What do you want????

[Richard49]

Why I am here......

Miss T thank you for starting this thread.

Thank you all who have posted.

What am I looking for here?
I came here for the stroies.......I found the BBs....still have tried the chats.......

To be honest I am open.......
to make freinds
to find someone to cyber/phone with
(I give good phone <smile>)
to listen/read new ideas
to break the bordom
to cover the pain
etc.

Yes I have a hope of finding a RT subbie.
However if someone wanted to keep it to coffee and conversation I would enjoy that also........

I am intelligually curious about everything
My RT interests range from politics to herbs to TV production to radio to music to.....fill in the blank

I love to read .......
I watch TV.......

I always thought I was a good Dom.......

Hey I think I missed really answering Miss Ts questions <smile>

Richard

 

[prettygrneyes]

hmmmmmm

Well I definitely agree with everyone here and I am glad to find this post too,I like to get to know someone first and discuss our likes and dislikes and what turns you on and what turns you off too,Mmmm ,I like to get to know the person by talking online and offline ..sharing fantasies and things you have done and want to do...I think like with the real life "sex" its important to me to trust someone and know them first and have fun after you get to know them ,or while you get to know them ,I juss dont jump into it ,I like to take things nice and slow....I love to tease and eventually please.....LOL
<wink>

 

[Space Wrangler]

why oh why

I first started chatting in rooms about 5 1/2 years ago... stumbled on one at a porn site. I originally started chatting for the sex... lord knows I don't get it at home. But that seems to be a bond that many of us online have... the never ending search for happiness and fullfillment.

But as the years have passed, I have found that my time involved with the sex part has dwindled some and I spend more time making friends and involving myself in discussion. Chat has honestly taught me a lot both about myself and about human nature in general. It allows you to interact with people's minds without all the distrations of other superficial things most people dwell upon with other humans. Certainly there are a lot of "users" online who are only out to take care of themselves, without regard to any pain or damage they do to others, but sooner or later, their lines of BS show through and they fade away quickly.

I have met many wonderful people in my travels... made many close friends and seen some of them fade away into r/l obscurity... but I have fond memories of them. I have fallen in and out of love more times than any man should probably have a right to, but I still maintain good relationships with all of them that are still alive... and of that, I am very proud.

We humans developed communication, so that we could... and I find this place a very satisfying venue to do so... sometimes if I can't hear myself think, I wonder if I still am. I thank you all for making me to continue doing so...

 

[CarnalGerund]

Hello prettygrneyes

Well, i can tell by your name that you have one of my definite likes. Pretty green eyes.

I hope I'm not jumping to conclusions in guessing that "grn" stands for green. However, if you have pretty grain eyes, well, I guess that's OK too.

I've seen some of your other posts, and I think I'd like to get to know you a little better. And taking it slow is just my style. I'm leisurely, not hurried (usually)

PM me or respond here and let me know what you think.

CG

 

[Jewelz]

Great thread MissT! and i have really enjoyed reading people's replies. So i thought i would muster up the energy and give my reasons for "why"......

Erotica has always been a part of me. I have been with my husband for 14 years and needed to spice things up. He is a great lover, but I wanted to explore MYSELF....so I did a search on "sex stories" and up pops Lit. I click and am hooked to these stories. That was August 2001. I didnt know the boards existed at first, then I started reading threads about October or so. Never registered, was too "scared" of what, i have no clue.

The stories led to some beautiful love making and sometimes hard erotic sex with my husband. The more I posted after I registered in jan 2002, i was finding out so much about me and my own sexuality, wants, needs and desires.

I came here to be aroused, so I could then in turn become a sexier lover to my husband. I come here now in hopes of making some close friends that I can talk to about ANYTHING, doesnt have to be sex oriented. I come here to smile, to laugh, to vent, to be me. I love how I can be so open with who I am and its a good feeling that most Lit goers respond positively. It doesnt take much to get me aroused and I love being able to discover myself, express myself and "play" here. It is an outlet from the monotonous life I live. I am a stay at home mom and of course my "job" is 24/7.. I rarely get to get out of the house except to run family duties or be taxi mom. (not complaining).....I just find this a "safe" place for me to destress, relax, laugh, fulfill the needs as they arise and make some friends. I like that I can be REAL here. I am NOT looking for real life sex action to evolve...no matter how much i fantasize about others on here ..and what would happen if we met. But I love my husband too much to let anything happen. Thus the reason I am upfront to any "lovers" I have. And the plus of it all, is how different everyone here is but someone we come together in unity. My life has been so full of hurt and pain and I like that I have found a place to escape to. I would not turn down the chance to find a female soulmate, lover perse, I wouldnt be surprised if I 'fell in love" again, if i did find that special woman. or she found me. i would be willing to get close to her on every level...i think. for those who wonder why i would be with a woman but not a man..well, i think that is the "missing" part of who jewelz is...and my husband is fully aware of this. I find myself longing to be held by another woman, to have that unique connection.

Ohh and Mae....Im in south central Penn...would be sooo cool to have lunch with you! You could give me some photography tips!

Yikes...so sorry to ramble.

Lixx n love to all!

 

[RawHumor]

I just come here cuz I like flirting with cool chicks like Jewelz and MissT.


But sometimes I get sucked into meaningless political, religous, pop culture, or other debates... which help to raise your post count but often raise your blood pressure as well.

 

[prettygrneyes]

grn===green......

hey CG!
I would like to chat and get to know you as well....
wanted to let you know that the grn is green......Yes I do have pretty green eyes 2........<wink>
PM me ok......

 

[Jewelz]

I just come here cuz I like flirting with cool chicks like Jewelz and MissT.


But sometimes I get sucked into meaningless political, religous, pop culture, or other debates... which help to raise your post count but often raise your blood pressure as well.

I like flirting with you too! Although, its been awhile hasnt it? You are a great man, with a GREAT personality and sense of humor. I love that our the stem of our conversations are about real life, everyday stuff! take it easy with that blood pressure sweet man! lol

and PS, RH.....i read that post of yours at the playground...it really pissed me off to read the stuff you linked us to. GRRRRRR!!!! I think I will have to go support the sweet man ....sigh!

 

[Georgia Girl]

I came here looking for me and I found so much more.

What I want is all of the things noted except the fuck fest I suppose. As I have aged, I have lost my casual attitude to sex. I adore cyber and phone sex is outstanding. Like so many I would love to meet that special someone but its not a critical factor for now.

For now, I want to get to know others who like me are intensely sexual beings and are comfortable with that. I want to learn about things I haven't tried so I can place them on my "To-Do List".

I did not approach Literotica with an agenda, I just let it flow, what happens happens.

Dawn

 

[MissTaken]

Wow!

I am not sure how to reply to all of the responses. There are so many, a great variety as well as a lot of thought provoking stuff!

So, that being the case, if you feel I haven't responded to you, please, I did not ignore your post....I have thoroughly enjoyed them all.


For those that came for stories and look for lit to enhance their real life relationships, good show! I know it has done that for me, from time to time.

For those who are hurting, and seek companionship....I am glad to be part of something that can help....a little. I believe we have all escaped to litdom from time to time.

I thought of this thread, as I began thinking. When i originally came here, I posted on the personals boards looking for cyber and phone. Got lots of it too! Then, actually thought I might meet the love of my life here....hasn't happened yet.

Now...some days, I don't know what I want from lit and certainly, don't know what I want from posting on personals forums and sites.

*just a bit about me *

Thanks y'all...keep posting

 

[Jewelz]

I came here looking for me and I found so much more.

What I want is all of the things noted except the fuck fest I suppose. As I have aged, I have lost my casual attitude to sex. I adore cyber and phone sex is outstanding. Like so many I would love to meet that special someone but its not a critical factor for now.

For now, I want to get to know others who like me are intensely sexual beings and are comfortable with that. I want to learn about things I haven't tried so I can place them on my "To-Do List".

I did not approach Literotica with an agenda, I just let it flow, what happens happens.

Dawn

you are another person that amazes me Dawn......BIG HUGS sweetheart!

 

[GambitandRogue]

I too came here to liven up my life at home as a SAHM. I am very curious about many unusual sexual practices and I am a shamelss flirt.... Since I started coming here a little over 2 weeks ago, my eyes have been very opened and I have learned ALOT! Much of it sparks intense interest and some I wish I never knew LOL. I love the freedom of being here. For the most part everyone is very open and accepting so I feel totally uninhibited. For the first time I can open up and explore things that I wouldn't dream of IRL at the moment. I can ask things that i have always wanted to ask. I must say Lit has changed my sex life for the better

Rogue

 

[Throbbin_Rod]

Georgia Girl:

Sounds like we joined for some of the same reasons.

I joined recently as you can see by the number of posts. Part of me is looking for a cyber/phone/e-mail partner. Part of me is looking for a fuckbuddy. Part of me is looking for me.

There are things I crave that I don't get at home. Don't know if I'll find them here, but I have enjoyed looking. Even went so far as to submit a story. Don't know if they'll publish it or not.

Thanks for starting this thread Miss.

 

[twodogs]

Iknow one thing you will find here some of the best people you will ever meet.
They care yes i think we are all in here because it's not at the house or it didn't work out with someone but the good people in here will help

 

[MissTaken]

Welcome to lit, Throbbin Rod. (I dont' remember a welcome thread out there for you....so a hearty hello!)



twodogs: you rock.


rawhumor: I didn't neglect your sweet innuendo concerning flirting. I enjoy flirting with you too

Now, who is next????

More shopping lists please!

 

[Throbbin_Rod]

Welcome to lit, Throbbin Rod. (I dont' remember a welcome thread out there for you....so a hearty hello!)

Thank you Miss. I'm looking forward too seeing a lot more of you (among others) around here.

 

[cherrylips_au]

I didn't really have anything in mind when I came to this site other than enjoying myself.
Since being here I have learnt, shared, made new friends and re thought some of my own ideas.
What I'm looking for is proberly someone/s to stimulate me, connect with be it as friends or more and to continue learning about who I am and who I want to be.
Thanks to everyone thats shared so much of themselves on here, I do believe we all benefit from learning more about each other.

 

[xwprincess]

I'm always looking for friends.....

I'm also looking for e-mail & PM friends..

I would like to find Phone Sex friends,(which have only done a couple of times but I would like to try it again.)......

Besides that , I'm not sure...

I will do any of the above with Men & Women...I'm open to and would like new experiences(take this anyway you want).....


xwprincess

 

[ARaynes]

I am looking for people to talk to online, you know, tease and such. I am also looking for someone to explore my fantasies, i guess online roleplay about them.

I want to explore life to the fullest. Wanting to learn everything I can in the time I have left in this life.

 

[scubasteve]

What I want

ummmmm yeah........all of the above?

hehe......just kiddin.
I would love, breif encounters........but, I would really like a fuck buddy (to be blunt and maybe crude). ya know? someone who needs to fuck as bad as i do....or more.....someone who could call me or me call them and say...hey..whacha doing today?, wanna go soeplace quiet?........and .....ya know.....
I'm looking for serious and loving as well.....and if i find that someone first, then the other may well be history..

Love
Steve

 

[biker]

I mean, what do you really want?

We come to a personals forum for a reason. Some post their desires very clearly, leaving little room for doubt. Others post one thing , yet mean another. Others still, give us no indication concerning what they want.

So. do you want a three day hardcore fuck fest with a stranger you will never see again?

Are you looking for intimacy, love and all the fixings?

A fuck buddy to bail you out when life gets dull?

Phone sex?

Cyber sex?

Any particular tastes, desires, activities preferred?

What about those things you have never tried, but would like to?

Come on, folks. Let's dispense with politesse. Make a shopping list!!!!

All of the above!!!!!! And them some..Thank you very much!!

 

[twodogs]

want

Ok the truth want to start at her feetand and end up at there head turn them over and go agin stop for lunch on the way back

 

[Georgia Girl]

Thanks ya'll

I would hope that everyone who comes here, everyone I speak with, spend time with is as honest as I am. The person that I am here is the same one you would see if you walked into my office or stopped by my house.

Jewelz....darling you are outstanding.

Throbbin....you seem like a wonderful person.

Dawn

 

[cutie pie]

Re: Thanks ya'll

I would hope that everyone who comes here, everyone I speak with, spend time with is as honest as I am. The person that I am here is the same one you would see if you walked into my office or stopped by my house.

Dawn

I found out rather quickly that trying to pretend is more work than it's worth. I am open and honest with everyone I talk to privately and expect the same in return. I like to have fun, but I'm too old for games, ya know.

And Dawn, you are the epitomy of Southern hospitality! We could use some of that where I am!

 

[twodogs]

games

iknow what you mean on games i'm not here for a long time i'm here for a good time