Titty-fuck: Humiliating, or not?
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Boxlicker101
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gauchecritic said:
It probably wouldn't actually be rape but it could be battery or something like that.
This is assuming things are consensual and it wouldn't have to be. Sometimes a sadist can be in control because of his or her position like a prison guard or abusive parent or cop or schoolmaster, or because of size and strength like a playground bully or an abductor who whips his victims.
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my question is this
are you getting any closer to understanding why it turns you on so much?
are you getting any closer to understanding why it turns you on so much?
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Boxlicker101 said:
Yes, but that is nothing like a sub/Dom relationship, which was being discussed here.
Let's not get things confused. A good sub/Dom relationship is usually also extremely loving, and they care for each other deeply.
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Re: Re: my question is this
I like political/gender/literary theory, but it's not in mind during sex for me.
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Mack, there is no d/s element for me at all. It's simply the idea of having my breasts caress, dangle over, squish into, bump, frot, a man's body. As his cock is the ultimate goal for my attention (I'm just talkin' sex here), then tits on cock is pretty hot. Then again, I don't know that it measures up to tits on/in his mouth or hands.McKenna said:
I like political/gender/literary theory, but it's not in mind during sex for me.
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Mack, for your collection. Min came up with it at my request. P.
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gauchecritic
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I've just remembered something else that re-inforces my theory about it not being humiliating. Over here it's called a tit-wank.
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Tit fucking can be an act of sexual worship and fun foreplay, I worship his cock with my breasts, he worships my breasts with his cock. He loves my breasts, I love his cock, it's a great combination. Beautiful!
Seriously, I personally don't find it in any way humilating, I'm the one likely to instigate it. I love to sit at the edge of the bed, breasts all shiny with lube and have my lover stand, rubbing himself on my breasts, with the occasional pause to suck, it's a very visually pleasing thing to do, I feel adored by it. It's nice as Perdita mentioned to lean over and caress a cock with breasts.
As far as D/S play goes I guess if humiliation is the intention just about any sexual act could be so. There can be a great deal of sublety and complexity in power play and yes subs often "top from the bottom". Mack, I'm not sure that many subs would see themselves in any way as victims. A sub chooses to give away part of themselves or hand control to a Dom/me.
I think that in much mainstream porn , and perhaps the net porn that McKenna refers to, much sex has a kind of degrading feel about it, the sense of something being done to someone rather than two lovers genuinely enjoying themselves. Just a thought...
Seriously, I personally don't find it in any way humilating, I'm the one likely to instigate it. I love to sit at the edge of the bed, breasts all shiny with lube and have my lover stand, rubbing himself on my breasts, with the occasional pause to suck, it's a very visually pleasing thing to do, I feel adored by it. It's nice as Perdita mentioned to lean over and caress a cock with breasts.
As far as D/S play goes I guess if humiliation is the intention just about any sexual act could be so. There can be a great deal of sublety and complexity in power play and yes subs often "top from the bottom". Mack, I'm not sure that many subs would see themselves in any way as victims. A sub chooses to give away part of themselves or hand control to a Dom/me.
I think that in much mainstream porn , and perhaps the net porn that McKenna refers to, much sex has a kind of degrading feel about it, the sense of something being done to someone rather than two lovers genuinely enjoying themselves. Just a thought...
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Sorry double post, got all excited...
Got distracted.
Got distracted.
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Bless you, Gauche.
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Bless you, Gauche.
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for me it is physically and visually stimulating
there is something erotic about the feeling of a nipple or fleshy breast teasing my manhood --- i can't exactly explain but it is definately not dom sub because the mose exciting way is when she is over me letting them hang and tease me. or would that make me the sub in a dom sub setting?
there is something erotic about the feeling of a nipple or fleshy breast teasing my manhood --- i can't exactly explain but it is definately not dom sub because the mose exciting way is when she is over me letting them hang and tease me. or would that make me the sub in a dom sub setting?
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Hmmm
I don't think my SO finds it humiliating, (SO, what the fuck am I on), *L* often insists on such behaviour as receiving my manhood between her rather generous chest lobes on the odd occasion, usually about once or twice a week.
Her preferred method is to sit in a chair completely naked with her legs wide open, I am ordered to stand in front of her between her upper legs.
She then begins by unzipping my trousers and dragging them down complete with underwear, no easy task with a certain member of my anatomy refusing to co-operate by remaining firmly upright and snagging said underwear.
*L* then takes said upright member in her hand and starts licking and kissing the entire length of the shaft, rubbing the organ over her face and neck as she does so, also making rather sweet sounding little moans and grunts of pleasure.
Very often, if I haven't lost it and carried out a little premature face painting, she then eases herself higher and pulls me lower by my arse cheeks causing said member to slide down her neck to her chest, then with her entire upper half wriggling like a snake she closes her arms into her sides tightly encompassing my rampant hard weapon between her pair of 38's and give me a mind blowing tit wank, giggling like a kid as I present her with the pearl necklace.
Oh I forgot to mention, she also rubs snail trails up and down my legs as she forces her wide open flaps against them while I stand there receiving all this abuse.
I find this very humiliating when she insists on doing it in front of the gardening club.
We actually spend a lot of time naked rubbing ourselves against each other in various ways, and causing various methods of cumming, often in unison.
I don't think my SO finds it humiliating, (SO, what the fuck am I on), *L* often insists on such behaviour as receiving my manhood between her rather generous chest lobes on the odd occasion, usually about once or twice a week.
Her preferred method is to sit in a chair completely naked with her legs wide open, I am ordered to stand in front of her between her upper legs.
She then begins by unzipping my trousers and dragging them down complete with underwear, no easy task with a certain member of my anatomy refusing to co-operate by remaining firmly upright and snagging said underwear.
*L* then takes said upright member in her hand and starts licking and kissing the entire length of the shaft, rubbing the organ over her face and neck as she does so, also making rather sweet sounding little moans and grunts of pleasure.
Very often, if I haven't lost it and carried out a little premature face painting, she then eases herself higher and pulls me lower by my arse cheeks causing said member to slide down her neck to her chest, then with her entire upper half wriggling like a snake she closes her arms into her sides tightly encompassing my rampant hard weapon between her pair of 38's and give me a mind blowing tit wank, giggling like a kid as I present her with the pearl necklace.
Oh I forgot to mention, she also rubs snail trails up and down my legs as she forces her wide open flaps against them while I stand there receiving all this abuse.
I find this very humiliating when she insists on doing it in front of the gardening club.
We actually spend a lot of time naked rubbing ourselves against each other in various ways, and causing various methods of cumming, often in unison.
Well, hot damn!
Apparently I've been searching under "titfuck" and not "tit-fuck"...go figure.
Well, needless to say, I'm new here...realtively young too...and male. So basically...what the hell can I contribute to this conversation? Good question.
To be honest, I love tit-fucking...call it what you will. Not as a form of humilation at all, infact I take it as the most opposite. I will admit to loving breasts, and if they can literally "evelop" me, all the better!
Of course...that's just one 20 year old male college student...what the hell do i know?
Apparently I've been searching under "titfuck" and not "tit-fuck"...go figure.
Well, needless to say, I'm new here...realtively young too...and male. So basically...what the hell can I contribute to this conversation? Good question.
To be honest, I love tit-fucking...call it what you will. Not as a form of humilation at all, infact I take it as the most opposite. I will admit to loving breasts, and if they can literally "evelop" me, all the better!
Of course...that's just one 20 year old male college student...what the hell do i know?
