what makes the perfect body?

[candyflossbaby]

So what is it that makes the perfect body?
are men bothered about excess fat, dimples, cellulite and stretch-marks? Does it make a difference when you're in the throws of passion?
Maybe it's all about the confidence one tends to hold...
share your thoughts and lets see what makes both men and women beautiful and desirable.

x

 

[raiguy]

As a man, I look for things that are more intrinsic and tell me about a woman better than just her body. Smile, eyes, hair, hands, and posture play a huge role in whether or not I find a girl attractive. If you have a smile that lights up a room, or eyes that contain so much depth and warmth, or hands and a posture that show you are sure of yourself, and/or hair that accentuates your facial features, then I find you very attractive. A body doesn't make a woman, the woman makes the body. As a male though, I look at her ass as well. I'm an ass man, and love a nice ass, so that's also a good thing. But honestly, not a whole lot bothers me if a girl is confident in herself and her looks, and shows that by her posture, eyes, smile, hair, and other features.

 

[raiguy]

As a man, I look for things that are more intrinsic and tell me about a woman better than just her body. Smile, eyes, hair, hands, and posture play a huge role in whether or not I find a girl attractive. If you have a smile that lights up a room, or eyes that contain so much depth and warmth, or hands and a posture that show you are sure of yourself, and/or hair that accentuates your facial features, then I find you very attractive. A body doesn't make a woman, the woman makes the body. As a male though, I look at her ass as well. I'm an ass man, and love a nice ass, so that's also a good thing. But honestly, not a whole lot bothers me if a girl is confident in herself and her looks, and shows that by her posture, eyes, smile, hair, and other features.

Wow, sorry for the double post, but I kinda rambled there. sorry for that if it was too long or not what you expected.

 

[candyflossbaby]

that is exactly the kind of thing im after knowing. the more detail the better
i like to think tht more guys think like that. a lot of women these days feel insecure because they dont look like all of those pretty people on tv, so i wonder, is that the kind of person ppl are expecting/wanting these days?

 

[BotanyBoy]

. But honestly, not a whole lot bothers me if a girl is confident in herself and her looks, and shows that by her posture, eyes, smile, hair, and other features.

This^^

I would also like to add healthy life habits, I find it attractive when someone takes care of themselves from food choices to personal hygiene, it's important.

Superficial flaws are inherent to any human being who has lived life...they bother me not.

 

[Lily13]

To be honest I don't think marks matter when in the throes of passion. It's all in the feeling at the time.

As far as the body goes, I think it's all in how you carry it. You can have a gorgeous body and be very self concious. You can also have a body that's a little off in your own mind but if you carry it well and with confidence, it shows.

 

[raiguy]

To be honest I don't think marks matter when in the throes of passion. It's all in the feeling at the time.

As far as the body goes, I think it's all in how you carry it. You can have a gorgeous body and be very self concious. You can also have a body that's a little off in your own mind but if you carry it well and with confidence, it shows.

exactly! couldn't have said it better!

 

[candyflossbaby]

I would also like to add healthy life habits, I find it attractive when someone takes care of themselves from food choices to personal hygiene, it's important.

Superficial flaws are inherent to any human being who has lived life...they bother me not.[/QUOTE]

This is good. I'm glad ppl r takin into account personal hygiene and health as well as genetic looks. I'm curious about artificial things too, for example, what affect does it have if the woman is quite fake, with the hair extensions, nails and fake tan...what about cosmetic surgery?
keep them coming guys!
XXX

 

[Sensualdreamer]

There's no such thing as a perfect body.

If a guy can't accept a woman for her good qualities as well as her imperfections -whether it be stretch marks (aka tiger stripes -RAWR baby ) or some other trivial imperfection - then that guy doesn't deserve to have a woman in his life.

Mini Rant:
It's amazing how as little girls we really don't struggle w/ body image. It seems that it isn't until we hit puberty that we suddenly start thinking that we're not pretty/beautiful/special, etc., We somehow think we need to measure up to what the media says is "beauty".

Pick up any typical woman's magazine and you'll see articles suggesting that a woman needs to
lose weight, look younger, have a guy in her life, dress sexier, etc.,

These articles are well meant, but it comes at a price to a woman's self esteem. Suddenly she sees herself as not being good enough, and will strive to reach that level of perfection where she'll be accepted, but at that point another article comes out to say she now needs to reduce the appearance of cellulite, make her breasts look larger, and her ass more shapely.

 

[candyflossbaby]

i love how u call them tiger stripes. it adds a sexy tone to something a lot of people wouldnt think of in that way.

 

[Pinktacokitty]

The eyes of the beholder make the perfect body.......If he sees you as perfect you are perfect to him, that is all that is important...One mans perfect body may not be the next mans perfect body.....

 

[livin1971]

The eyes of the beholder make the perfect body.......If he sees you as perfect you are perfect to him, that is all that is important...One mans perfect body may not be the next mans perfect body.....

Agreed 200% I have been attracted to all body types, races, color of skin. I think sexiness is more a mental thing with me if a woman finds herself sexy I will too.

 

[Sensualdreamer]

i love how u call them tiger stripes. it adds a sexy tone to something a lot of people wouldnt think of in that way.

Haha yeah I mean they're (to me) what sets women apart from the girls.

 

[fire_breeze]

More than a body, it's about one's nature and how they interact with those around them.

A healthy body that shows that he is enjoying life. Although everyone knows that I lust after Vin Diesel, if he can't sit down and enjoy chocolate with me without worrying about going over his carb allotment, then it does not matter if he has a beautiful body, it's not perfect. If someone is healthy, has what society deems a few extra pounds but enjoys life, then that's the perfect body.

Now, if Vin Diesel does not worry about his carb allotment and will enjoy that chocolate... well, that's an entire story altogether.

 

[marln]

that is exactly the kind of thing im after knowing. the more detail the better
i like to think tht more guys think like that. a lot of women these days feel insecure because they dont look like all of those pretty people on tv, so i wonder, is that the kind of person ppl are expecting/wanting these days?

Forget the people on TV. I like real people.

Most of the attraction is the mind, personality.

 

[simpletimes]

A woman's body is and will forever be a great work of art to be appreciated and honored, loved and respected.
But it is not the body, but the mind and heart that give us beauty.
Perfection is not in looks it is in thoughts and words, gestures and grace.
Sure there are some very beautiful bodies in the world, but give me the beautiful mind, spirit & heart.

 

[peekingone]

The mind makes it perfect. Without the mind what does the body type do. At least for me.

 

[raiguy]

Hmm, I like that women haven't weighed in on their own perfect male body, or at least very few have

 

[ks_sculptor]

The perfect bodyis defined by the soul residing inside it. There are many women with bodies that don't fit the prototypical model body that are far sexier because of how they carry themselves, how they feel about themselves, and how they feel about others "checking them out"

Jon

 

[Latina49]

Man or woman...the combination of an active mind, an active body and good soul

 

[NymphMyosotis]

A beautiful mind makes a beautiful body. Without it a body is just an empty shell, no matter how pretty. Charisma, now that's more like it!! I like a bit of character! Feel like a million bucks and you'll look it!!

 

[lothwen]

Everyone here has had some great insight. IMO, the "perfect" body does not exist because we all have our own ideas as to what that means. Personally, I like a man who takes care of his body but isn't obsessive about it. It's not going to impress me that you have a 12 pack or whatever if all you do is spend your time at the gym. And also, please don't say anything about what I eat or how much time I spend, or don't spend, working out.

 

[TheSilverLining]

For me, attraction isn't about the physical. Generally a bloke is a bloke and a woman is a woman.

It's what's going on between a person's ears that gets me - the mind, the personality. That's what attracts me to someone.
Generally I find that if the mind turns me on, then so does the body. A natural progression of sorts, I guess. If I'm attracted then I'm attracted!
I don't look at random men on the street and think "I'd like to fuck him" - that's just not how i work.
*shrugs*

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[candyflossbaby]

I don't look at random men on the street and think "I'd like to fuck him" - that's just not how i work.
*shrugs*

[/broken record]

this is the attitude i would like to think most people have.
lets think about it from a different angle, what is it about the mind that attracts you. for me, its very much sense of humour and their ability to amuse me even in rough situations.
and any man that plays with my hair is a winner in my book.

 

[flirtygirly]

the perfect male body:

my personal preference is not someone who is too skinny. i don't mean athletic and toned. I'm talking someone with no meat on their bones.

other than that he's got to be cuddly, sexy, adventurous, flirty, sweet, and preferably strong.

his shape and size (body and penis) don't have to be humongous, he just needs to know how to turn me on, make me feel hot, and even make me blush with spoken words.

and if he's a little bit perverted, yay that's a bonus!!

so i guess it's not just the body, it's everything about the person that draws you to him.