Turn off for guys

[tastygroove]

for me....

A sense of humor is first and formost.

2. Depth of character, intelligence.

3.Cleanliness is very important. This includes trimming or shaving in all the right places.

4. Big tits are a plus.

 

[sxychick21]

Re: for me....

A sense of humor is first and formost.

2. Depth of character, intelligence.

3.Cleanliness is very important. This includes trimming or shaving in all the right places.

4. Big tits are a plus.

Hi Tasty! Darlin, you're supposed to put what you DON'T want! giggling But hey if you DONT want big tits I guess I can go elsewhere

 

[MizTabby]

ons and offs

guess I'd better go elsewhere too sxychick LOL

but it's kinda nice to know what turns TG on, don't you think?

ok, let's hear the offs

 

[tastygroove]

no no no....

You ladies misunderstand me!

big tits goooood. Me like 'em big titties!



Please don't go!!!!!!!!!!

whew! That was a close call! lol

 

[sxychick21]

cracking up...

Look Miz Tabby now he changes his story...giggling! It is nice to know what men LIKE also but still we must stay on topic (This coming from the GIRL that daily hijacks the MENS thread...lol)

Just teasin you Tasty....I'll stay...tell me what you DONT like now...

 

[tastygroove]

What I Don't like....

well, let's see now....

I guess a big turn off for me, is a woman who talks at me instead of to me. I've always considered myself pretty perceptive in this area and I can tell immediately if a women is just talking to hear herself talk.

I like (here I go again with my likes, lol) it when two people make strong eye contact while talking. I'd go as far as to say that, that is (in my opinion) very sexy.

Is that better Sxy?

 

[sxychick21]

Re: What I Don't like....

Is that better Sxy?

thanks darlin' Hope I have been speaking to you not at you

 

[tastygroove]

Sxy...

you certainly have been speaking to me. On that note, feel free to do anything you want "to" me.

TG

 

[sxychick21]

Re: Sxy...

you certainly have been speaking to me. On that note, feel free to do anything you want "to" me.

TG

Do you still have the map to my bedroom?

 

[tastygroove]

Map....

I sure do! X marks the spot to your buried treasure.

TG <<<heads out the door...shovel in hand.

I dig you!

 

[armyjim_2000]

let me see....

Let me say that as an old married fart, there are few qualities I don't like, and my wife has very few of them (trying to keep my ass out of trouble in case she comes in here...LOL). Here are a few of the qualities that caused me to drop another woman I was dating to keep her:

1. Communication skills- The girl I dated was a complete maverick in bed, but talking to her was like an overview from her high school days...she had absolutely no interest in the world outside her little corner of it. Add insult to injury, she occasionally spoke to me as if I were an outsider (not a part of her circle).

2.Dress- If I am going out to party with a group of people and we are all friends, there's no need to get all crazy and blow $500 on a new wardrobe. Jeans and a T-shirt is fine. If the situation calls for a more formal dress, remember the old adage (or maybe it isn't) "elegance is dressing tastefully, not slutty."

3. Questions- If you don't want the answer , don't ask the question. Fishing is a sport done to catch fish, not compliments. Trust me, you get plenty of those anyway.

4.Sex- This woman LOVED sex....and that was good. But she made the cardinal sin of getting mad and trying to withhold it from me. She actually had the balls to TELL me she was going to cut me off if I didn't buy her something. I then told her,"You can't cut me off; you don't know where I'm getting it from." Needless to say, it didn't happen, and I didn't buy her what she wanted (due to the fact that I couldn't afford to.If she would have allowed me to save a little, she would have gotten it, but she wanted it right then!). Oh, and one other thing...don't promise something and then not deliver...

5.GOLD DIGGERS- "'Nuff said."

6.Phone Calls- I tried to call as often as possible, but (and again this was back when) sometimes during a busy day, I would forget. Getting the "spoiled lil' girl" routine over and over gets old. Things happen sometimes...

7.Life Changes- What you see is what you get. If I want to be "saved" from a fate worse than death, I'll do it. I don't need you to make me.

8.Keeping up with the Jones's I could care less what other people have...if they don't like it, they can piss off...


There's my list. It's mostly a rehash of what's out there, but with my own perspectives. There's a whole other set about things online, but they are pretty standard...

 

[sxychick21]

Re: let me see....

There's my list. It's mostly a rehash of what's out there, but with my own perspectives. There's a whole other set about things online, but they are pretty standard...

Good list darlin' Whats the online list? That would be more useful for me

 

[sxychick21]

Bump

Sxy bumping again...

 

[Tibxo]

My dislikes.

Let me see.

(1) Bad breath/Smoke breath. If I get into a sexy smooch with someone with bad breath, down goes my little friend.

(2) Disinterest. In sex, if a girl expects you to do all the work and thinks that all they have to do is show you the 'goods'. Someone who talks at you and only want conversations of their own choosing. Never show much interest in you.

(3) Freeloader. Someone who never offers to pay for anything. Now, I am not saying that I would accept that offer, but it is nice to think that the girl wants to go out with you to be with you, not just to have a free/cheap date.

(4) 'Taches. Don't like girls with moustaches. Okay with hair being anywhere else but not on the top lip.

(5) Slobbiness. I like a woman to be feminine. I am not necessary talking of the way she dresses more on how she comports herself. I always remember the blind date I had once and when I bought her an ice-cream, she got it all over her face. Yeuk.

Tib

I got to say that I think all the ladies here on Lit are dead sexy.

 

[pondman]

The "I" mentality, Compulsive liers.

 

[Buffman]

The following traits and/ or comments are a definite turnoff:
1) Self-absorbed. It's great to be attractive, quite another to be obsessed about it to the point of worrying about every little thing. My current wife and some former girlfriends jump to mind...
2) TIRED or "I'm tired." Is it me, or does it seem like so many women claim to be tired all the time (especially after they're in a cozy relationship)? I'm on marriage #2, and both wives seem to have the same mysterious ailment.
3) Boring/ lack of adventure-seeking. I have the rest of eternity to be dead. Let's have some fun while we're here. Not asking for anything dangerous or that makes her feel uncomfortable, just asking for an open mind or acceptance of my need to do dangerous things.
4) COLD. Just becasue you're together for years is no reason to begin to act as if it's not important to treat each other as cheerished people.

 

[sxychick21]

The following traits and/ or comments are a definite turnoff:
1) Self-absorbed. It's great to be attractive, quite another to be obsessed about it to the point of worrying about every little thing. My current wife and some former girlfriends jump to mind...
2) TIRED or "I'm tired." Is it me, or does it seem like so many women claim to be tired all the time (especially after they're in a cozy relationship)? I'm on marriage #2, and both wives seem to have the same mysterious ailment.
3) Boring/ lack of adventure-seeking. I have the rest of eternity to be dead. Let's have some fun while we're here. Not asking for anything dangerous or that makes her feel uncomfortable, just asking for an open mind or acceptance of my need to do dangerous things.
4) COLD. Just becasue you're together for years is no reason to begin to act as if it's not important to treat each other as cheerished people.

very nice list Buffman! Good explanations of your reasons... I always feel bad when i read about people that dont cherish what they have. I know its easy to slip into that!

 

[sxychick21]

SxyChick bumps her favorite thread

 

[Devil_d0ll]

SxyChick bumps her favorite thread

ur always bumping all over the place hun.. but no grinding lol u just tease the guys lol jk u knows i loves ya girly

 

[singletolong]

a few gripes as well

1. gold diggers ...and in this i mean , flirting to get those free drinks , a drive of that fast car etc' then getting it and moving on to the next lust struck sucker.

2. talking the talk .. then laying there like a dead fish when it comes to walk the walk .

3. hearing that a woman has discussed men's size in publc ( once they have that reputation , bye ladies )

4. a good looking snob

 

[DevilBoy79]

Bad Attitude

Stuck up

expects everything with little to nothing in return, its just not right, but then again if its the right woman, i dont expect nothing in return but her love, and would do my best to give her the world

smoking, dont care how good you look, its disgusting

 

[sxychick21]

This is a humorous piece but I thought it was very appropriate here! Hope ya'll enjoy...

Man's Response to Women:

If something we said can be interpreted two ways, and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.

Learn to work the toilet seat. If it's up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down.

If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us. We refuse to answer.

Birthdays, Valentines, and Anniversaries are not quests to see if we can find the perfect present yet again!

If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, expect an answer you don't want to hear.

Shopping is not a sport, and no, we're never going to think of it that way.

When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine. Really.

Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.

It is neither in your best interest nor ours to take a quiz together.
No, it doesn't matter which quiz.

You have enough clothes. You have too many shoes.

Ask for what you want. Let's be clear on this one: Subtle hints don't work. Strong hints don't work. Really obvious hints don't work. Just say it!

ALL men see in only 16 colors. Peach is a fruit, not a color.

We don't know what day it is. We never will. Mark anniversaries on the calendar.

Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do.

Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.

Crying is blackmail.

Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. All comments become null and void after 7 days.

Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials.

Beer is as exciting for us as handbags are for you.

If we ask what's wrong and you say "nothing," we will act like nothing's wrong. We know you're lying, but it's just not worth the hassle.

If it itches, it will be scratched.

What the heck is a doily?

 

[twodogs]

oh boy

Smoking would have to be out ,never did get off on kissing a ashtray.
Talking a lot but not realy saying anything .
Build you up how good they are in bed , then drink so much they pass out on you .
Talking about past lovers on how good or bad they were, i don't care to here that .
Always in a hurry when it comes to sex , no fun there like to spend time with that .
Always hanging on you , but to be in your face all the time get's a little much i know you are there .
Bottom line there is nothing that can't be worked out if you want that person, after all none of us are perfert .

 

[Kinky couple]

Dislikes

insecurity, jealous, self centered, selfish in bed, control freaks all these are bad also can not stand racist or over religious jugdemental

 

[FCGuy]

Ignorance and rudeness drive me nuts !