What I like

south_florida_bicur said:
or should I say what I wish for


My gawd that was a hot photo. I really love shaved cock. How I wish I could have been the one to wrap my lips around that one.
 
about big dicks

That thing is just scary, I don't care what hole he's trying to put it in. But I guess it goes to prove my belief that for a lot of people, their walk on the wild side never leaves their fantasy world. In fantasy, huge cocks never hurt your asshole or make you want to gag so badly you feel like puking.

In real life, the only person who's going to be able to accommodate a cock that big is someone whose asshole's been fucked so often that he probably has trouble with bowel movements. Ever seen a picture of an asshole like that? I have and it's somewhere between grotesque and frightening.

I guess this sets me off so much because I really have been fucked, by several cocks (fortunately not enough to distend my sphincter). Give me a normal- to slightly below-normal-sized guy every time. Sure I want to feel him inside me, but unless he's got a micropenis, that's never been a problem. My main fuck buddy, the one I've had for years, is thicker than average, and I have to plan beforehand if we're going to fuck, i.e., he's going to fuck me-- basically, I wear a butt plug for an hour or so before we start, which opens me up enough to take him without pain. When I do that, we both have a fine old time. It's still a challenge for me to take him without pain-- I have to work at relaxing, not just my inner and outer sphincters, but my whole body. It becomes as much a spiritual as a sexual thing, something along the lines of what that former ballet dancer wrote about in "The Surrender;" a great read, by the way, for anyone who's interested in anal sex, because she pulls no punches and withholds no details.

By contrast, my FB's asshole has been fucked enough that it is somewhat distended. It's still a good ride for me, better than the pussies of most women within 15 years of my age, but I can tell the difference. I really just prefer that he suck me off.
 
ars_amatoria said:
That thing is just scary, I don't care what hole he's trying to put it in. But I guess it goes to prove my belief that for a lot of people, their walk on the wild side never leaves their fantasy world. In fantasy, huge cocks never hurt your asshole or make you want to gag so badly you feel like puking.

In real life, the only person who's going to be able to accommodate a cock that big is someone whose asshole's been fucked so often that he probably has trouble with bowel movements. Ever seen a picture of an asshole like that? I have and it's somewhere between grotesque and frightening.

I guess this sets me off so much because I really have been fucked, by several cocks (fortunately not enough to distend my sphincter). Give me a normal- to slightly below-normal-sized guy every time. Sure I want to feel him inside me, but unless he's got a micropenis, that's never been a problem. My main fuck buddy, the one I've had for years, is thicker than average, and I have to plan beforehand if we're going to fuck, i.e., he's going to fuck me-- basically, I wear a butt plug for an hour or so before we start, which opens me up enough to take him without pain. When I do that, we both have a fine old time. It's still a challenge for me to take him without pain-- I have to work at relaxing, not just my inner and outer sphincters, but my whole body. It becomes as much a spiritual as a sexual thing, something along the lines of what that former ballet dancer wrote about in "The Surrender;" a great read, by the way, for anyone who's interested in anal sex, because she pulls no punches and withholds no details.

By contrast, my FB's asshole has been fucked enough that it is somewhat distended. It's still a good ride for me, better than the pussies of most women within 15 years of my age, but I can tell the difference. I really just prefer that he suck me off.

Just a few comments.

1) I never liked bottom when I did do it (before 1986). It didn't matter the size, it just wasn't me.

2) I have LOVED topping since I first did it. I took to it like a fish takes to water.


Most of the problems I had were with guys who were size queens. I think part of the enjoyment for the bottom is whatever head trip is in their particular head about the encounter. If it is about some hung guy, then no matter how good a non-hung guy tries to accomodate their needs (slow, fast, foreplay of rimming/fingering, etc) they may just not enjoy it because their head is turned off that your penis isn't up to their ideal.

I will say that some guys are looser than others, but i don't think it is a function of how often an individual gets fucked. I'm sure lots of things play into it:
1) muscularity of that region of the guy.
2) the typical size of a guy's bowel movements. (I am not trying to be gross, but I'm sure it plays a role. If a guy pigs out and typically produces Lincoln logs, he most likely won't be very tight.)
3) How much he streaches the limit.

The only really lose guys I know were some that were into fisting big time. When you see anal openings that look almost like they are popping out, that is typically the case. You cannot put fists, feet, etc in your ass multiple times and expect to be tight like a virgin. I'm sure the same holds true for women who have given birth verses those that haven't.

Finally, I think it is VERY commendable that you enjoy average or smaller cocks. My self-esteem no longer gets shattered based on not being a hung top. At my age and the fact that I'm now just with my guy who is completely happy with my cock, not being hung isn't something I worry about anymore.

For many years it did bother me. It was especially tough because I got many non-bottom guys into bottoming because they knew I liked it and that I was polite and paid a LOT of attention to what they needed. I would do just about anything to get someone to let me fuck them: rim, finger, 30 minute back rubs, stop if they lost interest... I was a bottom man's man so to speak...

Some of those guys got so they liked it so much that they wanted to go on to bigger cocks. At the time it really hurt, but in hindsight it is better to let people move on to what they might really want than to have someone hang onto you who really wants something else.
 
Wowzers

bi golly said:
I like the way the bottom in this video moves his ass after the top first enters him.

http://www.youporngay.com:80/watch/11784?user_choice=Enter

Okay... I don't know about all of the detail the last two posts were chatting about... but I was given a massibe erection by this video! GAWD I want to get nailed just like that... If I wasn't str8 with a GF I'd go out and do it too!!!
 
Whoa!

noise said:
I like this
http://www.youporngay.com/watch/8178

the bottom is cute and the older guy has a nice looking cock

WHOA!

Okay this one does it for me too!!! I'm a younger guy into older hung men... and man would I love to be taken by the top in this vid. I think it's the way he thrusts his hips!!!

Another massive erection and JO session coming on here!
 
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