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DemimondeDenizen

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I playfully gave her a spank while doing laundry decades ago and she was really mad.

A few years ago, she started teasing about spanking. Due to her way earlier, pre-therapy, negative response I just didn’t “hear” her.

About a year ago she I figured what the heck, and while fucking in doggy, gave her a little slap on the ass.

Whoa! Her response was immediate; moaning, sighs, immediate pussy clamping and increased wetness. And that was before I grabbed onto her hanging breasts and made her lose (or find) it lol.

Anyway the reason for my question is that we are both switches. While sometimes we enjoy figuring out who might lead on a particular night by teasing each other beforehand, other times we just do the usual because one or the other can’t decide to take initiative. And that’s ok, the sex is good—if just repetitive on those occasions.

Overall we both are overcoming some shyness (after all these years lol). We went through the Spicer app and found some things we both are interested—including spanking.

We like flipping roles around and experimenting with light control, cuffs, toys, etc…but not deep into a lifestyle,

I feel like somehow talking about it is still just a little awkward. Sometimes just making a random choice from Spicer or just rolling a die sets us on a course without us waffling so much and then we go with it and have great fun.

With this—apologies—long lead up, what are playful, hot “reasons” (not from any real life shortcomings—that would kill things dead) to explore more about spanking scenarios? Going both ways…I don’t mind a little spice and dick slapping here and there. Maybe there’s a distinction for her between power exchange and just adding a little enhanced sensation play?

Maybe get playful punishment for trying to top from the bottom last time? Maybe just one of us needs it? Maybe just perusing our responses on Spicer?

I’d appreciate creative help to launch some playful spanking sessions.
 
The easy ones are all rooted in some kind of actual behavior - but not "shortcomings."

She puts too much ice in your drink. She spills a little water on you. She doesn't do the hand washing on a night when it is her turn, or doesn't do it soon enough, or takes too long. Some kind of minor infraction that can lead to a swat or two on the clothed ass.

Then you see how she responds.

If she bends over willingly. If she leans back into you. If she moans or spreads her legs just a little bit wider. Then you know she likes it, and you take it from there. You find the next "failure", real or imagined. Have her bend over for real, hands on the edge of the sofa or on the kitchen counter. Give her 5, with one good one at the end. And again, see how she responds. And so on.

As I am fond of saying, her words are not the tell. She may protest. Her body will betray her if she is turned on by what you are doing...

The other approach, which is not my preference but can be very hot for some people, is role play. Start off the scene with a construct. She is a student reporting her misbehavior to the head master of her school. She is a prisoner who has broken some rule and will be put in solitary unless we can find some other way to punish the infraction. And take it from there.
 
Being switchy, I could also think of “reasons” she could punish me a little.

I think we may do better with role playing or just absurd excuses to lose control rather than anything real.

I guess—if we could settle on who’s the boss for a day—there could be an assigned household chore that one could purposely mess up so as to get punished…but it would have to be humorous, not potentially hurtful.

Any ideas?
 
DemimondeDenizen said:
I playfully gave her a spank while doing laundry decades ago and she was really mad.

A few years ago, she started teasing about spanking. Due to her way earlier, pre-therapy, negative response I just didn’t “hear” her.

About a year ago she I figured what the heck, and while fucking in doggy, gave her a little slap on the ass.

Whoa! Her response was immediate; moaning, sighs, immediate pussy clamping and increased wetness. And that was before I grabbed onto her hanging breasts and made her lose (or find) it lol.

Anyway the reason for my question is that we are both switches. While sometimes we enjoy figuring out who might lead on a particular night by teasing each other beforehand, other times we just do the usual because one or the other can’t decide to take initiative. And that’s ok, the sex is good—if just repetitive on those occasions.

Overall we both are overcoming some shyness (after all these years lol). We went through the Spicer app and found some things we both are interested—including spanking.

We like flipping roles around and experimenting with light control, cuffs, toys, etc…but not deep into a lifestyle,

I feel like somehow talking about it is still just a little awkward. Sometimes just making a random choice from Spicer or just rolling a die sets us on a course without us waffling so much and then we go with it and have great fun.

With this—apologies—long lead up, what are playful, hot “reasons” (not from any real life shortcomings—that would kill things dead) to explore more about spanking scenarios? Going both ways…I don’t mind a little spice and dick slapping here and there. Maybe there’s a distinction for her between power exchange and just adding a little enhanced sensation play?

Maybe get playful punishment for trying to top from the bottom last time? Maybe just one of us needs it? Maybe just perusing our responses on Spicer?

I’d appreciate creative help to launch some playful spanking sessions.
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My wife didn’t like spanking every time I tried it. Then one day after years of no spanking she was bouncing in top of me she leaned into my ear and whispered ; spank my ass. hurt me. Make me beg you to stop.
Next day her ass was a giant bruise She flashed me her ass and said “A little lighter tonite?”
 
“Feel how wet you are. Taste it. Did I tell you to become wet? No? Then why did you do something that I didn’t tell you to do?”

Funishment for things over which she has no control can create confusion, and confusion can be useful.
 
Her "birthday" spanking was about as hot as any preceding it. Sometimes she just needs it.

That said, reasons can be for transgressions (punishment) and can be brutal depending on the level of transgression. Also alignment, which becomes an issue when we've been separated. I have used a cane, belt, etc.

That said, the immediate hand applied spanking is the result of a spontaneous issue like sudden bratting. Sometimes applied to tits or pussy depending on whether she offended involving the particular anatomy. I find the spontaneous whippings (again, known consequence for known failure) my favorite as they are so much more intimate.

As I've written elsewhere, the painful feedback coming back through my hand makes me feel so much closer to her. Many reasons and just as many applications.
 
Hypocrites said:
Her "birthday" spanking was about as hot as any preceding it. Sometimes she just needs it.

That said, reasons can be for transgressions (punishment) and can be brutal depending on the level of transgression. Also alignment, which becomes an issue when we've been separated. I have used a cane, belt, etc.

That said, the immediate hand applied spanking is the result of a spontaneous issue like sudden bratting. Sometimes applied to tits or pussy depending on whether she offended involving the particular anatomy. I find the spontaneous whippings (again, known consequence for known failure) my favorite as they are so much more intimate.

As I've written elsewhere, the painful feedback coming back through my hand makes me feel so much closer to her. Many reasons and just as many applications.
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although a bit technical, your post was erotically stimulating
 
Some people don't want to associate sexy stuff with any real 'failures', even (or especially) if the failure is made up.

However, they may be perfectly happy to be disciplined for being such a total slut that they need to be kept under control...
 
Kumquatqueen said:
Some people don't want to associate sexy stuff with any real 'failures', even (or especially) if the failure is made up.

However, they may be perfectly happy to be disciplined for being such a total slut that they need to be kept under control...
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Like me lol
 
I gave an ex-sub of mine a schoolroom themed roleplay whereby she underwent a spelling test of the 50 most difficult spellings in the English language.

One spank for each incorrect answer.

An educational experience for her... in such a pretty uniform.
 
spanking is dull and not very effective. caning is better. a thin long whippy rattan cane delivers the sharp sting on the bare bum to motivate and generate craving for bare back sodomy in doggy or face down on bed. about 10 strokes delivered at a medium pace is effective especially on a leisure weekend night meet while tipsy and horny for kink variety and craving taboo.
 
kreemi_pi said:
Spank me because i LIKE it.

For me, the best spanking is mid-fuck...spontaneous...maybe to reward/punish me for being dirty and wild...

Do it hard but don't overdo it. And for god's sake, don't forget to spank my boobs 🥰
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Color in my baby girl's tits is some of the most beautiful things to meet my eyes. She doesn't think its too hard. So, color or no color?
 
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