What reason has someone given you to end an online relationship?

[Hipshot1554]

Way back in the day I had an online FWB type deal with a somewhat older guy that I crossed paths with on I believe it was a body mod forum. We chatted mostly about sex and traded pics a lot but also talked about regular life stuff too. Never any expectation of meeting IRL or anything, and we’d actually chat about the guys I dated at the time. He said he didn’t really date and just enjoyed being on his own. It was really fun and I had a lot of affection for him and thought he felt the same. He eventually dropped the bomb that he was married and used chatting with me as a means of getting turned on enough to bang his wife that he was no longer attracted to.

That sucked.

Maybe you could just think of that as a compliment?

 

[HampshireBoy]

Funnily enough I had a look at the email account that I used to use and found a recent email from an old online friend. We used to exchange fantasies as well as having a long term roleplay going, several years ago when I was single. However we also talked about real life, we were both divorced and both would like a real life relationship. We never got to the point of meeting, even though we didn't live that far apart (partly because of the age difference, she is about 10 years younger). In RL life she is a legal secretary, in the the roleplay we both worked in an office - she was my boss. This went on for nearly 2 years then she just stopped responding to emails, texts and phonecalls and her facebook account was deleted.

Now 5 years later, out of the blue, there is an email "Hi, do you want to step into my office?" - no explanation, no "hi, how are you?" just a continuation...

I am tempted to ask why she ghosted me and what has been happening in her life but to be honest I would rather just let it go, I am over the rejection and have no need or wish to go back.

 

[MelissaBaby]

Way back in the day I had an online FWB type deal with a somewhat older guy that I crossed paths with on I believe it was a body mod forum. We chatted mostly about sex and traded pics a lot but also talked about regular life stuff too. Never any expectation of meeting IRL or anything, and we’d actually chat about the guys I dated at the time. He said he didn’t really date and just enjoyed being on his own. It was really fun and I had a lot of affection for him and thought he felt the same. He eventually dropped the bomb that he was married and used chatting with me as a means of getting turned on enough to bang his wife that he was no longer attracted to.

That sucked.

Not a bed of roses for the wife either.

 

[ryfgirl19]

Maybe you could just think of that as a compliment?

I’m much too attached to the whole “straightforward” thing to see it that way.