To those who are bisexual...

[Ayane]

Re: ?

My Two cents...
Since I'm a married Bi, a lot of people think I lean towards men...in actuality I think I lean towards women (at least lately). Problem is, I can't find one to suit me who isn't A)Turned off by the fact that I'm married, or B) One that wants me to please her sig other...

Wow. I could have written this part myself. Mirrors my situation exactly...except for the southern Bible Belt part.


BTW, MissIntrigue, nice t.A.T.u. avitar. I love them!

 

[madmanmike]

im not atracted to guys but want to have sex with them.......what i mean is that i dont look at a guy and say that i think he's hot i just like the idea.

 

[onlyme2c2000]

msg

i prefer femmes male & female

 

[la mariposita]

are you equally attracted to both sexes...or do you find that you lean towards one more than the other at times?

I can see myself with either a male or female. I have been with one man and one woman so far. I'm attracted to a person's soul more than gender, but settling down with a man and having a family appeals to me. So maybe I lean a little towards men.

As for types...I don't think I have a definite kind. I rely more to how a person can stimulate me on all levels so anyone who is just eye candy (regardless of how incredible they do look) doesn't interest me that much.

 

[ExistentialLuv]

Definatly attracted to woman more. Men are nice to look at but from a recent terrible mistake, my thoughts and feelings on men were reinforced, they still repulse me when they touch me. I do not even care for the real butch woman, to manly for me. Like them soft, loving,sensual and girlie just like PJ.

 

[darkmaxter]

ok

 

[sweetest_sin]

hmmm... hell, i'm no longer really sure which one i'm attracted to most...

even though all of my sexual experiences have been with men, i'm unbelievably attracted to women.*how many posts do you poor people see like this a day?*

i believe my tastes have changed. with me, it's almost always been something akin to the ying and the yang.

i love masculine, strong bodied men (the comfort and protection that i feel when i'm with them), but not the skinny lanky feminine male model types.

now, i also find myself drawn to women with that certain "it," and i like them curvy in all the right areas. butch, or overly masculine women appall me (i think it had to do with my distaste for one who stalked me in high school ::shivers:: ), but athletic girls i find irresistable, too.

did anyone else start out like this? curiosity, confusion, guilt, suppressed feelings, hope?



validate all of those you love today, so you won't have to worry about 'never having said enough' tomorrow.

 

[SassySuthrnBBW]

Well....

It really depends on where I am in my life. I've always been attracted to both but at diffrent points in my life I've had relationships with one or the other. Sad, I want a BBW girlfriend VERY badly right now but hubby isn't comfortable. So, I just lust from a distance I think it is personality that attracts me....there is just that something about a man or woman that captivates me.

How do others deal with their SO not being "ok" with having a third added to the relationship? Hubby is afraid I'll start to like her more than him. Can't seem to get across to him that totally different needs are being met with a woman.

 

[funlady]

I'm not sure I tend to have romantic relationships with men and sexual friendships with women. But I read the lesbian stories at lit way more than the hetro stories. I'm married to a very open minded guy who does not mind if I explore my sexuality . I'm just not sure how I feel about it right now. Heck I'm a scorpio I'm sexually attracted to everybody lol .

 

[MakeMePurr]

Re: ?

My Two cents...
Since I'm a married Bi, a lot of people think I lean towards men...in actuality I think I lean towards women (at least lately). Problem is, I can't find one to suit me who isn't A)Turned off by the fact that I'm married, or B) One that wants me to please her sig other, or C) Wants me to please MY sig other!!

Of course, with an open marriage, I get to pick and choose male or female, but since I've got the man, I need the woman! I just can't find one in the Southern Bible Belt I live in!!!!
Help...

Ditto- and I'm in the bible belt too.

I've had more experiences with men, yet almost all my fantasies are with women- but only because I'm new to the bi/lesbian lifestyle. I want to FEEL (I mean really feel) love and fulfillment in my relationship and I don't feel that with a man. With men, the hard cock is a turnon, with a women; it's the whole package...

(edited cuz i forgots to use spellcheck)

 

[sweetest_sin]

Heck I'm a scorpio I'm sexually attracted to everybody lol .

lol, me too... maybe we should just blame it on the sign...

 

[cuteffsb14]

I wouldn't give up because you are in a certain area, you never know when you are going to meet someone.

I met someone really great, in a sorta random place. Now we have a great relationship (best yet - if you ask me!)

FYI - used to date men ... now in love/dating a woman!

 

[sweetest_sin]

hellooooooooooo! anyone here?
::looks around::
seems kinda empty...
doesn't anyone want to play or chat?

::sigh::

 

[brinkeedinkee]

Hi...great thread.
I'd hafta say that I PREFER to look at women...they have such fine, curvy bodies...and such sweet attitudes....(MOST of them)...men...I don't tend to stare at, but tend to dream about more.

Brinky

 

[Dumpling]

Hi...great thread.
I'd hafta say that I PREFER to look at women...they have such fine, curvy bodies...and such sweet attitudes....(MOST of them)...men...I don't tend to stare at, but tend to dream about more.

Brinky

Anything exiting going o here

 

[brinkeedinkee]

mmmmmmmmmm ling ling!!!!!!

 

[sweetest_sin]

Anything exiting going o here

does anyone remember their first bi-crush? anyone want to elaborate?

 

[Dumpling]

mmmmmmmmmm ling ling!!!!!!

I cumm here and the friggin Board slows down,
I feel like s--------- oh well I go somewhere else

 

[darkmaxter]

ok

 

[SierraMoon]

As far as attraction, i'm more attracted to men. i also find it easier to make friends with men.

i don't look at women and think, "i'd love to sleep with her", or say "OMG, she's hot!" don't know why... am i strange?? i have no problem having sex with a woman, but it's not her looks that attract me, it's honestly her personality and humor.

 

[infinityoverzero]

As far as attraction, i'm more attracted to men. i also find it easier to make friends with men.

i don't look at women and think, "i'd love to sleep with her", or say "OMG, she's hot!" don't know why... am i strange?? i have no problem having sex with a woman, but it's not her looks that attract me, it's honestly her personality and humor.

Flip the genders around and you've got me ... i'm a bi-guy, but my SO is female and my life-style (at least in public) is definately "straight-acting". I don't really check out guys (mostly because I have a mental prohibition against checking out friends, and I'm conditioned to think of guys as friends at most). In general I see looks as secondary to personality, but I think this fact would be more important with a potential male lover.

 

[Master Nerd]

I am much more attracted to females than males, but I sometimes find myself thinking "He's pretty cute."

 

[brinkeedinkee]

Re: hello there brink ...

male here ... lol ... dream of me yet ?? lol

just wanted to say what a hot hot hot av you have there .... wooow ....

wish i was in the middle of that girl girl sandwhich ...

 

[Guest]

does anyone remember their first bi-crush? anyone want to elaborate?

first bi crush was my best friend in jr high. long brown hair... green eyes... killer body... oooo damn. Anyway she was hella straight and I never really said anything about it. But yeah...I still think about her and we still talk via letters and emails...

She'd probably die if she knew. LOL