Watching Men Masturbate
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KillerMuffin
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Oh good gravy, I LOVE absolutely adore, start dripping and squirming and howling when I watch a man masturbate. That seems to be the single most erotic thing a man could do for me. Once the StudMuffin clued in on this, took his sexy ass long enough grrr, its something we do with some regularity. Yes, we love the "real thing" as well, but I'm lucky, I spose, the StudMuffin is usually up for at least two shots.
OK. I confess, I'm only stopping using my hands for direct stimulation to type this message. Hey, right now I could demonstrate techniques for all of you at once! It's early Monday morning here in my hotel in Hong Kong and I don't need to be getting this worked up before going to a business meeting!
Anyway...I never yet met a women who asked me to masturbate for her before I asked her to masturbate for me. How do you girls pop the question? Give me examples of how you ask the guy to show you what turns you on.
Anyway...I never yet met a women who asked me to masturbate for her before I asked her to masturbate for me. How do you girls pop the question? Give me examples of how you ask the guy to show you what turns you on.
Alan said:
Yes Ms. Vixen I do love to watch a man touch himself. Nothing like being educated about what he likes and turned on all at once. I usually ask during foreplay. I'll start rubbing it and tell him I want to watch him do it. In some ways it's titillation to be able to lay there and watch all of the wonderful things guys do as they masturbate. But on the other hand it is somewhat selfish cause usually sex lasts so much longer after he's already cum and long sex=mucho orgasms.
This morning, I was so sore I thought I couldn't take a second longer....until he was masturbating and said he was going to come. OH MY GOD, do my head in. As I said to him, you have only 2 choices, in my mouth or fuck me. The biggest turn on!!!!
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Shelby said:
Now, that is the biggest turn on.
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Cheri said:
Hey, we have quite a dialog going here. Girls, what turns you on most - watching us guys finish ourselves, or "helping?" I know I personally like to show a girl what really gets me going and then tell her how to finish. Isn't that what many girls like also?
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Hey Vix - check this out....
I have - put on music, stripped but in a manly way and whipped it out and shown various ladies the hidden secrets of male masturbation for years. And yes - it works every time.
I've had women "on the verge" but "not wanting to go there" for whatever reason and I have turned down the lights and performed the above and sometimes I explain - "this is safe, you just stay over there (on the couch or something) and I'll stay over here, and you just watch," and they get so hot that they have to come over and "help" - every time. I even did this is a stairwell of an office building one time - man!!!
I would encourage all males to try this - if they can't perform they are hung up a bit. I do this for my wife all the time - she loves it.
I have - put on music, stripped but in a manly way and whipped it out and shown various ladies the hidden secrets of male masturbation for years. And yes - it works every time.
I've had women "on the verge" but "not wanting to go there" for whatever reason and I have turned down the lights and performed the above and sometimes I explain - "this is safe, you just stay over there (on the couch or something) and I'll stay over here, and you just watch," and they get so hot that they have to come over and "help" - every time. I even did this is a stairwell of an office building one time - man!!!
I would encourage all males to try this - if they can't perform they are hung up a bit. I do this for my wife all the time - she loves it.
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MMmmmmmmmm Sparky. (visualizing this) I have a question... (grin)
Alan, to answer your question about how we bring it up, I just ask. Usually I'll help unzip the pants and when it is in my hand, I'll lift his hand up and tell him to stroke it while I lick his balls... then I'll end up backing off and just watch him get into it..
and the sounds....MMMMmmm yeah! Absolutely part of the whole attraction. Hearing his hand slick up and down, his breathing quicken.. watching the muscles in his stomach jerk, his thighs tighten... everything.
Damn, now I can't work.
Alan, to answer your question about how we bring it up, I just ask. Usually I'll help unzip the pants and when it is in my hand, I'll lift his hand up and tell him to stroke it while I lick his balls... then I'll end up backing off and just watch him get into it..
and the sounds....MMMMmmm yeah! Absolutely part of the whole attraction. Hearing his hand slick up and down, his breathing quicken.. watching the muscles in his stomach jerk, his thighs tighten... everything.
Damn, now I can't work.
Hey Vixen,
The direct approach works with me alright. I love to show a girl how to make me really turned on, then I ask her to study closely, absorb the technique, and then try to duplicate it. I also love it when the girl reciprocates.
So, we know that you like being the audience, but do you like having an audience???
The direct approach works with me alright. I love to show a girl how to make me really turned on, then I ask her to study closely, absorb the technique, and then try to duplicate it. I also love it when the girl reciprocates.
So, we know that you like being the audience, but do you like having an audience???
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Hey Vix........
Vix - picture this………..
On my back, completely disrobed, hard and lubed up with lots of clear lubrication, legs bent and back - I instruct my partner to "get creative down there," anything she wants. I hint for her to probe - down there. The lube really helps out. She is even encouraged to use toys - smaller ones of course. And when she hits that little bugger of my prostrate - KA FUCKIN' BOOM!!! God what a mess - but a good one!!!! I usually hit headboard above my head when this goes down!!!
Try it out on your guy. He'll love it.
Guys? On this you must be brave - but it's worth it.
What question would that be Vix?
Vix - picture this………..
On my back, completely disrobed, hard and lubed up with lots of clear lubrication, legs bent and back - I instruct my partner to "get creative down there," anything she wants. I hint for her to probe - down there. The lube really helps out. She is even encouraged to use toys - smaller ones of course. And when she hits that little bugger of my prostrate - KA FUCKIN' BOOM!!! God what a mess - but a good one!!!! I usually hit headboard above my head when this goes down!!!
Try it out on your guy. He'll love it.
Guys? On this you must be brave - but it's worth it.
What question would that be Vix?
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Yeah.... fanning myself too....
At you being a chicken. How'd you know I was into foul fowl?
At you being a chicken. How'd you know I was into foul fowl?
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Better late than never
I never ever knew how much fun watching a guy jerk off was until I was on netmeeting one night and this guy with a vid cam rang through. Call me naive but, I had never done anything but chat about regular stuff so I was damned shocked when the vid came on and it was positioned directly on his hard cock and hand.
At first all I could think was OMG OMG OMG!!!!! i know i was blushing. The guy asked me if I liked to watch.. I said errr sure.. and then he put on one hell of a show for me.
Watching him stroke himself was awesome but the best part was watching him shoot off, and seeing his cum dribble down his hand. talk about wanting to lick your comp screen!!! hahaha
so to answer your question: Yes I have. But, not in person YET.... Any volunteers??
I never ever knew how much fun watching a guy jerk off was until I was on netmeeting one night and this guy with a vid cam rang through. Call me naive but, I had never done anything but chat about regular stuff so I was damned shocked when the vid came on and it was positioned directly on his hard cock and hand.
At first all I could think was OMG OMG OMG!!!!! i know i was blushing. The guy asked me if I liked to watch.. I said errr sure.. and then he put on one hell of a show for me.
Watching him stroke himself was awesome but the best part was watching him shoot off, and seeing his cum dribble down his hand. talk about wanting to lick your comp screen!!! hahaha
so to answer your question: Yes I have. But, not in person YET.... Any volunteers??
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No, and I wouldn't want to. It would be too weird, like I wasn't important enough to him to be PART of it. He had 40 years before he met me to do that, now when he gets excited damn it I want it be a sharing thing with ME!
I would much rather it was MY fist jacking him off (which I've done occasionally), or us masturbating each other (also do fairly often). Or go down on him--I've written about this before, but there is just something magical about feeling him spring to life IN my mouth (ESPECIALLY if he is reciprocating--69! Yes!)! Feel him start to harden against my tongue, teeth, and roof of my mouth. It is the feeling that he loves me so much that my attentions get him hard. It is the power that my mouth can get him started. It is that I love him enough to do this kindness for him, which is also a kindness for me because I love the feel and the taste and the motion of him in my mouth. All of which is MUCH better than passively watching him get himself off.
We have an X tape called Kama Sutra, amateur couples enacting passages from the ancient Indian book, that includes a scene where a blonde woman on her knees is slowly sucking her hunky man, we like to freeze-frame it and SEE the very moment where he stiffens as her mouth moves forward and back over him. Again, that sharing is so much better than watching a guy pleasuring himself.
Just my opinion.
-- Latina
I would much rather it was MY fist jacking him off (which I've done occasionally), or us masturbating each other (also do fairly often). Or go down on him--I've written about this before, but there is just something magical about feeling him spring to life IN my mouth (ESPECIALLY if he is reciprocating--69! Yes!)! Feel him start to harden against my tongue, teeth, and roof of my mouth. It is the feeling that he loves me so much that my attentions get him hard. It is the power that my mouth can get him started. It is that I love him enough to do this kindness for him, which is also a kindness for me because I love the feel and the taste and the motion of him in my mouth. All of which is MUCH better than passively watching him get himself off.
We have an X tape called Kama Sutra, amateur couples enacting passages from the ancient Indian book, that includes a scene where a blonde woman on her knees is slowly sucking her hunky man, we like to freeze-frame it and SEE the very moment where he stiffens as her mouth moves forward and back over him. Again, that sharing is so much better than watching a guy pleasuring himself.
Just my opinion.
-- Latina
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Hey Sparky, I'm totally with you!
Sparky, I have recently been introduced to the "down there" excitement you refer to, and WOW, I couldn't agree more.
It started with my girlfriend giving me a hand job, with her panties, and lightly pressing on my taint (taint my balls, taint my asshole), and god, I came like a fountain!!! Then she was sucking me, and pressing on my taint.... same HUGE result. We couldn't get over how hard my cock got... and the orgasms... so powerful! Wow.
So then one time, she takes out her vibrator... and starts jacking me with a pair of her panties, while holding the vibrator on my taint. HOLY SHIT!!! I nearly passed out.
Then recently, we had been drinking, and I encouraged her to explore further... so she used a ton of lube, and began gently fucking my ass with her vibe... my knees in the air, slightly back.. giving her full access. It was AWESOME!!!
Now, a couple of times, I've laid face down, legs spread. She inserts the vibrator and simulates fucking me with it while she lays on top of me. God, the feeling of her nipples on my back, and her mound on my ass as she pumps me... I love it.
I don't feel this makes me gay in any way. I love the feeling, and it's exciting to share with her how it feels to be on the "giving" end, and I get some insight on how the "receiving" end. And, I can tell you, the orgasms are absolutely mind blowing!!!
If any of you other guys are out there wondering about it... my advice it to go for it. You only live once, and life is too short to not try some different things once and a while.
Sparky, I have recently been introduced to the "down there" excitement you refer to, and WOW, I couldn't agree more.
It started with my girlfriend giving me a hand job, with her panties, and lightly pressing on my taint (taint my balls, taint my asshole), and god, I came like a fountain!!! Then she was sucking me, and pressing on my taint.... same HUGE result. We couldn't get over how hard my cock got... and the orgasms... so powerful! Wow.
So then one time, she takes out her vibrator... and starts jacking me with a pair of her panties, while holding the vibrator on my taint. HOLY SHIT!!! I nearly passed out.
Then recently, we had been drinking, and I encouraged her to explore further... so she used a ton of lube, and began gently fucking my ass with her vibe... my knees in the air, slightly back.. giving her full access. It was AWESOME!!!
Now, a couple of times, I've laid face down, legs spread. She inserts the vibrator and simulates fucking me with it while she lays on top of me. God, the feeling of her nipples on my back, and her mound on my ass as she pumps me... I love it.
I don't feel this makes me gay in any way. I love the feeling, and it's exciting to share with her how it feels to be on the "giving" end, and I get some insight on how the "receiving" end. And, I can tell you, the orgasms are absolutely mind blowing!!!
If any of you other guys are out there wondering about it... my advice it to go for it. You only live once, and life is too short to not try some different things once and a while.
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Two last thoughts:
Guys if you are going to try this... have your partner use lots of lube, and relax as much as possible.
Savage Kitten, I'd love to be a volunteer! You gotta bring the oil and the vibe though... LOL.
Guys if you are going to try this... have your partner use lots of lube, and relax as much as possible.
Savage Kitten, I'd love to be a volunteer! You gotta bring the oil and the vibe though... LOL.
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Hell yes!
Well, I've often wondered why it's so common for guys to ask women to do it but not for women to ask men. Isn't that stupid?
I find the sights, sounds, and smells of my hubby masturbating to be one of the greatest things! IT'S SO HOT! I don't really like to do it for him though it makes me feel strange, even though I'm so comfortable with him.
We have two couches in our living room facing toward each other, and one time I thought it would be fun to have him sit on one couch and me on another and watch each other masturbate and not say or touch each other. (honestly I don't know where I come up with these fantasies of mine) HE AGREED! It was fantastic! After we came he nearly leaped across the coffee table into my lap it turned him on so much! I'd recommend it to anyone!
Well, I've often wondered why it's so common for guys to ask women to do it but not for women to ask men. Isn't that stupid?
I find the sights, sounds, and smells of my hubby masturbating to be one of the greatest things! IT'S SO HOT! I don't really like to do it for him though it makes me feel strange, even though I'm so comfortable with him.
We have two couches in our living room facing toward each other, and one time I thought it would be fun to have him sit on one couch and me on another and watch each other masturbate and not say or touch each other. (honestly I don't know where I come up with these fantasies of mine) HE AGREED! It was fantastic! After we came he nearly leaped across the coffee table into my lap it turned him on so much! I'd recommend it to anyone!
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I can't say it does anything for me.
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volunteers?
Savage Kitten,you still looking for volunteers?
Savage Kitten,you still looking for volunteers?
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