What does the inside of a pussy feel like?

[CoyoteTales]

Sex. It's not just what's between her legs!

If you're wearing a condom -- and you SHOULD be wearing one unless one or both of you are 'fixed' -- it won't feel like a whole lot of interesting in some ways. (Erm. Soapbox mode off.)

It's more of a friction versus ambient lubrication thing with some amount of pressure and heat. Yes, some women are tight enough to grip you, and some of them have done exercises to where they can do it on command.

What matters more (IMHO, very IMHO) is the bigger picture. What her whole body feels like under you or over you, instead of the X inches that are temporarily in one of her openings. When you make love to a woman, you're taking the whole thing, not just the bit between her legs. They have toys for just that if that's what you're into the most.

You want the best sex of your life? Make love to her. Not her insides. Find out whether she likes to be licked or bitten, and where. Find out whether she likes slow, gentle kisses or hard, deep ones, or a combination of the two depending on the tempo.

Sex is a dance. It's a slow dance that turns into a slam dance somewhere in the middle. It's a 'got to put your hands in the right spots on her' sort of contortionist's game of naked Twister. It's a performance art in that if you do it right, you can play her like she's an instrument -- and no instrument is played like a slide trombone without pushing other buttons.

You want that storybook, oh-my-god-I-can-feel-her-orgasming-around-me ending? You have to stoke her fire by working with all her erogeneous zones, because good sex is a whole body experience involving the most sensitive organ in the body--- and I'm referring to skin.

The more stimulation and arousal you can apply to her -before- you plug yourself into her, the wetter she'll be. Foreplay leads to moreplay, as the saying goes.

A dry, unaroused vagina is hard to get into, due to the general lack of lubrication. It causes the poor woman -pain- as you try and bash your way into high-friction territory. If ya mistreat a partner that way, even if you lube up first, she's not going to enjoy it, and if she doesn't enjoy it, you won't enjoy it because nothing spells 'uncooperative partner' like one who thinks you're just not interested in winding her up in the good way.

Trust me on this one. Impatience does not serve you well at all in bed.

Seduce the woman, not the parts, and if you succeed, then you'll really enjoy it when you finally get into her. -Especially- if you know she wants you in there.

Hope this helps, and sorry if it sounds like I'm preaching a little. But having had a lover who I really, really, learned how to run hot and hard and -screaming- in the good way by the end? I'd wanted to pass some of that memory along, since I'm no longer with 'er.

-CT

 

[CWatson]

Here's something else that might help.

http://www.xvideos.com/video618109/cnn_cam_live_from_pussy

It's a British documentary that went where nobody had ever gone before by actually attaching fiber-optic cameras to various locations on the body during intercourse. The documentary itself is called "A Girl's Guide to 21st-Century Sex" and is actually available in its entirety on YouTube, as well as more prurient sites.

 

[Sammysub07]

W.o.W I don't think I could have ever imagined coming here for first time "what does it feel like advice." I could have seen myself reading "first time" stories. I'm a find out for myself kinda person though. I mean no disrespect, this just surprised me as there are many answers all over google.

 

[fgarvb1]

Oh, hey...on a side car to this subject part of the whole experience is that the many of the females of our species are unpredictable .

True they do sort of fall into several basic categories when they get naked and some do change a lot over time, but I'm talking like Forrest Gump and his box of chocolates thingy.

You never know what you are going to get. Sort of like this...

One woman hit me on the arm and called me an idiot because I asked her if she enjoyed it at all because she suddenly was like... spaced out looking and all still.

Said she was cuming so hard she could not move or make a sound.
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Encountered one wild woman that I damed near needed a bull riding rope to stay in her.

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One who shrieked so much and so loud it was distracting...fuck I was worried someone would call the cops!

Same thing with another one who cried out very loud to God when she came. that one bless her had some Loooong orgasms.

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Some scratch, bite and or pull hair, mostly finger nails in the back or ass.

Totally worth it.
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Had one light up a smoke. Claimed she liked to smoke when she was having a good time. We had a little talk about that.

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And lets not forget the fuck and run ones who can't seem to spend the night.

The good news is they like having sex with you and you have their trust.
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There are a hell of a lot more but maybe some one else would share.

 

[silverwhisper]

infinity quoth:
i would like to ask, how long "long term" is, though. five years seems to be long term by a lot of people's standards and i think there's a rather good chance i'll have 3 of them concurrently within a few months.

that's a fair question. let me explain why i said that, though.

practically every day, someone starts a new threat here saying they've been in a relationship and the sex has changed. it's either less frequent than it was, or it's gotten stale, or sometimes, the partner has realized their needs are changing.

in these instances, it's clear that people's sexual behaviors don't remain static.

that's where i'm coming from here. hell, the way my wife & i have sex/make love/do the nasty has changed over the 2 decades+ we've been forming the beast with two backs. IMX, how a given two (or more) people have sex tends to morph over time.

this obviously isn't the case for you and hasn't been your experience. and i'm not trying to suggest that somehow, i might know better than you what the sex in your relationships is like. i mean, i can be kinda confident about some things, but that's a whole other kinda cocksure. :>

anyway: my apologies. i realize in retrospect my previous post sounded patronizing and dismissive. you respond to things on the basis of your experiences and if yours are different, they're different.

sorry, man.

ed

 

[infinity706]

I'm not upset or anything. I just wanted to know how long "long term" is. Of course, there's been sex changes in all my longer term relationships. It isn't always bad, though. Sometimes, it even goes up in freqency or freakiness. Being poly is definately an advantage in that way, though, since it takes some of the pressure off of everyone involved. Assuming I wanted more sex, less sex, or something one of my partners didn't want, the answer would be have sex with someone else.

It's not like I ever intended to paint poly as all upside or something for everyone, though. I just think everyone should have at least some exposure to everything, so they can make a real choice, rather than just doing whatever the crowd is doing. It's not like I only promote kinky sex either, though. I promote sports, food, movies, television, games, music, politics, and anything else I happen to be involved in. I pretty much always do at least some arguing for the undefended side, though, even if I'm just playing devil's advocate. That just doesn't really show in How To because nearly every thread is either sex or something I don't really have an answer for. It's not like an opinion on which appliance brand is best is very helpful when my answer is whatever one I can find at a thrift store for $10.

 

[guitar123]

Anal sex is a no-no for me.