Aphro
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Only once?
In all your life?Was that by choice, or because you've not been on the receiving end of very good blowjobs?
What is a blowjob?
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Only once?
In all your life?Was that by choice, or because you've not been on the receiving end of very good blowjobs?
JuliaHandel
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Agree with Jessica. IMO, a blow job isn’t over until the giver swallows. She/he needn’t swallow it all, but his semen mostly goes in her mouth, not on her face. In a hand job, he ejaculates while she/he is holding his penis. I don’t have a term for a personal favorite, the Come BetweenThe Tits. But all of the above are fun if the man is enjoying himself.
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It's a mixture of things. No, I haven't come across many exceptionally skilled women in this regard but I suspect that this was more a function of the fact that most of the women that I've been with were using oral as foreplay and wouldn't have wanted me to cum. They wanted to get fucked. I can't blame them for the fact that they wanted cock. I mean, it isn't like they're going to cum from giving me a blowjob and frankly, I would have felt kinda bad about it had I orgasmed without giving them what they wanted first. Which I suppose is a little messed up. It's not like my recovery time is a day and half or something. I mean, I would be happy to give oral as long as they wanted and doing so would undoubtedly have put me in the mood again so they would have gotten the whole treatment as it were. But also, when I was younger I too kinda viewed getting head as foreplay so I'm sure part of it was the fact that I never just laid back and let her finish the job.Only once?
Was that by choice, or because you've not been on the receiving end of very good blowjobs?
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Aphro
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Yeah, true, she's not going to cum from giving head, but it sure is nice to give your guy that sort of pleasure once in a while. Yeah, sometimes it can be just to get him hard, but I would not want to ONLY use oral on him for that reason.
I'll give my husband a BJ earlier in the evening to completion so as to take the "edge" off of him, with the hope and expectation he will last longer later on when we do fuck. When I give the blow job, there is no expectation that I am going to cum...but boy, later that night, he sure shows me his undying gratitude. What goes around, comes around.
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Blowjob To Completion
I voted for oral stimulation of the penis. If a blowjob required the guy to cum, then the phrase 'blowjob to completion' would contain redundancy. Oh, what is this intellectual question doing on Literotica? LOL
I voted for oral stimulation of the penis. If a blowjob required the guy to cum, then the phrase 'blowjob to completion' would contain redundancy. Oh, what is this intellectual question doing on Literotica? LOL
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This seems like a good strategy to me...I'll give my husband a BJ earlier in the evening to completion so as to take the "edge" off of him, with the hope and expectation he will last longer later on when we do fuck. When I give the blow job, there is no expectation that I am going to cum...but boy, later that night, he sure shows me his undying gratitude. What goes around, comes around.
For me it's the word itself in question "blowjob". I'm not concerned with any other phrases or words. I just thing the word "job" indicates something that is finished.
Ok..so here's another question. How long does the cock have to be in your mouth before you call it a "blowjob"? 5 seconds? It's still oral stimulation, right?
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But, you get up every morning and you go to work, you go do your job. If "job" indicates something that is finished, then why do you have to keep going back to work? And, by this measure, if a blowjob is work, shouldn't the performer be getting paid?
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As I said earlier, I was thinking more along the lines of a short term service...like building a deck or painting a house or maybe driving someone's car across the country for them. As far as getting paid is concerned, no, it doesn't have to be something you get paid for. You can do a good job of mowing your grass or mulching your landscaping but no one is paying you to do it. But I do get that this is a relative concept...if that's what you're driving at. We are arguing semantics after all.
But as I just asked, would you consider having a man's cock in your mouth a few seconds a "blowjob"? If it's just oral stimulation of the penis one quick lick could be considered a blowjob...
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NippleMuncher
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I'm just giving you a wee bit of poo, semantically speaking.
If we're gonna put a stop watch into the mix . . .
A few seconds or a quick lick can hardly be considered a blowjob, hell, that can't even be considered a tease. Although, considering that we all have different stamina, duration and definition of said BJ is more up to the owner of the cock than any set duration.
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Now that's an argument I can use
That is not under dabate...I daresay that your point isn't even debatable.
Boo...hiss!
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As I said earlier, I was thinking more along the lines of a short term service...like building a deck or painting a house or maybe driving someone's car across the country for them. As far as getting paid is concerned, no, it doesn't have to be something you get paid for. You can do a good job of mowing your grass or mulching your landscaping but no one is paying you to do it. But I do get that this is a relative concept...if that's what you're driving at. We are arguing semantics after all.
But as I just asked, would you consider having a man's cock in your mouth a few seconds a "blowjob"? If it's just oral stimulation of the penis one quick lick could be considered a blowjob...
It is semantics.
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Yup. And clearly when I make bets where "blowjobs" are a part of the wager I need to be more specific...It is semantics.
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In any job, no matter what it is, you are expected to finish it.
As far as I'm concerned, a blowjob is a finished product.
As far as I'm concerned, a blowjob is a finished product.
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Sucking the cock and nothing more.
Both are good!
My wife and I do this every night. We go to bed at 11:00, turn on the local news and play with each other for about 30 mins. I scratch her back and play with her ass and she plays with my balls and cock, usually ending up by sucking on me for 5-10 minutes. I seldom cum, but enjoy it just the same.
This has been going on for years.
She often gives me BJs and I do cum, it's just not required for us to have fun.
My wife and I do this every night. We go to bed at 11:00, turn on the local news and play with each other for about 30 mins. I scratch her back and play with her ass and she plays with my balls and cock, usually ending up by sucking on me for 5-10 minutes. I seldom cum, but enjoy it just the same.
This has been going on for years.
She often gives me BJs and I do cum, it's just not required for us to have fun.
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To me, it is stimulating my lover, with my mouth, tongue and hand(s) until he orgasms. If it isnt to completion, I regard it as foreplay. IMHO.
