Trust married people?

[Xandra]

I was simply wondering what you thought about this situation.

You are married, and you enter a relationship with a married person. You are truthful to this person, and your SO knows about it. But the other person's SO does not know about it.

Would you be able to fully trust that other married person?

I have a friend who recently entenred such a relationship and she is wondering if she should pursue it. She asked me for help and advice, and I thought I'd ask what you guys think about it.

I say make him squirm then dump him, but that's just me

 

[Lady_Brazen]

I don't think it is a wise idea for someone to enter such a relationship without both partner's SO's knowing and accepting it. Though it depends on the people involved, affairs are not usually concealed for long and more often than not, they blow up into a very ugly escapade. I would not recomend that she continue until her partner tells his wife, and/or breaks it off with her. To many people, including those having the affair and any children they might have can be badly burned.

 

[SweetErika]

I don't know if it's a matter of trust (unless she's concerned he's seeing other women too), but I'd be really hesitant to get into that kind of relationship because I can imagine how much it would hurt to be cheated on, and I wouldn't want to have any part in the pain of someone else. Plus, there's just too much potential for drama...I wouldn't even get involved with another woman whose SO didn't know.

 

[Bystander]

why would you trust another person in a relationship, who is cheating on their spouse?

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[mac340]

sounds like nothing but trouble to me...

 

[Woodsycouple]

hhhmmmm, they're going to lie to their spouse and she thinks he won't lie to her??

 

[Bobmi357]

why would you trust another person in a relationship, who is cheating on their spouse?

Agreed. Either figure out whats missing in relationship and work to fix that, or end it. Frankly I wouldn't trust either of them.

 

[TempWife]

sounds like nothing but trouble to me...

what he said..

 

[Mary Hall]

Cheaters disgust me, i thank the fact my mother is dead and doesn`t have to deal with the bullshit