What do you want????

[meop79]

Exactly...

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[alltherage]

Exactly...

Meop79@yahoo.com

Why thank you sweetheart.

 

[gooch]

All i want.

Well all i can think off at the minuet is vixenshe she drives me wild that picture she has on here posts just dose it for me. Sorry vixenshe dont mean no offence.

 

[twodogs]

want

AS i read down the post i can relate to so much of wnat people have been through and where yhey are now.
Some doing ok some very unhappy and lonely , but you know what you talk about it to us ,you listen to our problems and you can see hey i don't have something that can't be fixed in a matter of time, and fokes time is all we got, some of us longer than others.
But that does not matter on how much we got its we got it .
When i came in here i was as low as you could get ,but i found some of the most wondeful people on this earth , i've cryed with them and for them cause i see the hurt they are dealing with ,and you know it's no different than mine, but pulling together it helps a lot .
What i'm trying to say is this some of my hurt has eased a little thanks to the people that i have touched or they touched me.
I will never forget all of you , this is most enjoyment i've had in a long time,i love y'all

 

[Jewelz]

Loving yourself is the key and learning not to relive the same mistakes over and over again. I had to learn that the hard way.

I wish I could learn to love myself. I give sooo much of myself to make sure others around me are happy that I neglect myself mostly because I dont like me that much at all!

 

[Jewelz]

Great minds....

kisses and hugs, dear heart.

*blows you kisses*

 

[Jaenelle]

Re: want

AS i read down the post i can relate to so much of wnat people have been through and where yhey are now.
Some doing ok some very unhappy and lonely , but you know what you talk about it to us ,you listen to our problems and you can see hey i don't have something that can't be fixed in a matter of time, and fokes time is all we got, some of us longer than others.
But that does not matter on how much we got its we got it .
When i came in here i was as low as you could get ,but i found some of the most wondeful people on this earth , i've cryed with them and for them cause i see the hurt they are dealing with ,and you know it's no different than mine, but pulling together it helps a lot .
What i'm trying to say is this some of my hurt has eased a little thanks to the people that i have touched or they touched me.
I will never forget all of you , this is most enjoyment i've had in a long time,i love y'all

Well said TD, couldnt have said it better sweetie.

*huggles, kiss, kiss*
Jaen

 

[Ebonyfire]

Prince Charming?

then why can't reality be like the fairy tale............why can't i find prince charming.........and live happily ever after?

mayi

I gave up on Prince Charming years ago. And happily ever after? That wasn't even on the menu.

I've always thought those were images of perfection and fantasy. I think I would soon tire of perfection.

I decided to love an ordinary man, no Prince Charming, but he is the prince of my heart, and for me that is good enough. he may not be Prince Charming, but he is my knight in shining armor. He has his faults, but then so do I.

mayi, love is all around you, and soon you will find what you seek. Best wishes.

Ebony

 

[meop79]

I wish I could learn to love myself. I give sooo much of myself to make sure others around me are happy that I neglect myself mostly because I dont like me that much at all!

Oh sweety.... *BIG HUGS* I know all about that and it is a horible trap... but sweety How can you love others if you don't love yourself? Besides, you are beautifull and deserve ever so much more from yourself....

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[MissTaken]

In keeping with where this thread is going, I have seen many people look for self confidence and self respect by viewing themselves as others view them.

Don't fall into that trap. If you dont' feel love, don't feel unlovable.

If you have no one in your life reminding you that you are worthwhile and special, don't doubt that you are worthy and very special.

How we feel about ourselves has to begin from within. Loving ourselves enough to take care of ourselves, walking tall and proud to be who we are and being unafraid to love and trust can only lead to good things.

So, Jewelz, luv and all my other friends, finding love has to start from within. As has been said, love is all around you....be brave enough to reach out for it.

Ahhh the philosopher escaped! I better get back to flirting!

 

[greybeard]

escape is good.............

one does not let the philosopher out without having given it a lot of thought..............and having first turned inward and found out who we are........

oh, and an effective flirt comes from an inner strength and confidence that says that "I know who I am, and I feel good about it"............

MT, it's clear you are all these things................

greybeard

 

[Richard49]

Hemlock

Ahhh the philosopher escaped! I better get back to flirting!

Don't they make philosophers drink hemlock?

 

[ShiningEyes]

hmmm Is it to late to put what I really want down? I try to be as simple as I can but find myself turning out to be a very complicated gal! I think I want what everyone else wants at one point in their life! Someone as a friend, companion, lover, and much much more! I'd like to be able to find a boyfriend as a Master who will care for me and be with me for me! I'd like to find someone that I can really communicate with and be my bestfriend as well as boyfriend/lover/Master or anything else in that department!!!!! I really want love, romance, passion, and all the rest of it in one person that I can be with for a long time, if not the rest of my life!!!

 

[Richard49]

me me me

hmmm Is it to late to put what I really want down? I try to be as simple as I can but find myself turning out to be a very complicated gal! I think I want what everyone else wants at one point in their life! Someone as a friend, companion, lover, and much much more! I'd like to be able to find a boyfriend as a Master who will care for me and be with me for me! I'd like to find someone that I can really communicate with and be my bestfriend as well as boyfriend/lover/Master or anything else in that department!!!!! I really want love, romance, passion, and all the rest of it in one person that I can be with for a long time, if not the rest of my life!!!

I voluntar to try to meet these

 

[mayi]

am i asking for to much..........or am i just not looking in the right place........or it is that i am looking at all

mayi

 

[ShiningEyes]

I voluntar to try to meet these

*a sigh of relief* and I thought I might not ever find someone that could poss. try to!

am i asking for to much..........or am i just not looking in the right place........or it is that i am looking at all

Mayi, I could be wrong(of course there's a 50/50% chance I am lol) but I wouldn't think it's asking too much. It's more or less where you look and having the patience for the results! I've alway been told that time will tell everything! Patience is a key in finding what you want or need! I've also heard, the harder you look the less likely you'll get what your looking for. *S*

 

[vylette]

just looking

me???...well i am just looking... for what i have no idea...i stumbled into chatting about 6 months ago from boredom...and maybe a bit of lonliness...and somehow from meeting some online buds found literotica....i guess i will know what i am looking for when i find it...right now i have made a few online friends and i have like it so i guess that is a good start...

 

[Ebonyfire]

I agree

[
"B]In keeping with where this thread is going, I have seen many people look for self confidence and self respect by viewing themselves as others view them.

Don't fall into that trap. If you dont' feel love, don't feel unlovable.

If you have no one in your life reminding you that you are worthwhile and special, don't doubt that you are worthy and very special.

How we feel about ourselves has to begin from within. Loving ourselves enough to take care of ourselves, walking tall and proud to be who we are and being unafraid to love and trust can only lead to good things.

So, Jewelz, luv and all my other friends, finding love has to start from within. As has been said, love is all around you....be brave enough to reach out for it."


We all have love within us. All we have to do is just let it flow from within. There are several quotes that mention the fact that you attract what you project.

I really believe that is true. I notice when I am loving myself particularly well, I attract more love and goodness into my life. Yes I get down and depressed, but after taking some time to acknowledge those feelings, I let go of the negative feelings, and go back to that loving space. I find I start to feel better.

Ebony

 

[twodogs]

self

WEll i understand the part about loving yourself and it's importain to have that ,but for me i don't get a whole lot out of that.
Now i talk to myself everyday that i'm going to be happy , hell i've created my own little world but i'm the only one in it ,and if you talk to your self to much people look at you a little strange.

 

[Huntress]

I seldom post to the Personals Forum, sticking mostly with SRP, but I confess to a shameless desire for "guru-hood". With that in mind I started looking for a couple of threads that I could post to... and I stumbled on yours, MissT. "What do you want????" is a question I've been asking myself a lot lately.

Seems you appreciate candid and succinct responses, so I shan't dissemble or ramble!

1. Friendship
2. Company
3. Stimulation (both creative and sexual)
4. Opportunities for self-discovery
5. A RL liason... or maybe a partner... nah, better to leave such fantasies to the ORP forum.
   [/list=1]
   ~ H

 

[Jimi]

MissT - Y'all ARE indeed special!

In keeping with where this thread is going, I have seen many people look for self confidence and self respect by viewing themselves as others view them.

Don't fall into that trap. If you dont' feel love, don't feel unlovable.

If you have no one in your life reminding you that you are worthwhile and special, don't doubt that you are worthy and very special.

How we feel about ourselves has to begin from within. Loving ourselves enough to take care of ourselves, walking tall and proud to be who we are and being unafraid to love and trust can only lead to good things.

So, Jewelz, luv and all my other friends, finding love has to start from within. As has been said, love is all around you....be brave enough to reach out for it.

Ahhh the philosopher escaped! I better get back to flirting!

Most philosophers are shameless flirts , in my experience.

As to liking or loving, oneself... "fake it till ya make it" comes to mind - The positive image projected is EVER so much more attractive to the Other...

 

[MissTaken]

Re: MissT - Y'all ARE indeed special!

Most philosophers are shameless flirts , in my experience.

As to liking or loving, oneself... "fake it till ya make it" comes to mind - The positive image projected is EVER so much more attractive to the Other...

Take it from someone who knows me and knows what I need....

even when I am not so sure.

Jimmi!

I like your post, but really will be happiest when the positive image meshes with the Other....

Huntress? Thank you for posting, I am sorry I missed earlier. I have read your posts on SRP and can only say.....Wonderful!

 

[Huntress]

Re: Re: MissT - Y'all ARE indeed special!

Ah, MissT!

Nice to see you again. Last time we crossed paths was on the Rooftop. The encounter was all too brief.

<blush> Thank you for the perhaps undeserved compliment. I'm a novice and still terribly self-critical, although I keep sluggin' away at those threads. <grin>

Your question was truly one I've been pondering lately. Responding gave me an opportunity to "see" the possibilities. Thanks!

~ Huntress

Take it from someone who knows me and knows what I need....

even when I am not so sure.

Jimmi!

I like your post, but really will be happiest when the positive image meshes with the Other....

Huntress? Thank you for posting, I am sorry I missed earlier. I have read your posts on SRP and can only say.....Wonderful!

 

[MizTabby]

quote:
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Originally posted by MissTaken
I mean, what do you really want?
* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *


What I want is one thing, easily acquired on the multi-faceted pages of Lit, now what I need is a whole nother story

I've had many memorable moments on Lit, both on the Boards and in the chat rooms; I wanted to meet like-minded people and be able to express my more intimate self without fear of being criticised or ridiculed, and I've made some really great friends, been able to show my funny side sometimes, also exchanged some meaningful thoughts and engaged in some rather steamy situations, gosh but this place works wonders for my libido!!
But I've also wanted to meet that "special someone" who'll accept me for who I am, flaws and all, in much the same way I'd like to be his first mate, pamper him, make him feel like the best thing since sugar (I looove sweets!) and just spoil him rotten.
Many of the responses here reflect much of what I want, and I'm thankful for such sincere and frank discussions, I hope everybody gets some of what they want and need

edited for quote

 

[kwiz]

what do we want?

I just imagine we all come here for different reasons. But for me I just love to read all the posting's at least most of them...lol
#1 I'm looking for like minded people
#2 maybe a local for fun
#3 just a place to vent and fantasize
thats about as close to a list as I get.