What do you feel before an orgasm?

[Ayren]

Just wondering what different sensations women feel before orgasming so they know it's going to happen?

Men answer too!

 

[hogjack]

Even at that moment of euphoria I'm still reaching back to check for my wallet - just making sure it's there.

 

[INeedLove]

How does one describe something that which is almost beyond description?

Some of what I feel:
lightheaded, electricity running around my clit and deep inside, heat, intense heat, build up, dizzy, delicious, gasping, building, pressure, tightening, at the edge, at the edge, BAM, explosion! floating, floating, starting to breathe again, euphoria, smiling, a need to cuddle and be held

And then I want MORE!!!!

 

[sweet_lil_lady1]

Just wondering what different sensations women feel before orgasming so they know it's going to happen?

Men answer too!

LOL...i just feel sooo happy and hype and hot right before i orgasm....but i really cant describe it that much how i would feel lol

 

[bisexplicit]

Why do you want to know?

 

[Christina O. Leigh]

Why do you want to know?

Maybe she wants to know if it's actually an orgasm. Remember your first time? Is that it? Is that it? Ha!

Anyhoo...

I cannot describe an orgasm. It's too damn complicated. All I can say is that my vagina pulsates like crazy before, and I clench around my lovers cock non-stop with legs rigid - well, actually, my entire body usually is. Sometimes I lose my breath and it makes my head hurt. Damn him for building me up for 45 mins long, knowing I'm so close to cumming, then stops for a min. He thinks my orgasm will be much stronger because of this. Sometimes I think he's right. He teases the hell out of me with his mouth and fingers, and when I finally do cum, I can barely turn over or move my legs. I feel like lead afterwards. Phew...

 

[Ayren]

Maybe she wants to know if it's actually an orgasm. Remember your first time? Is that it? Is that it? Ha!

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Yep, that would be it. I seem to be one of those women who take a really really long time to reach it, and I usually just get too tired or frustrated. (not with anyone, unfortunately)

I thought knowing how others feel, might help me know when I'm getting closer and just for curiosity's sake differences that women have

 

[Christina O. Leigh]

Yep, that would be it. I seem to be one of those women who take a really really long time to reach it, and I usually just get too tired or frustrated. (not with anyone, unfortunately)

I thought knowing how others feel, might help me know when I'm getting closer and just for curiosity's sake differences that women have

You're not alone on that one! It can be frustrating but when it finally happens, it's amazing!

 

[SweetErika]

Yep, that would be it. I seem to be one of those women who take a really really long time to reach it, and I usually just get too tired or frustrated. (not with anyone, unfortunately)

I thought knowing how others feel, might help me know when I'm getting closer and just for curiosity's sake differences that women have

I can take a really long time, too. Taking breaks definitely help to resensitize and refocus you mentally; fatigue and frustration are counterproductive, obviously. If your fantasies aren't that arousing, try reading some stories for some new material. Go in thinking you're just looking to learn about your body, NOT orgasm (i.e. take all of the pressure off). From what I can tell, you're setting high expectations and putting a lot of pressure on yourself. When I have trouble, the problem is inevitably mental, so if you can get in the right mindset, you should be fine.

 

[Barney Miller]

Just wondering what different sensations women feel before orgasming so they know it's going to happen?

Men answer too!

Just before orgasm I usually feel the softness of the woman I'm with or, in the absence of female companionship, I feel my hand.

 

[hogjack]

Just before orgasm I usually feel the softness of the woman I'm with or, in the absence of female companionship, I feel my hand.

And then there's the Silence of the Lambs.

 

[Chicklet]

I feel my whole body tense up, like something's about to happen (which, duh, it is, lol) - my thoughts seem to center on the thing that's exciting me the most, and block out everything else. Then once I cum I feel relieved, as though all the tension has just washed out of my body. It's quite nice. I usually masturbate right before going to sleep for that reason.

 

[Eating_Scarlett]

And then there's the Silence of the Lambs.

ahahhaha

 

[Shiaftrin]

An orgasm is an enigma. Mysterious and sometimes hard to describe, but nevertheless extremely pleasing

I get tingly all over when I've got one building up, although I don't really tingle as such. Its sort of like the feeling you get when you're embarrassed and you KNOW your face is going red. That happens to my whole body. Generally if its a drawn out one and has been building up for some time I get impatient really quickly and start squirming around. And then - BAM!!! - and like someone else mentioned, breathe, breathe, breathe, cuddle, breathe, cuddle, more please!

 

[naughtygirl69s]

I get that buzzy, edgy full feeling deep inside and a zippy electric feeling in my head, it's like being at the crest of a hill on a roller coaster, where you're just about to go over the edge, I usually try to stay at that edge for a while, but I have a hard time maintaining it, I either lose it entirely or suddenly go OVER the edge.

I wish I could bottle up that feeling of being on the edge, it's also a very dirty place in my mind, I get the dirtiest, naughty thoughts when im at that point, it's like my fantasies are the deepest, darkest, secretest place in my head when im on the edge

I like this topic, I wish more guys would answer

 

[Sexy Sandy]

I get that buzzy, edgy full feeling deep inside and a zippy electric feeling in my head, it's like being at the crest of a hill on a roller coaster, where you're just about to go over the edge, I usually try to stay at that edge for a while, but I have a hard time maintaining it, I either lose it entirely or suddenly go OVER the edge.

I wish I could bottle up that feeling of being on the edge, it's also a very dirty place in my mind, I get the dirtiest, naughty thoughts when im at that point, it's like my fantasies are the deepest, darkest, secretest place in my head when im on the edge

I like this topic, I wish more guys would answer

Yep, best description that relates closely to me. My whole body tingles like electricity is flowing through it, and then suddenly over the edge I go. If a very strong orgasm I pass out for a few seconds then come to crying, it's that intense. But has to be the right sort of bloke to do that.

 

[hogjack]

This thread is multi-orgasmic.

 

[naughtygirl69s]

This thread is multi-orgasmic.

thanks for contributing

 

[SubNebGuy]

I'm a guy, so I'll answer too since it's being requested.

For me, its a build-up of pressure, and the longer its been since my last ejaculation, the bigger the pressure.

I always try to hold back as much as possible, because the harder the release, the bigger the orgasm. As it builds, the head of my cock becomes very sensitive (I'm circumsized btw), and my testicles/scrotum also get sensitive, so it's great when my wife rubs them at that crucial climax.
For me the orgasm lasts as long as the process of ejaculating, and for several seconds after. Body twitches, especially if she still touches me.

I'm actually able to make my wife orgasm through penetration, as well as clitoral stimulation, or a combination.
Hell, she even comes during anal sometimes. But she can also take forever, and sometimes can't come...just gets rubbed to the point of it feeling raw.

Women definitely need to be in a 'frame of mind' to have a good orgasm, unlike a man who can pretty much get off as long as his unit is functional.

 

[naughtygirl69s]

I'm a guy, so I'll answer too since it's being requested.

For me, its a build-up of pressure, and the longer its been since my last ejaculation, the bigger the pressure.

I always try to hold back as much as possible, because the harder the release, the bigger the orgasm. As it builds, the head of my cock becomes very sensitive (I'm circumsized btw), and my testicles/scrotum also get sensitive, so it's great when my wife rubs them at that crucial climax.
For me the orgasm lasts as long as the process of ejaculating, and for several seconds after. Body twitches, especially if she still touches me.

I'm actually able to make my wife orgasm through penetration, as well as clitoral stimulation, or a combination.
Hell, she even comes during anal sometimes. But she can also take forever, and sometimes can't come...just gets rubbed to the point of it feeling raw.

Women definitely need to be in a 'frame of mind' to have a good orgasm, unlike a man who can pretty much get off as long as his unit is functional.

Thank you for a wonderful, thoughtful answer. I appreciate it.

 

[Darkknight2010]

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm... heart beating faster... breath quicker and more shallow... balls and the pit of my stomach tightening... suddenly my body just moves on it's own, faster... harder... eyes locked shut... then an explosive release as I slam forward... then more and more... very hot, very deep... exhaustion... a little dizzy... soft kisses... the need to touch and hold...

 

[lost_in_space]

How does one describe something that which is almost beyond description?

Some of what I feel:
lightheaded, electricity running around my clit and deep inside, heat, intense heat, build up, dizzy, delicious, gasping, building, pressure, tightening, at the edge, at the edge, BAM, explosion! floating, floating, starting to breathe again, euphoria, smiling, a need to cuddle and be held

And then I want MORE!!!!

Hang on a sec !

You've just exactly described how I feel, and I'm a guy! (Of course, with a minor details changed)

Definitely a need to cuddle ...

 

[Ayren]

I appreciate all the replies and guys too, anyone else want to contribute

 

[eudaemonia]

Well, right before it's going to be inevitable -- once in a blue moon, it's not -- all I can describe it as is, "OMG, it's happening ... " Sometimes it's a like a slow-mo wave washing over me, sometimes it's as lightning quick as a tsunami. Every O is different, but the OMG-It's-Happening is always the same. It's like something grips me and I can't/don't want to escape. Lovely and delicious feeling ... as others have said, I wish I could bottle it.

 

[covariant]

Well, right before it's going to be inevitable -- once in a blue moon, it's not -- all I can describe it as is, "OMG, it's happening ... " Sometimes it's a like a slow-mo wave washing over me, sometimes it's as lightning quick as a tsunami. Every O is different, but the OMG-It's-Happening is always the same. It's like something grips me and I can't/don't want to escape. Lovely and delicious feeling ... as others have said, I wish I could bottle it.

I'm a guy, but it's very much the same for me. When it's really good, there's an effortless sense of excitement that rises throughout my body and leads directly to ejaculation. Time is briefly suspended and things are completely out of my control. I wish I knew how to make it that way every time...