You can either add it to your profile, or you need 99 more posts to get an avatar (the pic under peoples' names).EbombOrgasm said:
lol, washington women... I think that statement has more to do with women in general than just the ones who live here in WA.metaltwister said:Washington women seem to be a bit busy with other things in their lives...and are looking for something other than what could be presented here on this thread....oh well...onward
thiscouldbtricky said:lol, washington women... I think that statement has more to do with women in general than just the ones who live here in WA.
Sure, I'm busy a lot, but if I like you enough, I can definitely make time for you.
I find that a lot of the men on Lit seem to think it's the womens fault that THEY can't get any.
Rethink that.
I think you nailed a couple of big reasons right here. When I started posting on a couple of threads like this, even though my intentions to get to know and talk to others platonically were clear, I received a glut of responses requesting pics, cybersex, phone sex, meeting, etc. Most of them were pretty standard, though several gentlemen got creative, detailing what they planned on doing to me, asking tons of personal questions, how much they'd love to feel my tits surrounding their "monster, rock-hard cock," and not taking, 'No, thank you.' for an answer. Yes, I realize this is Personals, but I don't take that to mean everyone's looking for something sexual, and didn't appreciate the assumptions others made.metaltwister said:
SweetErika said:I think you nailed a couple of big reasons right here. When I started posting on a couple of threads like this, even though my intentions to get to know and talk to others platonically were clear, I received a glut of responses requesting pics, cybersex, phone sex, meeting, etc. Most of them were pretty standard, though several gentlemen got creative, detailing what they planned on doing to me, asking tons of personal questions, how much they'd love to feel my tits surrounding their "monster, rock-hard cock," and not taking, 'No, thank you.' for an answer. Yes, I realize this is Personals, but I don't take that to mean everyone's looking for something sexual, and didn't appreciate the assumptions others made.
Please don't get me wrong...I've met many incredibly nice, respectful, fascinating men at Lit and in the WA/PNW threads. I'm not saying everyone's sex-focused; maybe the ones who aren't are just a little less vocal or don't post here.
So, I lurk, but haven't been excited about posting in these threads, especially when most of the messages are of the "looking for fun in ____" variety because I don't really want to deal with another experience like I had before.. The only kind of fun I'm looking for is meeting new people and good, mostly non-sexual (unless it's informative and part of a normal conversation) conversation. I'm guessing some other women are thinking (and perhaps fearing) along the same lines.
I think you make a really point about extending invitations to get to know someone, Metal. If most of the posts conveyed a genuine desire and intent to learn about others, have great conversation, and make platonic friends first, I bet participation, especially by women, would increase. I'm not sure about others, but the majority of my relationships (including sexual) have started with friendship.
At any rate, it's something to consider and might be worth a try.
Calvin said:Very well said sweet lady.... I, for one, have always enjoyed your contributions to whatever thread you have posted in.[/qupte]
Awww...thanks!
Yep, women no doubt have an easier time of it. In a year and a half, I've met countless interesting people, some wonderful friends, and a couple of those friends have turned into more, but I think that really was just dumb luck. I'm not sure if I'd actively look for a LTR here though...seems like other sites might be better suited for meeting a match.
I noticed that, and have often wondered why the PNW crowd doesn't seem as excited about coming together and meeting as others, like Litsters from Texas, the Carolinas, Austrailia, and the Midwest. There are several Washingtonians I'd love to meet, but it's hard to organize when we're so fragmented.
Very true. I think a lot of people feel the Internet doesn't require the same social gestures or courtesy, which saddens me. I've been flighty lately, but I always try to respond, even if I couldn't be less interested, and tend to expect the same from others. I hope you have the best of luck with that, and finding friendship and love, Calvin!
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lol, you don't need permission sweetheart. And even if you did, I dunno who you'd get it from.EroticRomanticMan said:
Of course I do!EroticRomanticMan said:
Just think of what I could do with no words at all.EroticRomanticMan said:Oh my that sounds lovely. You say so much with so few words tricky one.
