What is it with younger women liking older men?

I think I'm attracted to older men because guys my age are usually immature, or they seem like they don't know what they're doing or just spend their time with me looking at their phone or playing a game. Been meeting with the same older man all summer with his wife's permission, but it took some getting used to having her around like that. He has some weird quirks though that I think most older men probably have. Like during sex he wants me to say "please cum inside my pussy daddy" or some mix of words similar. Well, it was weird at first, but now I feel like a pro.
 
during sex he wants me to say "please cum inside my pussy daddy" or some mix of words similar. Well, it was weird at first, but now I feel like a pro.
He has Daddy issues...

I took a look at your profile, realized that what's probably an older man to you is a mere child to me...
🤷‍♀️

I love your username.
 
I'm late 50s and last year had a FWB thing with a girl of 32 who chatted me up in a bar.
When I told her my age she just shrugged and said I don't look it, don't act it and she didn't care, so I'm not really sure if it was an older guy thing at all!
 
I was 38 and was fooling around with 19 for a while. She was amazingly hot. I think she liked that I was a boss man
 
In the last year, I’ve had at least 5 or 6 women in their late twenties to early thirties hit on me. It happened again today. Like, they openly hit on me. They didn’t hide it. Has it always been this way? I never remember younger women hitting on older men when I was younger. It just wasn’t a thing…that I know of.

I mean, I have gray stubble so I don’t look young at all. I always thought when I got this age, NO younger women would ever even look at me. I find it flattering but my mind is perplexed. It seems like something has shifted in the universe, lol. Are older men in style these days? What’s happening?
I gotta say I've been wanting to ask about this in here but wasn't sure how to approach it without sounding s4lf obsessed. 63yrs old, greybeard , not especially attractive, but i regularly interact with the staff in my local supermarket ( its the only human interaction I get, so go easy on me ) and I'm sure at least 3 of them are flirting with me. 2 in early 20s ( single ) , 1 mid 30s ( attached with kids ). Maybe I'm wrong and they're just friendly but I've been out ov action so long I've got no fuckin idea what to do if anything...
 
i regularly interact with the staff in my local supermarket ( its the only human interaction I get, so go easy on me )
I'm with you there
and I'm sure at least 3 of them are flirting with me. 2 in early 20s ( single ) , 1 mid 30s ( attached with kids ). Maybe I'm wrong and they're just friendly but I've been out ov action so long I've got no fuckin idea what to do
I'm with you there also. But if they've volunteered that they're single, that in itself seems like a pretty good indicator that they might be open to meeting outside work, in a safe environment. (I'd guess the one who said she's attached is assuming you'll take that as a No.)
 
One of the ones that’s now moved on actually complained to me often about being single , dropping thinly veiled comments about “ needs “ but the fear of being branded “ weird “ or whatever is mortifying.. so looks like I’m resigned to the fantasy!
 
it’s always the cute younger women at my work that are the nicest and seemingly flirtatious. I’ve always chalked it up to them viewing me as the unthreatening, approachable “old guy.”
Yes: You're a "nice-guy" to them. This behavior doesn't sound like they actually like you or want you.
 
I think there are younger women who are into older men in the same way there are younger men into older women. The possibility of sex with a partner where the age difference is significant -- let's say at least 20 years -- makes it a societal taboo and possibly erotic. I don't think there's a real mystery here. I was once infatuated with a high school Spanish teacher. I would have fucked her brains out if given a chance. There was a family friend older than my mother by about a year. I would have done the same if given the chance. And, in my 30s, there was a younger co-worker who seemed to make advances on me. She was hot. It was tempting, no doubt. But it didn't seem right. So I didn't do anything about it.

That said, I've been fortunate enough to make love to ladies older than me. Two were about 10 years older than me. One was 20 years older than me. They were great lovers. Truly wonderful. I'm grateful I didn't miss the experience.
 
I don’t think it has to be some big psychological thing.

Sometimes it’s just practical. Sometimes it’s just attraction.

Sometimes it’s just no-hangups.
 
In the last year, I’ve had at least 5 or 6 women in their late twenties to early thirties hit on me. It happened again today. Like, they openly hit on me. They didn’t hide it. Has it always been this way? I never remember younger women hitting on older men when I was younger. It just wasn’t a thing…that I know of.

I mean, I have gray stubble so I don’t look young at all. I always thought when I got this age, NO younger women would ever even look at me. I find it flattering but my mind is perplexed. It seems like something has shifted in the universe, lol. Are older men in style these days? What’s happening?
A gentleman is sexy af
 
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