What the hell…Chilly’s little spot on lit

Sometimes I wonder why I’m still here at lit. Afraid to let go of something comfortable? Still get the occasional ego boost? Hoping maybe I’ll find that magic again?

I try to be honest about what I’m here for, I try not to let other’s expectations define me. I try not to feel bad for not being what someone else wants.

And sometimes I overthink everything cause really who the fuck cares what I think and why do I think it’s about me 🤦🏻‍♀️
I find myself wondering the same things and have very similar thoughts. Let us know if you have any revelations, yes? I respect collective wisdom.
 
Sometimes I wonder why I’m still here at lit. Afraid to let go of something comfortable? Still get the occasional ego boost? Hoping maybe I’ll find that magic again?

I try to be honest about what I’m here for, I try not to let other’s expectations define me. I try not to feel bad for not being what someone else wants.

And sometimes I overthink everything cause really who the fuck cares what I think and why do I think it’s about me 🤦🏻‍♀️
I understand this so well!!!
Hugs!!!
 
God I wish, I feel your pain, she doesn't want me touching her, I'm lucky to get a hug and that's only once or twice a year, when I'm going fishing or hunting with my buddies.
Before my ex husband left we were only affectionate before/after he was away for work. One of his last trips I leaned forward to kiss him goodbye and he put his hand on my face and pushed me away. I gave up being affectionate after that.
 
I woke up today with an expectation of feeling... different some how. I am an experiential person and milestones like the transition to the New Year have meant something to me in the past... but not this year. I reflected and moved past feeling disappointed and into a fresh space I wanted to share.

We don't need an arbitrary day like today to make resolutions or expect magic. EVERY day has the potential for growth and change! The difference between hope and sadness is something we create and discover inside of us; a choice we can make every single day. So don't feel disappointed today or discouraged. Make today and every day this year a place where you can grow and change and thrive. 😊
 
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