What is it with younger women liking older men?

I don't know. I've never experienced it. I went to grad school late in life, and had multiple close (women) friends there. *Very* friendly. Affectionate; touchy, even. Unless I tried to cross an invisible line. Then the barriers went up, the <friend zone> lights started flashing — until I backed off a bit, away from that line. Then we were back to good friends again.

So I guess I've never experienced whatever it is the OP is talking about. Or course for all we know his idea of an “older man” is 40... :unsure:
Well, I’m 47 and the girls hitting on me are late 20’s to early 30’s.

And no, I’m not bragging or trying to sound conceited. I’m just shocked younger girls want older men. Hell, I could be their dad
 
Well, I’m 47 and the girls hitting on me are late 20’s to early 30’s.

And no, I’m not bragging or trying to sound conceited. I’m just shocked younger girls want older men. Hell, I could be their dad
I'm in my early 60s and I've noticed some of this, too. Younger women seem more aggressive today than they were decades ago. I do think that attraction between younger and older partners continues -- no matter the years, the decades or the centuries.
 
I'm in my early 60s and I've noticed some of this, too. Younger women seem more aggressive today than they were decades ago. I do think that attraction between younger and older partners continues -- no matter the years, the decades or the centuries.
60!?! You’re just a kid! 😊
 
I'm in my early 60s and I've noticed some of this, too. Younger women seem more aggressive today than they were decades ago. I do think that attraction between younger and older partners continues -- no matter the years, the decades or the centuries.
I'm in my 70s and in rehab recovering from surgery. One particular married nurse is all over me
 
I'm in my early 60s and I've noticed some of this, too. Younger women seem more aggressive today than they were decades ago. I do think that attraction between younger and older partners continues -- no matter the years, the decades or the centuries.
That makes sense I guess. My wife is 45 and she likes older men in their 60’s. She finds them attractive. She has a couple of guys in their 60’s she talks to regularly.
 
Because we are more mature and refined. We know how to treat a lady! And respect them. My last gf was 30 years younger ( I am 66) and loved my maturity and how I treated her like a princess
 
When I was younger (in my late teens and 20s) I simply hated how obnoxious and annoying guys my age were. Even the ones I shared interest with, they were also pervy in a creepy way and not in a they have kinks, but in they thought it was okay to talk or do things to women that weren't okay. Now that I'm in my mid 30s I find men my age have finally grown out of that and I enjoy that the way I find older men attractive. But I could never imagine being interested in a 20 something year old guy.
 
When I was younger (in my late teens and 20s) I simply hated how obnoxious and annoying guys my age were. Even the ones I shared interest with, they were also pervy in a creepy way and not in a they have kinks, but in they thought it was okay to talk or do things to women that weren't okay. Now that I'm in my mid 30s I find men my age have finally grown out of that and I enjoy that the way I find older men attractive. But I could never imagine being interested in a 20 something year old guy.

There is something to be said about that. Men mature slower than women, which is one of the reasons -- although not the only one -- they often perform better in school than men and boys. I have two young adult sons, and I'm sure they're not as mature as women the same age.
 
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