What the hell…Chilly’s little spot on lit

Somebody put an expiration date on my friendship today. Said if we didn’t meet in person after 3 months that it was over because I wasn’t real.

I confirmed that we were not in a relationship. That we were not monogamous. That we were just flirty friends.

I ended the phone call cause I didn’t even know what to say. I felt so insulted. I just don’t understand people.
Expiration date belong on food, not friendship. Sounds like they prefer to possess, not know people. I'm glad you stood up for yourself, beautiful.
 
Somebody put an expiration date on my friendship today. Said if we didn’t meet in person after 3 months that it was over because I wasn’t real.

I confirmed that we were not in a relationship. That we were not monogamous. That we were just flirty friends.

I ended the phone call cause I didn’t even know what to say. I felt so insulted. I just don’t understand people.
What!? :oops: That is so insulting that I don't know were to start! :mad:
 
Just curious, why would you not want to meet in person after 3 months? At least you guys moved your conversations off of Lit and to the phone.
I’m not ready to travel and I live in Alaska so it’s not exactly easy or cheap. I didn’t meet him on lit. We both agreed we were just looking for friendly conversation cause we’re both coming off a divorce. After texting and talking on the phone he suddenly decided we *had* to meet. I said maybe eventually…no need for a timeline just play it by ear…we’ve only talked for a week. I don’t understand his demand for three months or we can’t be friends. And honestly at this point I don’t want to talk to him anymore.
 
That's crazy to expect someone to hop on a plane and meet to be just friends. That sounds like a big red flag!
Though, do you think it's unreasonable to set a boundary to either move conversation (that's been more than friendly) off of Lit or end it completely after chatting with someone online for 4 months?
I think it’s best to let things happen organically.
 
Yeah, then this clearly wasn't right. I mean, every bone in my body felt like it was, but I was also starting to feel like I was nothing more than an internet fantasy. I guess I'm just a fool...an incredibly heartbroken fool!!
Not a fool, it's easy to be something on here that we're not in reality. As you said, gotta watch those red flags.
 
“I’m a witness to my own crimes.”

I feel that.
You are by charged with:
Count 1, being a good person
Count 2, not giving up
Count 3, have a cute smile
Count 4, standing up for yourself.
Count 5, I'll think of something sooner or later. 🤪

Witness shall be hugged, loved and checked in on to make sure you don't leave.
 
You are by charged with:
Count 1, being a good person
Count 2, not giving up
Count 3, have a cute smile
Count 4, standing up for yourself.
Count 5, I'll think of something sooner or later. 🤪

Witness shall be hugged, loved and checked in on to make sure you don't leave.
You are really too kind to me. Thank you ❤️
 
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