What to do? *Freaking out here*
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funandnaked
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Thanks for all the replies.
I came home fairly drunk last night. Liquid courage. Told him off. He made some comment about how he was surprised I didnt drag someone home with me. Jerkass. Anyway the floodgate was opened after that. Told him that the only reason he wasnt about to be homeless was because it was cheaper for me to keep him around for the few weeks we have left. ANd he wasnt going to jail because I didnt want my parents wasting their money, time, or effort on his sorry ass. He's not worth it. Or worth the pain and shock of finding out WHY they were having to help him. (id be ok telling mom, but i cant hurt my daddy like that. And shed tell him if i told her. so oh well.) I also told him if i even suspected he had another inappropriate thought, not only would he be taken to jail, but me and my little sister would both get restraining orders, and he'd never be allowed around the rest of the family again. Id tell everyone he knew, worked with, and especially his boss.
Then i emptied the dirty litterbox into his bed. (I knew there was a reason i hadnt changed it in so long.) Its the sand kind. Extra messy. Childish i know. BUt hey, made me feel better.
His reaction? Shock. He didnt say anything. I could tell he was pissed about the cat litter, but he kept his mouth shut.
My best friend, who i'd confided in, also just let me know he let the air out of all my brothers tires. haha Someone's gonna be late for work.
Thats the best i can do for now im afraid. Threaten him. I will make good on them if he crosses me though. And i think he knows that. There just really isnt enough time for me to move someone else in here. A month. I'll tough it out. But im going to make it extra uncomfortable for him, more so than he has for me. Im gonna start packing. Anything he uses regularly will be the first to go. Hes been informed that unless he paid for the item in full, he's not allowed to touch it. This includes all furniture, dishes, and washer and dryer.
I came home fairly drunk last night. Liquid courage. Told him off. He made some comment about how he was surprised I didnt drag someone home with me. Jerkass. Anyway the floodgate was opened after that. Told him that the only reason he wasnt about to be homeless was because it was cheaper for me to keep him around for the few weeks we have left. ANd he wasnt going to jail because I didnt want my parents wasting their money, time, or effort on his sorry ass. He's not worth it. Or worth the pain and shock of finding out WHY they were having to help him. (id be ok telling mom, but i cant hurt my daddy like that. And shed tell him if i told her. so oh well.) I also told him if i even suspected he had another inappropriate thought, not only would he be taken to jail, but me and my little sister would both get restraining orders, and he'd never be allowed around the rest of the family again. Id tell everyone he knew, worked with, and especially his boss.
Then i emptied the dirty litterbox into his bed. (I knew there was a reason i hadnt changed it in so long.) Its the sand kind. Extra messy. Childish i know. BUt hey, made me feel better.
His reaction? Shock. He didnt say anything. I could tell he was pissed about the cat litter, but he kept his mouth shut.
My best friend, who i'd confided in, also just let me know he let the air out of all my brothers tires. haha Someone's gonna be late for work.
Thats the best i can do for now im afraid. Threaten him. I will make good on them if he crosses me though. And i think he knows that. There just really isnt enough time for me to move someone else in here. A month. I'll tough it out. But im going to make it extra uncomfortable for him, more so than he has for me. Im gonna start packing. Anything he uses regularly will be the first to go. Hes been informed that unless he paid for the item in full, he's not allowed to touch it. This includes all furniture, dishes, and washer and dryer.
silverwhisper
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while i think that the cat litter was a bit much, it's good you confronted him and it's in the open. however, i urge you not to drink much until he's no longer in your home.
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i'm sorry to say that the only thing all that is going to get you is an asshole pissed off and hell bent on retribution. if he's half the prick you say he is i'd expect him to retaliate.
i'm sorry but it's beginning to sound to me like the two of you need to move back in with your parents until you can clear up disagreements in an adult manner. i know it's tempting to put cat litter in his bed and flatten his tires but when you're dealing with an irrational, sophomoric freak like him you should expect to have even worse shit slung back at you.
i'm sorry but it's beginning to sound to me like the two of you need to move back in with your parents until you can clear up disagreements in an adult manner. i know it's tempting to put cat litter in his bed and flatten his tires but when you're dealing with an irrational, sophomoric freak like him you should expect to have even worse shit slung back at you.
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For someone who is suppose to be an adult, you sure as hell don't act like it. The cat liter, air out of tires and coming home drunk to tell him off is something I'd expect out of a 16 year old girl. You've lost all sympathy from me because I think you both need help.
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High drama queen alert.
im outta here.
im outta here.
funandnaked
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I know what i did was childish. Although the tire thing, not my doing.
Im just scared and confused and sickened. Anything i do is going to have repercussions. The more serious my action, the more serious the reaction. It was just an impulse. Im cleaning out the cat box, im pissed, so i think "why not". Im tired of this shit, i just want it to go away. I know if i persue it like i should im gonna have to deal with it longer. Yes. Im passive-aggressive in a major way. Im just trying to think about everyone else i guess. I dont want anyone else involved. I should just suck it up and get out as soon as i can, and no one else will have all the grief that i've had over it.
He's not going to do anything to me. He's scared i'll let the big secret out. And maybe i will, once im in the clear. If i kicked him in the balls like i should, THEN he might react physically.. and he's bigger than me.
I just dont wanna deal with it. Yeah i know... "then why ask?" Cuz i was freaking out.
Im just scared and confused and sickened. Anything i do is going to have repercussions. The more serious my action, the more serious the reaction. It was just an impulse. Im cleaning out the cat box, im pissed, so i think "why not". Im tired of this shit, i just want it to go away. I know if i persue it like i should im gonna have to deal with it longer. Yes. Im passive-aggressive in a major way. Im just trying to think about everyone else i guess. I dont want anyone else involved. I should just suck it up and get out as soon as i can, and no one else will have all the grief that i've had over it.
He's not going to do anything to me. He's scared i'll let the big secret out. And maybe i will, once im in the clear. If i kicked him in the balls like i should, THEN he might react physically.. and he's bigger than me.
I just dont wanna deal with it. Yeah i know... "then why ask?" Cuz i was freaking out.
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