To those who are bisexual...

[sigh]

I go for the individual je ne sais quois in a person most of all. That said, I'm not blind to some patterns in my likings:

I dig in descending order:
sub girly guys
select Dom femme women and ultrafemme T's.
sub butch guys
sub butch girls and ultrabutch T's.
some sub femmes

rarest of exceptions would be the butch guy I let Dom me, definitely must be queer, can be a butch FTM guy but this would also be rare.

Power polarities and gender stuff are somewhat inseperable as attractors.

I was going to answer the thread question (honestly, I was!), but then I read this post and got stuck trying to figure out what it means.

I'll get back to you.

 

[april-wine]

I suppose I lean to the girly girls too, I just never figured out the ultra butch thing....I just think if I wanted someone who looked that much like a guy, why not a guy??? I guess thats my twisted brain at work....While I am not a girly girl myself I am most definately a girl....I like my girly bits, and I like hers too....

 

[SweetCherry]

I suppose I lean to the girly girls too, I just never figured out the ultra butch thing....I just think if I wanted someone who looked that much like a guy, why not a guy??? I guess thats my twisted brain at work....While I am not a girly girl myself I am most definately a girl....I like my girly bits, and I like hers too....

*drags out make up and dresses and girlie shoes*

Lucky for me, I LIKE that kinda stuff. Except for the shoe thing.

 

[PoliteSuccubus]

My daughter likes her boyfriends to be basically hairless and slightly fem with a high sense of humor. Sadly, the most outgoing humoress guys are the ones with hidden depression (ever hear of a happy clown) and so she ends up trying to help them. Although only 17 she's had three long term relationships (the currently one 14 months as of now.)

In girlfriends she likes girls like herself: Pretty but yet tomboyish, centered, and more serious than the boys she likes.

So far she's only had boyfriends, but asked if she could ask a co-worker out. I thought about it and honestly told her that between her boyfriend, her full time job, and homeschooling I didn't think she could really afford another relationship at this time.

Seeing that way, she agreed.

Her fant is shareing a house with another bi couple in a friends-with-benefits type deal. Her current boyfriend doesn't mind her being with others, but doesn't want to be with anyone else unless she's there.

*shakes her head ruefully* What's a mom to do? Just love her as much as I ever did, I guess.

 

[deliciously_naughty]

I identify as bisexual, but all of my "serious" relationships have been with men. I also have had more male sexual partners than female.

I think that it's the person who I become attracted to first...

HOWEVER...

If I had to pick sexual partners based on looks alone, when it comes to

MEN...I'd pick the cute geeky ones

Women...I tend to pick taller, busty women...and if they're wearing a corset, I'm slathering. HOWEVER I've also been known to follow more butch dykes around like a puppy


IN short...I'm a slut...

to quote Margaret Cho...I'm not gay, I'm not straight, I'm just slutty....Where's my parade???

 

[LustiRusti]

are you equally attracted to both sexes...or do you find that you lean towards one more than the other at times?

I've always been more attracted to women than men, but saddly I have been with more men than women. I'm a fairly shy person, especially when in a "new" situation, and have trouble being the one to make the first move. So, there may be women who are attracted to me that I don't know about? lol

Anyway, I feel I could have been a lesbian had I had an "open minded" upbringing growing up. But I didn't. Guilt got to me for doing what felt natural and right to me. Eventually I forced myself to sexually play with boys. (I never gave up the girls!) And now I do enjoy cock... And usually the mind who owns it as well.


~Kenzie

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: To those who are bisexual...

I've always been more attracted to women than men, but saddly I have been with more men than women. I'm a fairly shy person, especially when in a "new" situation, and have trouble being the one to make the first move. So, there may be women who are attracted to me that I don't know about? lol

Anyway, I feel I could have been a lesbian had I had an "open minded" upbringing growing up. But I didn't. Guilt got to me for doing what felt natural and right to me. Eventually I forced myself to sexually play with boys. (I never gave up the girls!) And now I do enjoy cock... And usually the mind who owns it as well.


~Kenzie

that describes me rather well too. More men than women...but more fantasies about women than men. And yes...the guilt... its amazing the effect that morals can have on a person lol

 

[AmatoriuS]

I sat here for a while trying to think which i prefer, and i really can't decide, i change from day to day, hour to hour i've certainly had more female partners though

 

[AmatoriuS]

Re: Re: Re: To those who are bisexual...

that describes me rather well too. More men than women...but more fantasies about women than men. And yes...the guilt... its amazing the effect that morals can have on a person lol

Oh i missed this, yes that's me also but flip it

 

[Pookie]

I "generally" lean towards men more. I also tend to be more attracted to "girly girls" when it comes to chicks. I've had more relationships with guys, but I've had a few very intense relationships with women.

Actually, overall my relationships with women have been more deeply involved than my relationships with guys. But I have a terrific man in my life now that beats every past relationship I've ever had.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

are you equally attracted to both sexes...or do you find that you lean towards one more than the other at times?

I would say that my attractions have NEVER been equal. I am always attracted to women..ultra fem, ultra butch and all the different categories in between. With guys well they are usually feminine in mannerisms and super intelligent.
Though i have been with more men sexually...it's basically becuase they are easier to fuck and run from...Women usually deserve my respect and trust therefore i don't play those sorts of games with them.
PET

 

[James G 5]

Corset over Ozzy shirt.

Guess I'd want to Top you. LOL.

Ozzy shirt over corset
so I can wear the smaller shirt & show off my waist

And I usually top, but it seems the only ones I ever bottom top are lesbians
Hmmmm

 

[buggawugga]

i've been with more men than women, but that may be due to an abundance in opportunity with men as compared to women... although the only love-at-first-sight experience I've ever had was with a woman... i still think about her every day even though we're both with someone else...

i daydream more about men than women although i think that cultural influence and again, opportunity, have something to do with this. anyone else agree? or disagree for that matter?

 

[celiaKitten]

I lean more towards men. Also, I'm pickier about women for some reason.

I'm more attracted to EXTREMELY girly girls than non-girly girls but there are a few exceptions.

This is my answer, too.

 

[James Blandings]

are you equally attracted to both sexes...or do you find that you lean towards one more than the other at times?

I have gone through phases when I was mostly attracted to men and when I was mostly attracted to women. Only during short periods have I been anything like 50/50.
That is partly in reaction to different people I was attracted to, but also based on who I had been attracted to before. So, if I was coming off a relationship with a woman, I would move in the direction of attraction to men and vice versa.

 

[BlueSugar]

I've only had the opportunity to date men. But I have experiences with women. I'm currently looking to have a healthy learning relationship with a women. I've been on/off flirting with a friend of mine on my floor, I just hope everything ends up ok if one of us breaks the ice.

 

[DarkLadyOfDeath]

Cowboys.. 'n blondes with big boobs... Yeep....
I prefer to be the dominent one in a relationship with Women.. and shall we say below a man.. Body types aren't a huge equation but I prefer lean muscle on men and women. 95% of my attraction to people is their intelligence... If someone can hold an intelligent conversation. And be able to follow my own train of thought. I'll fuck you... it's just about that simple. But then I'm young and foolish still... So I'm sure hings will change in teh future. At least a little.

 

[James G 5]

95% of my attraction to people is their intelligence... If someone can hold an intelligent conversation. And be able to follow my own train of thought. I'll fuck you... it's just about that simple. But then I'm young and foolish still... So I'm sure hings will change in teh future. At least a little.

Let's hope that bit never changes, us intelligent types never get enough sex due to all the ones who want pretty boys/girls regardless of their intelligence level

 

[Etoile]

to quote Margaret Cho...I'm not gay, I'm not straight, I'm just slutty....Where's my parade???

I never heard that before, that's great!

 

[CarolineOh]

I am happily married to a wonderful man, but I find women sexually attractive, and have had several very fulfilling experiences with women, both in threesome situations with him, and by myself.
(In fact, I have something very interesting planned for this coming weekend!)

While my orientation is primarily towards men, my experiences, none of which occurred until I was in my thirties, have made me appreciate women, not just sexually, but in all aspects, in a much more profound way. So the impact of my bisexuality extends beyond the sum of my experience.

 

[LustiRusti]

And yes...the guilt... its amazing the effect that morals can have on a person lol

Exactly! Of course, it doesn't help having a mother who says "homosexuality is: sick, a sin, disgusting, a crime against nature".


~Kenzie

 

[Guest]

Exactly! Of course, it doesn't help having a mother who says "homosexuality is: sick, a sin, disgusting, a crime against nature".


~Kenzie

yep. been there...done that. Or they throw God in there... *sigh*

 

[LustiRusti]

yep. been there...done that. Or they throw God in there... *sigh*

Psssst...

Posted by me...
...a sin...

lol

 

[Guest]

lol I get the extreme....not by my parents but other relatives... "God hates that." or "God made Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve."

"You do that...you're gonna burn in hell"

etc. lol

 

[LustiRusti]

Ah. Most of my family doesn't know I'm bi. I think. lol It depends on if my mom is a gossiper or not. lol But, I think she'd see it more as an "insult" to her so she wouldn't spread it.


~Kenzie