What Do Slaves/Subs Do When They Get Bored?

[catalina_francisco]

Of course, our 2 cats think it has been done just for them and their comfort...I swear they have barely left the room since we finished the painting on the weekend!!

Catalina

 

[m wisdom]

LOL, if you want to come over here and renovate the existing bathroom, build another one, and find a way to reach those unreachable ceilings safely in our bedroom.

Catalina

Can I build the bathroom as a dungeon?

 

[catalina_francisco]

Can I build the bathroom as a dungeon?

LOL, the one on our floor, yes!! He has already been thinking about building a cage in that can be cleverly disguised when other people are checking out what has been done etc.

Catalina

 

[m wisdom]

LOL, the one on our floor, yes!! He has already been thinking about building a cage in that can be cleverly disguised when other people are checking out what has been done etc.

Catalina

Disguise? So no big oak door with DUNGEON written on it?

 

[graceanne]

Wow, you must feel so much satisfaction when you walk into those rooms.

And I see that you have the same problem with books that I do. Never enough shelves. lol

 

[catalina_francisco]

Wow, you must feel so much satisfaction when you walk into those rooms.

And I see that you have the same problem with books that I do. Never enough shelves. lol

LOL, yes, I gave away a lot before I moved here and I still have boxes of them in the attic!!

Catalina

 

[graceanne]

LOL, yes, I gave away a lot before I moved here and I still have boxes of them in the attic!!

Catalina

LOL Me too. I don't know how many boxes of books are up there, and all the bookshelves down here are over flowing. I need to get rid of some again, or move em upstairs.

 

[catalina_francisco]

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OK, he has only been gone 2 days and nights and I was crawling the walls under less than 24 hours.....and we have 3 months at least of this to endure!!!!! I think the reminder he will return for short visits most weekends is helping our sanity, http://www.smilies4you.de/content/liebe/b18.gifbut we are both suffering.....and I am going to Oz for a month so there will be no weekend visits then.http://www.smilies4you.de/content/traurig/a21.gif


I am trying to be a good slave, thinking of him being in a hotel room bigger than half our house, all alone, with a huge, huge TV for company (he really likes that), king size bed all alone, beautiful food each night that is very inexpensive compared to herehttp://www.smilies4you.de/content/traurig/b13.gif....

and of course I am trying to throw myself into more renovating and unpacking and work to keep busy and occupiedhttp://www.smilies4you.de/content/haushalt/a9.gif, but just seem to be running on half empty and miserable most of the time.http://www.smilies4you.de/content/traurig/b11.gif Ah, ain't love grand?!!http://www.smilies4you.de/content/liebe/a53.gif Oh well, at least one cat http://www.smilies4you.de/content/tiere/at7.gifhas decided I need her to keep me company at night.http://www.smilies4you.de/content/tiere/at89.gif

Catalinahttp://www.smilies4you.de/content/freundlich/b29.gif

 

[graceanne]

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OK, he has only been gone 2 days and nights and I was crawling the walls under less than 24 hours.....and we have 3 months at least of this to endure!!!!! I think the reminder he will return for short visits most weekends is helping our sanity, http://www.smilies4you.de/content/liebe/b18.gifbut we are both suffering.....and I am going to Oz for a month so there will be no weekend visits then.http://www.smilies4you.de/content/traurig/a21.gif


I am trying to be a good slave, thinking of him being in a hotel room bigger than half our house, all alone, with a huge, huge TV for company (he really likes that), king size bed all alone, beautiful food each night that is very inexpensive compared to herehttp://www.smilies4you.de/content/traurig/b13.gif....

and of course I am trying to throw myself into more renovating and unpacking and work to keep busy and occupiedhttp://www.smilies4you.de/content/haushalt/a9.gif, but just seem to be running on half empty and miserable most of the time.http://www.smilies4you.de/content/traurig/b11.gif Ah, ain't love grand?!!http://www.smilies4you.de/content/liebe/a53.gif Oh well, at least one cat http://www.smilies4you.de/content/tiere/at7.gifhas decided I need her to keep me company at night.http://www.smilies4you.de/content/tiere/at89.gif

Catalinahttp://www.smilies4you.de/content/freundlich/b29.gif

*hugs* I can't imagine. Soon I will, though. K joined the national guard. They're gonna pay for him to go do college, but first he's gonna be gone about three months for basic training. He leaves on the 25th.

 

[catalina_francisco]

*hugs* I can't imagine. Soon I will, though. K joined the national guard. They're gonna pay for him to go do college, but first he's gonna be gone about three months for basic training. He leaves on the 25th.

Oh yuk....and will you have someone who can help out when you have your bad days? As for me, I am getting lots of attention from both cats tonight....think they are missing him too and have decided it is time to give me some extra loving, so who am I to not oblige their peculiarities?!!

Catalina

 

[graceanne]

Oh yuk....and will you have someone who can help out when you have your bad days? As for me, I am getting lots of attention from both cats tonight....think they are missing him too and have decided it is time to give me some extra loving, so who am I to not oblige their peculiarities?!!

Catalina

Well, we're praying hard that I won't get sick. I've also got a friend moving in with me. She's just gotten out an abusive relationship and is trying to get her life back on track.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Well, we're praying hard that I won't get sick. I've also got a friend moving in with me. She's just gotten out an abusive relationship and is trying to get her life back on track.

Hope your prayers are answered and the friend situation works out well.....and you don't take up wall climbing like me.

Catalina

 

[graceanne]

Hope your prayers are answered and the friend situation works out well.....and you don't take up wall climbing like me.

Catalina

I'm more worried about depression. I get depressed when he's gone for more than a few days, three months will be hell.

I just keep telling me that he's expecting me to take care of things, and when he gets back I want to show him that I did a good job.

But I've never been alone. I went directly from my mom's house to his. I always knew I wanted a man who's home every night. I'm not the kind of person who does well by myself.

But he really wants to do this. They're going to pay for him to go to college, and all that. *sigh*

I'm really gonna miss him.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I'm more worried about depression. I get depressed when he's gone for more than a few days, three months will be hell.

I just keep telling me that he's expecting me to take care of things, and when he gets back I want to show him that I did a good job.

But I've never been alone. I went directly from my mom's house to his. I always knew I wanted a man who's home every night. I'm not the kind of person who does well by myself.

But he really wants to do this. They're going to pay for him to go to college, and all that. *sigh*

I'm really gonna miss him.

That depression thing is a bitch. I was teary and going down fast within hours of him leaving and PMS didn't help, but seem to have managed to keep it at a reasonable level so far....keep reminding myself he doesn't need to be worrying about me, but that won't work always knowing me.

 

[graceanne]

That depression thing is a bitch. I was teary and going down fast within hours of him leaving and PMS didn't help, but seem to have managed to keep it at a reasonable level so far....keep reminding myself he doesn't need to be worrying about me, but that won't work always knowing me.

Yeah. I don't figure that reminding myself that I need to do a good job while he's gone will always work too. But when it's not, I need to remind myself that no matter how depressed I am, that the kids still need me.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Thank to universe for problematic laptops!! It has meant instead of going to Paris this weekend, he has had to come back home and reload everything before leaving again Sunday. Of course, there is all that time to fill in while things load and download and we have not had trouble finding just how to make good use of that time.

Catalina

 

[graceanne]

Thank to universe for problematic laptops!! It has meant instead of going to Paris this weekend, he has had to come back home and reload everything before leaving again Sunday. Of course, there is all that time to fill in while things load and download and we have not had trouble finding just how to make good use of that time.

Catalina

YAY!

 

[catalina_francisco]

Was a memorable weekend, and I was extremely impressed to discover he knew what skin care programme I use and bought a pack of goodies from it for me as a present....lol, of course with a warning before opening I was not to think he was sending me a message that I needed it!!! He always gives me the impression those are things he doesn't bother his gorgeous head with, but obviously he does. I am amazed we are both like lovesick puppies after more than three years and were both depressed about his having to leave again.....is something I only dreamed of knowing in years gone by.

Catalina

 

[shy slave]

Being apart is never easy.

For me, knowing that we will soon be together at some point soon doesn't make it easier, it just makes it bearable, as I can focus on looking forward in a postive way.

I am a great believer in living 'in the moment' but nights in bed alone when I just want to reach out and hold is hand can make that difficult

I have said I want to enjoy the aspects of our being apart as this helps me 'live in the moment' of each day rather than always looking forward or back into the past.

However, when we are apart its just too easy to sit and think about what we will do together or what we have done.


Recently I have realised the following:
Just how much I miss him
Just how difficult it is not to dwell in the past
Just how much I want to learn and understand about him, as person
and finally
Just how difficult Danish is to learn!


On another positive note Catalina, Gracie and I are all lucky, we do see our PYL regularly (Ok, I know they live with theirs, but they still have to go away at times) many people on here are either alone or have not had the opportunity to meet.

There is a saying:
"I grumbled at having no boots until I met a man with no feet." Unknown


PS Catalina I looked at your last photo, those are interesting light orbs above your cats, any ideas what caused them?

 

[catalina_francisco]

PS Catalina I looked at your last photo, those are interesting light orbs above your cats, any ideas what caused them?

LOL, I have no idea and didn't notice them until I downloaded them. Wouldn't be the first time I captured something weird, though this is mild in comparison. When I went back to high school in my 30's and was developing some pics in the dark room of the art department, I did one of a gargoyle type statue I had photographed. On one of the pics I developed there was this semi transparent evil looking face over the whole pic, and on another there was the front tip of a jogger to the side of the pic. Neither of these things were in the actual negatives or repeat prints, and were not the result of any trickery of 2 negatives etc. That day in the dark room had been spooky before this happened....icy air without explanation which just as quickly returned to normal, prickly feelings up the spine like someone was there I could not see. There were 3 of us in the room, all who experienced the weirdness, and after these 2 pics I developed the others left fast, so once I cleaned up as fast as possible (cheeky brats left me to do it alone), I was out of there too. My teacher was not one to believe in ghosts or supernatural things, but he was freaked out by it as well and had no justifiable explanation..nor did he like being in there alone for several months later.

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

Being apart is never easy.




Recently I have realised the following:
Just how much I miss him
Just how difficult it is not to dwell in the past
Just how much I want to learn and understand about him, as person
and finally
Just how difficult Danish is to learn!

I can so relate....especially with the language thing. Spanish would be a lot easier, but Dutch I just am not finding the time to get into a routine on for too long. I do find I have a talent for spelling it correctly most times, and for remembering it in written form easier than spoken, but it is getting easier I think as in it is all beginning to match up.

The missing thing with people is something I don't think I will ever get used to. It gets you when you least expect it. We also thought we would miss each other for the next 3 months, even with weekend visits, but nothing like we have. I am no longer looking forward to the trip to Oz quite so much. Keep trying to think of the positives.

Catalina

 

[shy slave]

I can so relate....especially with the language thing. Spanish would be a lot easier, but Dutch I just am not finding the time to get into a routine on for too long. I do find I have a talent for spelling it correctly most times, and for remembering it in written form easier than spoken, but it is getting easier I think as in it is all beginning to match up.

The missing thing with people is something I don't think I will ever get used to. It gets you when you least expect it. We also thought we would miss each other for the next 3 months, even with weekend visits, but nothing like we have. I am no longer looking forward to the trip to Oz quite so much. Keep trying to think of the positives.

Catalina

I dont have any answers about how to hang onto the positives.
We use the web cam alot. Not for cam sex but simply to be able to 'be' in the room together.
He is often working on the computer so we can be together yet not constantly talking to each other.
It makes us feel physically closer, and, although its virtual reality in one sense, in another we can see each other in a normal everyday situations.

Other positives i have found is focusing on the sound of his voice and that look on his face when we meet at the airport again, envoking those feelings makes the anticipation of seeing him more intense.

I know this may sound flowery or pessimistic (not sure which) but I have come to realise that constantly living in a future that may not happen is not healthy.

That does not mean I think it will end between Andante and I, but more that I don't want to anticipate too many of the specifics that may or may not happen when we are together.

It hurts to be apart, sometimes its like a physical pain, but I want to feel that pain as much as I feel they joy of seeing him.

Not sure that will makes sense to some people, but it may strike a chord with those of us who have to be apart at times.

 

[shy slave]

LOL, I have no idea and didn't notice them until I downloaded them. Wouldn't be the first time I captured something weird, though this is mild in comparison. When I went back to high school in my 30's and was developing some pics in the dark room of the art department, I did one of a gargoyle type statue I had photographed. On one of the pics I developed there was this semi transparent evil looking face over the whole pic, and on another there was the front tip of a jogger to the side of the pic. Neither of these things were in the actual negatives or repeat prints, and were not the result of any trickery of 2 negatives etc. That day in the dark room had been spooky before this happened....icy air without explanation which just as quickly returned to normal, prickly feelings up the spine like someone was there I could not see. There were 3 of us in the room, all who experienced the weirdness, and after these 2 pics I developed the others left fast, so once I cleaned up as fast as possible (cheeky brats left me to do it alone), I was out of there too. My teacher was not one to believe in ghosts or supernatural things, but he was freaked out by it as well and had no justifiable explanation..nor did he like being in there alone for several months later.

Catalina

They look like Spirit orbs to me, but I am not an expert it may be reflection or a trick of the light.

Interesting story about the photos you developed, it is good to hear that other felt the same thing...curious about the jogger, do you think it was the same 'entity' whose face overlaid the gargoyle?

Its odd how time and again truth is often stranger then fiction!

 

[chris9]

When we have been apart (like when I was in Italy for 5 months or so) I always tried to occupy myself as best as I could. I had a safety net of friends in the same situation and when we would really start missing our partners we would meet, because company and doing something is the only thing that helps. That and burying oneself in books, but that has the disadvantage of closing out the rest of life, too.

 

[catalina_francisco]

They look like Spirit orbs to me, but I am not an expert it may be reflection or a trick of the light.

Interesting story about the photos you developed, it is good to hear that other felt the same thing...curious about the jogger, do you think it was the same 'entity' whose face overlaid the gargoyle?

Its odd how time and again truth is often stranger then fiction!

..and today more strange pic outcomes, though no doubt this one was a matter of light and water droplets in the air perhaps....either way, was nice to see the little splash of unexpected colour in the pic.

Catalina