What fantasies do you desire the most or that stimulate you the most ?

[vandelayatx]

Anything with feet.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Yes

I was raised by a sexy single mom

 

[DaddyLovesKitten]

What fantasies do you desire the most or that stimulate you the most ?

As long as it isn't one of my own hard limits, exploring whatever fantasy my partner likes.

Generic cop out answer, I know, but

I got into erotic spanking because a woman really really wanted me to do that.
Giving her that which she wanted, safely, in a manner she found pleasurable, did things for me as well. Now I've got a lifelong fascination with this activity as well. I get pleasure from her getting pleasure and getting in that submissive sexy feeling mood where she's just up for anything.

Enthusiastic eagerness for most any sexual activity that comes next, is very erotic to me.

I got into anal play / licking / toys because that was a girlfriend's kink and I was able to safely explore this with her. Very fun. Very erotic. Now it's on my list of things I can find fun if my partner finds it fun.

Also, all of these immediately become not fun for me if my partner doesn't enthusiastically love them. If its not getting a big reaction, it's sort of like licking her purse. It doesn't do anything for me or her.

I'm a simple man at the end of the day, I like the old penis in vagina sex around the end of the foreplay, which is most of what we do.

And that's fun for me because I'm a stubborn orgasm to getting to have one at all is a blessing

Having one with my partner staring me in the eyes and giving enthusiastic consent for me to keep going is extremely erotic.

Being stared down by your partner encouraging you to keep on pounding and cum for her is crazy amounts of fun.

And then there's cuddles and kissing after, it's crazy. Solo masturbation doesn't give me 1/100th the pleasure actual sex does.

For some things you just need the comfort of another person. Simple fantasy, really boring, I know.

For me, it's the most exciting thing in the world. besides we already did all the really kinky stuff first. So when we finally get to the non kinky sex it's erotic and different. and intimate, given everything else we just shared.

 

[bekarcouple]

I completely agree with you. My husband and I participate in many sexual activities, but if one of us isn't very aroused, the experience is different. Simple moments, just the two of us, are when we can truly connect with each other, and those remain the best moments of sex.