Unsatisfied wives..!!

[suckonsimon]

As many here know I have had the immense pleasure of a wife whose desire for sex and - within the commitment we have to monogamy - sexual adventure, was strong when we met and has matured into something so confident and 'driven' in these years of her maturity. Her craving for deep pleasure with me, for long-drawn-out sessions, for the kind of orgasms which make what we knew in our 20's seem so tame, her skill at seducing and pleasuring me and in taking awesome delight in my junk - yeah you got the picture, all totally fab for me ... BUT THAT MEANS:

From aged 45 onwards I, as a fit guy with good diet and exercise and all that, I needed to take action about the diminishing of my libido, the lengthening of my refraction time, and the lessening of the hardness of my erections. Fellas, IT HAPPENS! So many guys don't seem to begin to accept it, let alone do something about it!

I'm 61 now. Sometimes my wife is crawling all over me for a third time in a day; because I've fucked her she wants me to fuck her! If I hadn't explored what's good for me to keep up with her, Oh FOR SURE I would have left her as a candidate to post on this thread. ...

... enough of my blurt.

 

[tissue45]

Married for 23 years here and have never felt like my wife just HAD TO HAVE SEX...

I need a woman with that HUNGER...

Message me if you like...

As many here know I have had the immense pleasure of a wife whose desire for sex and - within the commitment we have to monogamy - sexual adventure, was strong when we met and has matured into something so confident and 'driven' in these years of her maturity. Her craving for deep pleasure with me, for long-drawn-out sessions, for the kind of orgasms which make what we knew in our 20's seem so tame, her skill at seducing and pleasuring me and in taking awesome delight in my junk - yeah you got the picture, all totally fab for me ... BUT THAT MEANS:

From aged 45 onwards I, as a fit guy with good diet and exercise and all that, I needed to take action about the diminishing of my libido, the lengthening of my refraction time, and the lessening of the hardness of my erections. Fellas, IT HAPPENS! So many guys don't seem to begin to accept it, let alone do something about it!

I'm 61 now. Sometimes my wife is crawling all over me for a third time in a day; because I've fucked her she wants me to fuck her! If I hadn't explored what's good for me to keep up with her, Oh FOR SURE I would have left her as a candidate to post on this thread. ...

... enough of my blurt.

Respect..true legend..!!

 

[FlamingoB]

As many here know I have had the immense pleasure of a wife whose desire for sex and - within the commitment we have to monogamy - sexual adventure, was strong when we met and has matured into something so confident and 'driven' in these years of her maturity. Her craving for deep pleasure with me, for long-drawn-out sessions, for the kind of orgasms which make what we knew in our 20's seem so tame, her skill at seducing and pleasuring me and in taking awesome delight in my junk - yeah you got the picture, all totally fab for me ... BUT THAT MEANS:

From aged 45 onwards I, as a fit guy with good diet and exercise and all that, I needed to take action about the diminishing of my libido, the lengthening of my refraction time, and the lessening of the hardness of my erections. Fellas, IT HAPPENS! So many guys don't seem to begin to accept it, let alone do something about it!

I'm 61 now. Sometimes my wife is crawling all over me for a third time in a day; because I've fucked her she wants me to fuck her! If I hadn't explored what's good for me to keep up with her, Oh FOR SURE I would have left her as a candidate to post on this thread. ...

... enough of my blurt.

Oh you're not just blurting - it's so true. As a women, I can only speak for myself but I'm just like your wife and I'm soooooooooooooo frustrated. A few months ago something in me changed physically, like a switch was flipped and I literally can't get enough - the urges and thoughts don't go away no matter what I do to satisfy them. I swear I'm as horny as a teenage boy. While our past sex life was fine, this was NOT my normal behavior so my husband has no idea what to do with me or how to keep up with me. Sometimes I feel nature plays cruel jokes. With that said, here I am.

 

[tedsbeds]

On Switch/

Oh you're not just blurting - it's so true. As a women, I can only speak for myself but I'm just like your wife and I'm soooooooooooooo frustrated. A few months ago something in me changed physically, like a switch was flipped and I literally can't get enough - the urges and thoughts don't go away no matter what I do to satisfy them. I swear I'm as horny as a teenage boy. While our past sex life was fine, this was NOT my normal behavior so my husband has no idea what to do with me or how to keep up with me. Sometimes I feel nature plays cruel jokes. With that said, here I am.

So Falmingo, where do I find that switch on my wife? Long time married it seems she just dialed down while I dialed up. Too bad you are in the midwest. We could compare notes over coffee! To start!

 

[bleublood]

Vanilla! I want more than 15 minutes a month.

You get fifteen minutes a month?
You are lucky!

My wife of 25 years hardly even talks to me that much. LOL

I am always looking for online fun, preferably long term with friendship.
Ladies feel free to drop me a line.

 

[panasix]

I wouldn't exactly say I'm unsatisfied. My husband is a pretty hunky guy with a really beautiful penis. But, I think we're sort of moving in opposite directions.

As we get older (we're both in our mid to late 30's) my sex drive seems to be increasing and his seems to be diminishing. Plus, I was really wild when I was younger. Really wild! And he was not. He's had like three significant relationships in his life counting me. He's not a total prude, but unless he's not telling me something I don't think he's had more than 10-15 partners his whole life. There was a period in my life when I was breaking up with a guy every three weeks - and cheating on each one! So, I wouldn't say I'm unsatisfied. I've certainly had my fun.

But ... I'm not too old yet to have a little more .... I kind of really want to have more fun ....

why did I think my pm would get through to you? Mailbox is over capacity and is malfunctioning. Please advise.

 

[FlamingoB]

So Falmingo, where do I find that switch on my wife? Long time married it seems she just dialed down while I dialed up. Too bad you are in the midwest. We could compare notes over coffee! To start!

Wish I could tell you - I'd be a very rich lady selling the directions to that "ON" switch. For the first few weeks I seriously thought I had lost my mind. I've always been under the impression that as a women matured as you put it - it would dial down. Not do a 360 and I would have thoughts, feelings, and urges that I've never ever had before ever . . . every minute of every hour of every fricken day. No lie!! I actually thought about going to see someone professionally so they could "fix" me. LOL! Then I decided maybe I wasn't really broken!!!!

 

[liz33nd]

sometimes guys are like this also..

First guys cant get enough.. then a huge lull in the action for a few weeks. and the switch flips on.. and look out.. every day for a month. hmmmm.. almost like a Deer in Rut.
as for me.. it has been a long time, and the search has turned up nothing.

 

[sidneyc]

Damn shame...

Never good hearing that so many are not getting what they need.
I can totally empathize. Unfortunately, it seems to be familiar ground for so many good people...

 

[fatlab]

I'm no doctor but I do read and pay attention

As for men losing the desire I have to believe for many the problem is diet and health issues.
The last thing a man wants to admit us he doesn't have the desire in him
That his junk is well.... Junk
Plus add the sisification of this country and the correct behavior
Expected by society. Damn they want us to be ladies
Men be men. Do shit wrong. Man up and be what ladies want
A fucking guy. I'm not good at explaining maybe but c'mon
Where's your balls
As for women I can understand they physical changes you go through can
Effect each differently. My girl may be at the beginning of it early in life
God bless her but she goes frigid she knows I'll look elsewhere and I think she's cool with it. Hopefully cause I do love her but I'm gonna be fifty this next year and I fuck like I'm still in my twenties. I cant get enough
I have a great friend whose wife had given up sex
Given up living really. He fooled around
Long story short she woke up one day a horny bi slut
Now their swingers and he's having the time of his life
We can only hope. Lol

 

[8PointSika]

I wouldn't exactly say I'm unsatisfied. My husband is a pretty hunky guy with a really beautiful penis. But, I think we're sort of moving in opposite directions.

As we get older (we're both in our mid to late 30's) my sex drive seems to be increasing and his seems to be diminishing. Plus, I was really wild when I was younger. Really wild! And he was not. He's had like three significant relationships in his life counting me. He's not a total prude, but unless he's not telling me something I don't think he's had more than 10-15 partners his whole life. There was a period in my life when I was breaking up with a guy every three weeks - and cheating on each one! So, I wouldn't say I'm unsatisfied. I've certainly had my fun.

But ... I'm not too old yet to have a little more .... I kind of really want to have more fun ....

I'm into more fun - been married 21 years which has seen its ups and downs, and it has taken until the last 2 years for my wife to extend her bedroom boundaries to now include arse play..... let the excitement continue. More than happy to provide excitement to others who don't have as much in their lives as well.... PMs welcomed

 

[ks_sculptor]

This is an excellent thread. Ladies, I'm sure that you like we men find periods when nothing will scratch that itch, and other times where scratching the itch is incredibly pleasurable.

 

[dreamykitten2]

This happened to me too!!!

Wish I could tell you - I'd be a very rich lady selling the directions to that "ON" switch. For the first few weeks I seriously thought I had lost my mind. I've always been under the impression that as a women matured as you put it - it would dial down. Not do a 360 and I would have thoughts, feelings, and urges that I've never ever had before ever . . . every minute of every hour of every fricken day. No lie!! I actually thought about going to see someone professionally so they could "fix" me. LOL! Then I decided maybe I wasn't really broken!!!!

I fell down the stairs it will be 4 years in march. A couple days went by and the switch was turned on and I have even gotten more horny if that's even possible! I finally sought out a playmate and now I'm satisfied most of the time!

 

[hcal]

aint it hot....wicked

http://www.xvideos.com/video7513856/mom_fucked_her_ill_son

 

[DenverFunguy]

Oh you're not just blurting - it's so true. As a women, I can only speak for myself but I'm just like your wife and I'm soooooooooooooo frustrated. A few months ago something in me changed physically, like a switch was flipped and I literally can't get enough - the urges and thoughts don't go away no matter what I do to satisfy them. I swear I'm as horny as a teenage boy. While our past sex life was fine, this was NOT my normal behavior so my husband has no idea what to do with me or how to keep up with me. Sometimes I feel nature plays cruel jokes. With that said, here I am.

If you turn on your private msgs I along with many others would send you msgs that may help you be able to satisfy some of those incredible feelings. Then again maybe that is why you have them turned off. Smiles. Ether way best wishes always.

 

[blksoldier]

wow

21 years married to the same man and tired of the vanilla. Who couldn't use extra spice in their life?

your posting are cracking me up.... I know that youre looking for responses from women but I couldn't help but to chime in. Some of us men suck. and don't even know it.

 

[tonyp]

hi

I am an older guy post 40 and still have a very strong sex drive

love to chat to any women that want to chat about all things sexual

 

[MrGoatee]

Unsatisfied husband here, up for mental stimulation

 

[DenverFunguy]

good for both of you!

My sex life was always busy and active, but lacking for me in satisfaction. The last 6 months have seen that change, and my sex life has been pretty amazing. I'm completely satisfied in it, and so is he. Took lots of time, communication, risk taking, engaging others, and exploration of our individual boundaries but it was worth it.

 

[thefishfryer]

I wonder how many unsatisfied wives have equally unsatisfied husbands.

 

[SweetSam42]

http://www.ronalfy.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/3/files/2007/06/hand_raising.jpg

I wonder how many unsatisfied wives have equally unsatisfied husbands.

Good point.

 

[suckonsimon]

I wonder how many unsatisfied wives have equally unsatisfied husbands.

Further: I wonder if there are litsters who have been there, and managed to find a way out of that dry time into a whole new chapter of pleasure with their spouse / partner? And if so, What was it that turned things around for them. Those stories we need to hear.

 

[lilydance]

I know it's not his fault. When we do have sex it's still amazing. He just can go for months without it. It's almost like a camel storing water.
We have been round and round and round the same cycle, over and over and over and over and nothing ever changes. No sex for 3,4 sometimes 5 months. He shows me lots of affection. Lots of hugs and kisses. We talk about it. I get upset, he promise to change. Maybe have sex once, then straight back to no sex.
I thought I was the only one with this problem until I found Lit. I'm glad I'm not the old one.

 

[suckonsimon]

I know it's not his fault. When we do have sex it's still amazing. He just can go for months without it. It's almost like a camel storing water.
We have been round and round and round the same cycle, over and over and over and over and nothing ever changes. No sex for 3,4 sometimes 5 months. He shows me lots of affection. Lots of hugs and kisses. We talk about it. I get upset, he promise to change. Maybe have sex once, then straight back to no sex.
I thought I was the only one with this problem until I found Lit. I'm glad I'm not the old one.

Lilydance - beautiful av! - seems to me this could be about a dive down of his libido while all else is good with you both and between you both. Would he consider taking something by way of supplement and see if it re-lights some sparks for him? If you wish to consider that please browse the thread about that you see in my sig. Best wishes!

 

[Devonwilde]

what is ironic is that as a male I am finding myself relating more to the female situation. I am in the same situation with many of you ladies. I have a great wife, married 35 years. If I could pick 50 things I would want in a relationship she would have 48. But after menopause and a couple of minor health issues, she has zero sex drive. And mine is still like it was 25 years ago. We used to talk about sex openly, but now she is just uninterested. I even wrote a LIT story for her and her response was "very nice, you were always good with words". Not exactly the response I was hoping for. We have gone to therapy with no positive results. I would love to hear a ladies perspective on my situation.