What the hell…Chilly’s little spot on lit

So I had a profile on Facebook dating for a little bit but I took it down. Last night I got a little curious and put it up again. I’ve gotten lots of “likes” but no matches.

One guy…you could smell him through the picture. He smelled like cigarettes and old dirty kitty litter boxes. I’m sure there’s a woman chained up in his basement.

Another guy was a tattoo artist in Delta Junction. That town is known for meth labs. He looked like he licked walls and maybe was in a cult.

I pulled my profile. I just can’t. I need to get out of this state. There’s like 10 guys for every 1 woman but as the saying goes “the odds are good but the goods are odd.”
Oh, gosh 😬

Have you matched with your ex, though? Mine is on dating apps, I can’t get myself to join them because I haven’t decided if I’m ready for that entertainment from the male species yet..but Facebook dating always comes up now on my app and I’m terrified to match with him on that or just in general. It would be just my luck 😂
 
So I had a profile on Facebook dating for a little bit but I took it down. Last night I got a little curious and put it up again. I’ve gotten lots of “likes” but no matches.

One guy…you could smell him through the picture. He smelled like cigarettes and old dirty kitty litter boxes. I’m sure there’s a woman chained up in his basement.

Another guy was a tattoo artist in Delta Junction. That town is known for meth labs. He looked like he licked walls and maybe was in a cult.

I pulled my profile. I just can’t. I need to get out of this state. There’s like 10 guys for every 1 woman but as the saying goes “the odds are good but the goods are odd.”
Shit cracked me up.
"He looked like he licked walls and maybe was in a cult". 💀😂
 
Laugh! I certainly did! My coworkers did!

I know I’m not a Victoria Secrets model but damn I thought I could do a little better than I did 😂

One guy was bald on top but long sides and back..,and then one long patch on his forehead…like a limp unicorn horn! I joked about cuddling on the couch as I twirled that piece with my fingers 😂😂 Dude was married and looking for a side!
Oh my.
 
Oh, gosh 😬

Have you matched with your ex, though? Mine is on dating apps, I can’t get myself to join them because I haven’t decided if I’m ready for that entertainment from the male species yet..but Facebook dating always comes up now on my app and I’m terrified to match with him on that or just in general. It would be just my luck 😂
Thank goodness my ex is in Texas and we’ve blocked each other on all social media! But I’ve matched with a couple of his friends and/or coworkers 😬

I don’t know if I’ll ever actually date cause right now it just doesn’t seem worth it. I have great toys that don’t disappoint me!
 
Thank goodness my ex is in Texas and we’ve blocked each other on all social media! But I’ve matched with a couple of his friends and/or coworkers 😬

I don’t know if I’ll ever actually date cause right now it just doesn’t seem worth it. I have great toys that don’t disappoint me!
😅🤣 Hard to compete with that! Dating is dumb hard anyways. Not that it should be, but you have to deal with so much bullshit and boys in men's bodies...
 
I can totally relate to this! Especially when I have the morning shift.
So I had a profile on Facebook dating for a little bit but I took it down. Last night I got a little curious and put it up again. I’ve gotten lots of “likes” but no matches.

One guy…you could smell him through the picture. He smelled like cigarettes and old dirty kitty litter boxes. I’m sure there’s a woman chained up in his basement.

Another guy was a tattoo artist in Delta Junction. That town is known for meth labs. He looked like he licked walls and maybe was in a cult.

I pulled my profile. I just can’t. I need to get out of this state. There’s like 10 guys for every 1 woman but as the saying goes “the odds are good but the goods are odd.”
😂🤣 I laughed so hard at his!
You make it sound like you live in the Gold Rush time, when all the bad male specimen crawled out from under their stones to find easy money.

I know I’m not a Victoria Secrets model but damn I thought I could do a little better than I did
😂
I'd say you are wrong there! You look great and is a very sexy woman!
Duh I grew up Mormon!

And lots of Manson looking guys up here 🤷🏻‍♀️
And I was curious about Alaska as a tourist.....but now.....:oops:
 
🫂👍🫂🌹
You're a tough lady Chilly. I took care of my mom for 13 years just to have her tell me I was never a good son before dying.
You've got this kiddo, you're tougher than you realize.
 
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Quick vent….my dad had a bad head injury summer if 2023. Then he was diagnosed with the beginnings of early onset dementia. Most days he’s fine but evenings are hard and he definitely has certain triggers. Getting in and out if the car sets him off. Putting on his seatbelt though is the worst and of course he doesn’t want help and I understand that. But he gets frustrated and starts cussing and slamming around…like a toddler having a temper tantrum. If I try to calm him down he yells at me and gets mean. Another trigger is when he forgets a word. He looks at me and if I don’t know what he’s trying to say he cusses at me and says stuff like “what good are you anyway.”

Most days I take it in stride cause I know it’s not him. But some days it triggers me. Tonight it triggered me. I find myself wanting to leave. Just go. Cut myself off from them. But I can’t do that. I’m the only one to take care of them. UUUGGGGHHHHHHH!

(And no sad faces. Life is good, I’m happy…I’m just having a moment.)
 
Not quite there yet and he’d be even worse. Most days really are fine. Yesterday was just a very long day. Honestly it really was just a couple hours last night. It just hit harder yesterday for some reason.
Just keep doing what you know is helpful to take care of yourself. And remember that it's not just about his quality of life moving forward.... it's also about YOUR quality of life.
 
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