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What did we do before the Net?

I got it ass-backwards and got geeky after I found the SM people. My first contact was a horrifically mismatched blind date through my local free weekly who was kind enough to point me to the munches.
 
tr65 said:
What did we do before the net?
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i painted, and crocheted, created craft items, and gardened & read the trashiest love/romance novels i could get my hands on.

Prior to having a PC and finding the internet, i was no different from who i am today, yet was stifled due to lack of BDSM involvement & with much less experience. Heck! Even 3.5 years after finally finding the net, this remained as true. i knew who i was and what i liked/wanted/needed ... and thought i was the only one. i understood my desires and needs, and that i thought i was just 'different' ... turns out, i just never had a name to assign to it all. ;)

As for the comments regarding wannabes etc ......
There are wannabes and assholes no matter where we look, including offline, & including, in the 'vanilla' sense. Why lend a predjudiced opinion toward them though? Simply because they are not what 'floats your boat'? There is someone out there for everyone, and they are no less important or valauable a person simply because they do not represent what you may be seeking for yourself. ;) Best reply i can give on this topic: Judge not ... drop the holier than thou stifling attitude and leave the mind open ... it's a far more becoming outlook. ;)
 
I was a young femdom before the net (pre-24 yrs old) and was happily seducing and converting unsuspecting vanilla men to satisfy my kinks for bondage and submission. That's the great thing about being a femdom -- trying to "convince" even the most straight laced guy to experiment with an aggressive, sensual woman doesn't take a lot of arm twisting. It was a matter of not scaring them off, and going slow, and enjoying every bit of it.

When the net came along I met my first "submissives" and it was actually a bit of a culture shock. I wasn't used to the man having his own list of things he enjoyed doing (I was used to having to convince a guy to let me tie him up, gag him, or hurt him -- but the seduction was fun). It took a little bit of adjusting.

Akasha
 
AAkasha said:
I was a young femdom before the net (pre-24 yrs old) and was happily seducing and converting unsuspecting vanilla men to satisfy my kinks for bondage and submission. That's the great thing about being a femdom -- trying to "convince" even the most straight laced guy to experiment with an aggressive, sensual woman doesn't take a lot of arm twisting. It was a matter of not scaring them off, and going slow, and enjoying every bit of it.

When the net came along I met my first "submissives" and it was actually a bit of a culture shock. I wasn't used to the man having his own list of things he enjoyed doing (I was used to having to convince a guy to let me tie him up, gag him, or hurt him -- but the seduction was fun). It took a little bit of adjusting.

Akasha
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Good introductory post.

Although the internet was always around for me, I have noticed the same difference between subs I have met online and subs I have "created".

Welcome to the forum Akasha.
 
AAkasha said:
I was a young femdom before the net (pre-24 yrs old) and was happily seducing and converting unsuspecting vanilla men to satisfy my kinks for bondage and submission. That's the great thing about being a femdom -- trying to "convince" even the most straight laced guy to experiment with an aggressive, sensual woman doesn't take a lot of arm twisting. It was a matter of not scaring them off, and going slow, and enjoying every bit of it.

When the net came along I met my first "submissives" and it was actually a bit of a culture shock. I wasn't used to the man having his own list of things he enjoyed doing (I was used to having to convince a guy to let me tie him up, gag him, or hurt him -- but the seduction was fun). It took a little bit of adjusting.

Akasha
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yay, another Domme :).
hehehe, welcome to the forum, Akasha, I hope you enjoy your stay, however long that may be.
 
Aeroil said:
lol, reminds me of the badger song Tainted. Does anyone know what that is?
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Badger is the best. :D

I sent badger badger to my friend and she played it so often at home that it drove her family crazy...then they started singing it along with her. I think that Kenya was made by the badgerbadger people.
 
TaintedB said:
Badger is the best. :D

I sent badger badger to my friend and she played it so often at home that it drove her family crazy...then they started singing it along with her. I think that Kenya was made by the badgerbadger people.
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probably is, it's on the same site I know, but they do seem to have the same rythm.
 
Marquis said:
LM-MOTHERFUCKING-AO!!!!!


Although Tigers are not indigenous to Africa.
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That's very true! I think it was part of the silliness. :) My favorite part is where they pee on Norway. Norway deserved that, I think. ;)
 
AAkasha said:
I was a young femdom before the net (pre-24 yrs old) and was happily seducing and converting unsuspecting vanilla men to satisfy my kinks for bondage and submission. That's the great thing about being a femdom -- trying to "convince" even the most straight laced guy to experiment with an aggressive, sensual woman doesn't take a lot of arm twisting. It was a matter of not scaring them off, and going slow, and enjoying every bit of it.

When the net came along I met my first "submissives" and it was actually a bit of a culture shock. I wasn't used to the man having his own list of things he enjoyed doing (I was used to having to convince a guy to let me tie him up, gag him, or hurt him -- but the seduction was fun). It took a little bit of adjusting.

Akasha
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Hah, did you ever run into any dominant men trying to "convince" a straight laced girl to submit? hehe
 
jasonlf said:
Hah, did you ever run into any dominant men trying to "convince" a straight laced girl to submit? hehe
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I've run into a woman like Akasha before.

It wasn't pretty.
 
Marquis said:
I've run into a woman like Akasha before.

It wasn't pretty.
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That has to be pretty funny. Did you both have a 'eureka' moment, when you're like "um, I think we're both doms", do did you have to beat her whenever she tried to whip you.
 
jasonlf said:
That has to be pretty funny. Did you both have a 'eureka' moment, when you're like "um, I think we're both doms", do did you have to beat her whenever she tried to whip you.
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We met in a very vanilla context and she surely didn't know about bdsm. It was obvious we had a problem when she told me to "relax my lips" and let her kiss me.

I think you can tell a LOT about a person by the way they kiss.
 
Marquis said:
We met in a very vanilla context and she surely didn't know about bdsm. It was obvious we had a problem when she told me to "relax my lips" and let her kiss me.

I think you can tell a LOT about a person by the way they kiss.
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Hah, exactly.

Sounds a lot like my ex. "Oh, I'm a sub"... then you try to dominate her, and she resists with some BS answer -- oh well, I'm glad I'm not with her anymore.

Lots of fun, real subs to play with :D
 
jasonlf said:
Hah, did you ever run into any dominant men trying to "convince" a straight laced girl to submit? hehe
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I never had a problem "accidently" picking out a dominant and not finding out until later. And although I know you can't tell a person's 'dominant/submissive' stance by looks alone, I think some intuition did play into it.

Also, I think I was more drawn to men who were younger, less experienced, on the shy side -- so we're talking 19-21 year olds to my 23-24 age. I was out of college and working, they were still in school. I was always more aggressive and self confident, so hooking up with someone open to being directed and eventually dominated wasn't difficult. The rest was good luck.

I think if I had been older with no Internet trying to do the same thing, it would have been much harder with men in their 30s. They don't wear their sexual experience/inexperience/leanings on their sleeve so much. And by then I was not as comfortable with "boytoys" and was looking for more substance and longterm potential. I'm glad I wasn't born 20 years ago.


Akasha
 
ah, Akasha, now I know where I recognized that name from, you wrote that "good girls guide to female domination" that I read a few months back. lol, the name was so familiar, it was nagging at me quite a bit.
 
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