Olderwiserstillhorny
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I needed that therapy on triggers right after my divorce. I was unable to forge a healthy relationship afterwards until I understood some my triggers (when I eventually went to therapy) and how to work through them. I am still a work in progress on this.In therapy I learn about my triggers…where they came from, how to recognize them, how to work through them. My biggest one is abandonment and it’s funny cause it’s not just relationships, it’s everything! Changes at work, changes in my routine, and of course changes in relationships.
On one hand it’s great being able to recognize it and talk myself down. It’s really humbling too…seeing how easily I can be rattled. This morning I was struggling with it on my way to work. Caught myself falling into old habits the last couple weeks. It was easier when I could ignore this stuff lol BUT it’s better to recognize and work through it.
Morning thoughts brought to you by ice fog, coffee and a text message from last night![]()

Big hugs from Sweden!In therapy I learn about my triggers…where they came from, how to recognize them, how to work through them. My biggest one is abandonment and it’s funny cause it’s not just relationships, it’s everything! Changes at work, changes in my routine, and of course changes in relationships.
On one hand it’s great being able to recognize it and talk myself down. It’s really humbling too…seeing how easily I can be rattled. This morning I was struggling with it on my way to work. Caught myself falling into old habits the last couple weeks. It was easier when I could ignore this stuff lol BUT it’s better to recognize and work through it.
Morning thoughts brought to you by ice fog, coffee and a text message from last night![]()


Love that one my dear. I feel that way at times.
Yes, behaving is no fun!
I like this extreme version of turning lemons into lemonade!
I could go for all of that
It’s the simple things.I could go for all of that
It is always the simple things in relationships that are missed the mostIt’s the simple things.
Happy New Year!Happy New Year, Chilly! I hope 2026 brings you love & joy!
You know...it really IS !!!!It’s the simple things.
Yes! Happy New Year!Happy New Year!