What do you gather from this..

[Migaly]

This is in regards to a woman that had sex with me for one day.. she felt bad for me, but she had alot of strange rules..

A woman that was willing to have sex, but refuses to let you see her butt or stomich. You can see anything else just not her butt or stomich. Now, I did see both, and they were.. like.. perfect.. no flaw at all.. so I can't see whats up with that..

When she was in the on top position, if I try to follow the rhythym, and do my share of thrusting, she says stop, and don't move.. ;/

Also, she did not like to moan or hear moaning.

Everything was done in the dark.. except the first time that day was during the day so she was out of luck there..


Does something seem fishy here or was she just very very self concious

 

[M's girl]

I'd say either self consious, even though you have no clue why, or just the way she wants her sex....

I have seen/heard weirder kicks from people concerning sex. Maybe it was her way to control you (during sex) or so? Mild dominant behaviour? I dunno...

 

[Migaly]

I'd say either self consious, even though you have no clue why, or just the way she wants her sex....

I have seen/heard weirder kicks from people concerning sex. Maybe it was her way to control you (during sex) or so? Mild dominant behaviour? I dunno...

Oh I forgot one too, feet aren't allowed to touch anything. Even other feet.. neither mine or hers. That was a weird one.

 

[_honey_]

I'd go with self concious. For the first few months of sleeping with my boyfriend it was all in the dark. Never mind letting him see my stomach or bum, I'd get nervous at the though of him seeing my legs or back even!

Thing is, I always feel like guys are appraising my appearance when they're looking at me. Doesn't matter what their standards are, it unsettles me that I'm no J-Lo-bodied girl. It take time to get comfortable enough that I'm not feeling judged any more.

Lots of people are wierd about feet too. I think give her a break

 

[Hooper_X]

My first guess would be self-conscious. My second and third guesses would be herpes and genital warts. In any event, I'd have nothing to do with her. life's too short to put up with that kind of idiosyncratic bull shit.

 

[Bystander]

as far as you not thrusting when she's on top, it might be because she knows what kind of thrust feel best and you thrusting changes the angles, force etc. About everything else, that is just weird. Personally, I'd move on if the rules don't go away.

 

[sunandshadow]

might be obsessive/compulsive or phobic behavior - I don't think self-consciousness because she would probably also be too self-conscious to lay out the rules bluntly.

 

[emap]

Talk to her about it.

Yeah I know it's all really weird stuff, I'd prefer in the dark myself, but he has a cure for that with me, says lights will be on.

Tell you the truth I have my own weird little quirks, I refuse anal even with condoms and after an enema I can't, it's mental blockage of a large degree. So many people swear it's wonderful, and I know gay men do it alot, but I can't get past the ICK factor. I also refuse to drink sperm out of a cup or off a plate or anything like that, I want it in my mouth when he cums, or lower.

Some people love feet, they want to smell suck and lick on toes for hours, some people have an opposite feeling on feet, I'm in the middle I bet she is more toward the revulsion end. Also, some people don't like moaning, some people love it, some people want to have a porn tape on really loud during sex so they can listen to dubbed balogney instead of whoever they are with.

Basically what I am saying is everyone has their own weird little quirks when it comes to sex, talk to her about it, perhaps you will find you and her have more things in common than not in bed.

Assuming of course she will want to continue with you in bed, not saying she doesn't but the way you phrased it she may not.

 

[Migaly]

Oh no thats been over for a few months. She says shes sick of seeing my face and I haven't been allowed to talk to her for awhile. I just remembered back on those things and wondered.

 

[Retrieval]

Sounds to me as if she wanted to pretend you were dead, maybe she had some kind of Nechrophilic fantasy.

 

[phoenix1224]

If she TRULY only had sex with you out of pity, perhaps she felt embarrassed/ashamed of what she was doing which, in turn, brought out all sorts of self-conscious and compulsive behavior in her.