

Technically, yes, illegal. But it's the easiest route with the least amount of complications. TER, for the record, is VERY discreet and you'll be dealing with high end call girls and not the equivalent of street walkers. Once you pay for membership, the descriptions of what each girl will and won't do are very explicit.

Just a thought.