Touching the balls

warmbread

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Anyone (guys) else aboslutely hate having their balls touched or licked? It has been known to not only ruin the moment for me, but has elicited a somewhat violent reaction from me when it happens, even by accident.

Probably cause for me:
I was repeatedly tortured with tickling by my brother and cousins when I was a kid. They would tickle me until I would pass out from not being able to breath. So, any type of tickling brings a violent reaction, since now the sensation brings pain, and no pleasure at all.

But, any other guys not like their balls touched in any way?
 
i've been with some guys who absolutely couldn't stand for me to touch their balls at all, and some people who couldn't get off without it. you're not alone.
 
In my experience a lot of females simply don't understand just how sensitive the balls are!:eek:

I'll put it like this...if she thinks having her nipples tweaked, thumped, sucked or smacked to hard is merely uncomfortable, wait until she has a run in with a chest electric fence while its raining!

No, I don't care about having my balls sucked or mouthed. I can force myself to hold still if I trust her not to be hurtful ...can't guarantee I'll enjoy it.

I'd much rather she find out how not to be that way on someone else!

I did meet a woman who probably could take the chrome off a trailer hitch ball one time. Her blow jobs were too painful. She wouldn't listen to reason so I stopped seeing her.

So ladies ...ASK questions!
 
I'm cool with very light fondling, but anything more is uncomfortable.
 
yes and no for him

He loves for me to include touching his scrotum as part of our foreplay, and I've learned just how to tease and squeeze to get maximum effect without hurting him. But after ejaculating, he cannot stand me touching him there at all!
 
fgarvb1 said:
In my experience a lot of females simply don't understand just how sensitive the balls are!:eek:

oh believe me I understand...

for instance i can't stand having my clit touched *at all*
 
Really

I'm going to have to call you out on that one...!
 
Had a bad expirence. Please don't touch the balls other then you tounge. If it is remember to be gential.
 
Yeah, if mine are going to be touched, it has to very very gently otherwise I get very tense. I've had occasional pain in one of the tubes down there (yes, it's been checked out, and yes it's fine) and I just get very worried that she's going to accidently touch something she shouldn't.
 
keep in mind there ARE men who enjoy rough play with their balls, though... ;) the key is just communicating with each partner what they like.
 
Nope, though I do need delicate handling in order for it to feel good.

Touching my nipples is more likely to be a turn off than a turn on for me. I'd like them to be an erogenous zone, but it rarely feels good.
 
Chicklet said:
keep in mind there ARE men who enjoy rough play with their balls, though... ;) the key is just communicating with each partner what they like.
The only right answer ;)

My M likes me to be a little rough with them sometimes... But after orgasm he will start to protest already if I even point at them :D

Everyone is different.
 
I am rough when playing with my own balls but prefer others to be gentle with them.
 
I used to be nervous about them being touched and get tense with accidental touching, but I had a long-term partner who was keen to play with them and I grew to trust her with them.
We discovered that I LOVE having them licked after I've orgasmed :D
 
I like licking and light caressing, but no squeezing or anything rough.
 
Nope.

I love having the boys touched, licked, etc.

I wouldn't want them tortured mind you, but anything gentle.

Even when she sucks on 'em and it hurts a bit I don't say a word.

Control me baby! Have at it, just don't use a vice and she and I are cool.
 
I should add that, nearing the point of orgasm and cumming I think most guys' balls can take quite a bit of abuse (slapping, banging, squeezing, grabing) - but the window for that might be open less than 20 seconds or so.

I know I'm this way. Try that outside that window and a girl might get the back of a hand ;)
 
Balls

Yeah I like to have them licked from behind, but girls just squeeze to hard! Ladys please error on the side of less is more than more is more! Do you shave your balls previous post?
 
jnubbs said:
Yeah I like to have them licked from behind, but girls just squeeze to hard! Ladys please error on the side of less is more than more is more!

This is not the case for every man. Like Chicklet said, some men enjoy rough genital play.
 
My husband likes for his balls to be treated pretty roughly. Makes me cringe sometimes, but it's what he wants.
 
Chicklet said:
oh believe me I understand...

for instance i can't stand having my clit touched *at all*
Seriously? I love it!! As long as they aren't too rough, I LOVE getting my clit rubbed and touched...
But different people like different things. :)
 
All honesty? Gettin touched there does nothin at all for me, pain or pleasure wise! I just dont seem to feel anythin at all! Maybe God got it the wrong way round with my nipples an nuts :p
 
I don't like having my balls touched at all. I've always told partners of mine this and they've returned confused looks and questioned me.

Obviously, women don't understand how sensitive they are. I get no pleasure from even the slightest touch there.
 
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