I easily get aroused by a couple girls I work with and have erections around them constantly. I'm sure they've noticed, but don't seem to mind. Do you ladies consider giving someone who is not your lover/husband an erection a compliment or does it bother you? I would think if a man was aroused by you it would be a compliment, but then again some girls may not like guys having a sexual reaction to them.
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Eilan
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Back in my working days, I never paid enough attention to my male co-workers' crotches to notice whether or not they got erections around me. Unless you're a lifeguard or otherwise scantily clad during work, they probably haven't even noticed.
Sorry to burst your bubble.
Sorry to burst your bubble.
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PuuF
Most girls clue in early and, like us, realize that a light breeze can cause a woody when we're young. Enjoy it while you can.
DON'T assume women will find this complimentary. Businesses and schools have all been hijacked by feminazi men haters and they spend hours and hours laying out all kinds of rules of appropriateness. If you cross any one of those lines you're liable to be charged not just fired or expelled. Some women with a lot of common sense and if you are not doing dorky stuff like "accidentally" bumping up against them at the water bottle will tolerate a visual but don't bet on it. If you show it off even a little bit you could be in for some huge trouble and it could screw up your ability to get a good job.
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Most girls clue in early and, like us, realize that a light breeze can cause a woody when we're young. Enjoy it while you can.
DON'T assume women will find this complimentary. Businesses and schools have all been hijacked by feminazi men haters and they spend hours and hours laying out all kinds of rules of appropriateness. If you cross any one of those lines you're liable to be charged not just fired or expelled. Some women with a lot of common sense and if you are not doing dorky stuff like "accidentally" bumping up against them at the water bottle will tolerate a visual but don't bet on it. If you show it off even a little bit you could be in for some huge trouble and it could screw up your ability to get a good job.
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Hmmm, to tell you the truth, I really don't notice it. I mean, that's not the first thing I look at. I really don't know how I'd react if I was shopping or something and I see this guy talking to me with an erection. Now if I'm dancing and this guy starts to bump and grind with me with an erection, I would mind. I mean, if I don't know you and you don't even ask me or introduce yourself to me and just start bumping and grinding with me, then you'll see my bitchy side, heheheh. Sorry but that's the way it goes.
I don't see how just getting an erection could possible be grounds for sexual harrassment as long as you weren't flaunting it or doing something inappropriate. It is a completely involuntary reaction. Like blinking. If I'm forced to be near these girls during work, my dick is hard...I can't help it. I'm not doing anything vaguely sexual....my dick is just hard. I will admit it makes it hard to concentrate on the job, but that's all I'm doing. How could a judge ever adjudicate against a man who gets a stiffy when he sees a pretty girl....we'd all be in jail. I always get a hard on when I see a nice ass or big tits or just a pretty face, be it in the grocery store, workplace, church, anywhere....I guess I just love women.
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You have asked a similar question before, some time ago. I would have to do a search, but you were hinting at this and asked what women thought.
It's like Mr G says:
Besides, most women only care to see erections from the men they are interested in. And women do look sometimes, so have I and I have never noticed an erection on any man because most of the time it does not even show that obvious. I think that was my answer too when you asked the question before.
It's nice to know, though, that you seem to have such a huge member that it simply cannot be ignored by anyone
Keep in mind that most women will probably only laugh at you behind your back as in "poor bastard"...
I'm with Eilan here..... sorry to burst your bubble (again)
It's like Mr G says:
If you take that into consideration, it's not all that special too. I mean, if you have erections all day long it's not because of "me", hence I would not consider it a compliment if I would in the first place.
Besides, most women only care to see erections from the men they are interested in. And women do look sometimes, so have I and I have never noticed an erection on any man because most of the time it does not even show that obvious. I think that was my answer too when you asked the question before.
It's nice to know, though, that you seem to have such a huge member that it simply cannot be ignored by anyone
Keep in mind that most women will probably only laugh at you behind your back as in "poor bastard"...I'm with Eilan here..... sorry to burst your bubble (again)
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It doesn't have to be harassment to make someone uncomfortable. If women at work are creeped out about any aspect of you (body odor, staring, language, noticeable erections, etc...) then this could have career consequences in a variety of ways depending on your life of work. Women (or men) could avoid working with you, or clients may not return.alain88 said:
I agree with some of the previous posters in that most women probably don't notice unless you are wearing boxers with baggy pants. If a guy is aroused a lot when he's near women at work, then it might be wise to wear tighter underwear when wearing baggy pants. If you clean out sewers at work, then maybe no one will care.
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The only time I've ever noticed a guy's erection in public was when we were in a group of "relatively close" friends and his girlfriend mentioned it, which caused me to look.
Most girls aren't looking at your crotch. And erection or not, I don't appreciate most guys accidentally bumping into me regularily at the office.
Most girls aren't looking at your crotch. And erection or not, I don't appreciate most guys accidentally bumping into me regularily at the office.
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It's just a biological function. Could happen for any number of reasons other than arousal, the only ones I notice are guys I'm really interested in... but if it embarrasses you, wear really lose jeans,or baggy pants gad (I think that's probably what they were made for they just don't look like they'd draw anyones attention) but that's IMO.
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Waaaaiiiiittttt a minute. I'm not past the "unwanted" erections part.
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According to his previous posts, the thread starter's either 50 or 55. Not that there's anything wrong with that.Mr.G said:
So maybe you can't control when you get an erection, but you can control who sees it, touches it, etc, etc.Alain88 said:
I'm not insulted by a man who's not, nor likely ever will be, my sexual partner being attracted to or aroused by me. After having four babies in 5 1/2 years and working my ass off to get into better shape than I was before I became a mom, it's reassuring to know that my efforts haven't gone unnoticed. However, I might be insulted if I were constantly confronted with the "evidence" of attraction/arousal, depending on the situation.
I think there is some misunderstanding. I never touch these ladies or do anything vaguely sexual...we've been good friends for years. The fact is they have really hot bodies and my body reacts to their beauty. I just wondered if as long as the guy didn't make any unwanted advances if you would be flattered by giving a guy an erection or not. I would thing it would be flattering. I know if a girl was obviously turned on by me I would think it nice.
