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cybergirly1989 said:
lol - all that pops into my head is 'The beautiful bitches' .. but I believe that's the image we're trying to discourage..
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lol - all that pops into my head is 'The beautiful bitches' .. but I believe that's the image we're trying to discourage..
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celiaKitten said:
lol - all that pops into my head is 'The beautiful bitches' .. but I believe that's the image we're trying to discourage..
he he... "Get the fuck away from me" came to mind...but that's not what I'm trying to project....
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QuickDuck said:/me runs up and gives cybergirly a hug
hmmm nope.. seems approachable to me
/wave
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Thanks QuickDuck 
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Rambrat said:
I won't tell
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celiaKitten said:
lol - all that pops into my head is 'The beautiful bitches' .. but I believe that's the image we're trying to discourage..
How about...The Cum Closer Chicks...or Beautifully Nice...or Just Try
celiaKitten...who's the actress in your AV?
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Raina said:I get that unapproachable stuff IRL too.
Someone once told my bf that she didn't like me because I am always "bitter and angry". I was like, HUH??
I think it was because of my sarcstic sense of humor. Some people take everything totally serious and don't hear the meaning behind the words. Ya know?
Most of my friends (unless they are just like me) say that they were intimidated by me at first, but now they know I'm just a big baby.
hmmm...maybe that's not really a compliment...
Raina, Love, I am the same way. If I had a nickel for every time one of my friends said that when they first met me, they thought I was mad at them for something, I'd be so rich.
Unless I am smiling constantly, I apparently have one of those "stern" faces, that makes me unapproachable. So I guess I try to smile a lot.
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pipercatt said:
As for the guys...it is assumed that pretty girls are already taken...and if not, they would not want anything to do with you unless you had great looks...great car...money...etc. They believe that you can easily attain these things so you are very selective...
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: unapproachable
Stranger things have happened. LOL. And no Raina, we can all do each other still.
Man, what a mental image that is..whew!
red_rose said:
That's why I'm giving you the evil eye.
Raina - I think you, Pi and I were all separated at birth.
Stranger things have happened. LOL. And no Raina, we can all do each other still.
Man, what a mental image that is..whew!
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Rambrat said:
*sigh* Such a vicious circle, the man assumes she's taken or not interested, the woman assumes shes not wanted or not good enough... Around and Around it goes.
pipercatt said:
Errrgghh...exactly! There is this guy at work who always tells me to "smile".
Irritates the fuck out of me. I'll smile if I feel like it dammit! I know he's just trying to be friendly, but it just pisses me off...makes me want to smile even less.
Usually I just give him a big phony grin, then he says, "That's more like it" and walks away happy. Maybe he just likes to make me look stupid with that big cheesy grin...who knows?
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Rambrat said:
Oh sheesh, Rambrat, do guys *really* think that? Not that consider myself pretty or anything, but if a guy thought I was unapproachable because he didn't have a nice car, or whatever...well, that just sucks ass.
What a freakin' waste.
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Rambrat said:
That's flirting?
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I don't know, my signals aren't always that silent. People never know how to get a good read on me, and I kind of like it that way. If I want to open up and talk about someting I will, other than that most people IRL know to pretty much leave me alone otherwise. The sarcasm has a way of reinforcing that.
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pipercatt said:
Oh hell yes...unless they think they look like Brad Pitt...they would be terrified to approach. In their eyes...a beautiful woman also wouldn't hesitate to make the look bad...laugh at them...or point out why they wouldn't have a chance...
basically you're fucked...
Now...to get around that, let's say you are attracted to a normal looking guy, smile alot...drop hints...they won't approach unless they are sure you won't reject them.
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Ice Cold said:
So do you want to be left alone? Is that the reason for the sarcasm? Is it a conscious effort or an unconscious one? I find I tend not to realize that I'm doing it.
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Rambrat said:
Exactley...that's something I would say to someone, just to get a rise out of them. How can you tell the difference?
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Rambrat said:
LMAO! I'm not sure being asked to leave by Mickey is such a bad thing...
